44 Best Places to Meet Eligible Men …
Places to Meet Eligible Men become more and more scarce these days. Heck, even eligible men as they are have become a rare species. And what do we single ladies do about this? Well, my guess is it can go 2 ways – either we sit and wait for the good men to sweep us off our feet or we simply take the first step toward our destiny and check out the best places to meet eligible men to see if our future boyfriends or husbands might be there? Well, if you are like me and you are choosing the second option, let’s get ready for some action and take a quick look at this fabulous list of 44 Best Places to Meet Eligible Men!
1. The bar

This may be one of the oldest ways to meet a man, but it still works. Free flowing beer makes it easier to approach your target! However, if ‘commitment’ is on your mind, then look elsewhere!

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What you wrote is true but its not only for men. Woman have the same problems. I am the opposite of you ..married twice and I was the good one. It happens and I ... See more dont believe God punishes anyone maybe its just not your time or you just have not met her yet. I have children and that sometimes I think makes it alittle harder. But just so you know your not alone in your journey.
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I am so sorry to hear about your story! I know it feels like love is a losing game but more often than not, you will find love when you least expect it. ... See more Don’t lose hope. You sound like a wonderful man and any woman would be lucky to have you. I promise you there’s someone out there :)
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and if you’re looking for a seious relationship where do ... See more you go?
by the way most guys on plenty of fish are just looking for sex
first, no matter men/women, you have to be open and ready for dating. meaning your ... See more not self-absorbed in your own world, and you have your own life/issues under control.
second, do things you love doing – that way you’ll meet others similar to you. if you love getting drunk, then, yeah, a bar works for you. you’ll meet other drunks there.
i volunteer(ed) a lot cause i really like being able to help others out. i met my wife while i was volunteering in her class. we got married in less than a year after meeting each other. 8 years later, 2 kids + 1 on the way, things are still cruising along.
oh yeah, and for your 14 great places to meet men (women in my case) – i agree – these are all great places to meet men/women. but i really think if you can do something where you can build a personal relationship first and get to know them, then ask them out, in my case anyway, it really works out a bit better.
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I guess you can meet your soulmate anywhere! :)
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… good luck, lol… cant believe noone has written a ... See more article using it yet… Just started thinking about it today when my older aunt asked me a good place to meet a guy… so did a google search… I would also throw in the idea of being a bartender or waitress at a golf corse
Thank you for that suggestion. Hopefully, the single guys there are not gambling addicts. Hehehe.
We really appreciate how you took time to expound on this. It really helps to get a guy’s point of view on this kind of thing.
Sometimes it’s just about timing you know. Also luck! Some women are just luckier than the rest of us. I guess we just have to be patient :)
Like you said hun, it IS a waiting game and sometimes it sucks but it’s worth it at the end. :)
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You better get out there. You’re not likely to find a responsible man on a women’s website. Hehe. But I do hope you join us again.
I do remember my man telling me that if I want ... See more something, I should make it absolutely clear to him. He’s not a mind reader nor does he always pay attention to my body language. So I absolutely understand the first point you made. I also agree that men are more used to rejections than women, being that they’re the ones who are usually expected to make the first move. Even though I’m a woman, I never learned to wait for a man to make the first move so most guys I dated, I asked first. It has made me sort of familiar with the scary feeling at the beginning. So when girls on here ask me about wanting to ask a guy out, I usually tell them to just go for it! Hahaha.
Another scenario. My boyfriend who is now an ex going to 4 months now. I asked him out. It was a pleasant experience when I did because at least I knew how he felt too. His response when i first asked him out was, “hey I was going to ask you the same thing.” It was sweet. Of course, I would’ve been ok with the opposite too. Another incident that I thought was lame, was a few months before this ex. I asked a guy to go dancing with me. His response was”I don’t think my girlfriend will like that.” then we went on to say, “you should’ve asked me 2 months ago.” What does that mean?. If he really wasn’t interested, just say so, nothing personal. See, that’s why I think overall, when it comes to men, I’m clueless. so, at times, i take a break, let the universe do it’s course. I love men! Re-phrasing this comment……….men are beautiful, nobody is perfect. But, where am i going wrong. Maybe, for me, it’s just not the right time. my point & 2 cents though………men need to man up just a little bit here. “wish i can recreate a miracle”
Why should you let go of a perfectly good guy just because you are afraid to make the first move? :)
To you, my single ladies, goes my heart!!! It’s tough waiting for someone you don’t know for certain will come your way. I’ve had 4 bf up till now and something ... See more was always wrong with each one of them! Duh if we aren’t together. lol This is low but i can’t help thinking that what if i never meet the right guy or any guy for that matter?! So i keep calling my ex trying to make myself believe that maybe i could tolerate him… after all it’s better than being lonely :P another shocking thing i’m going to tell you is that i’m only 21 and yes you are thinking oh please girl go have fun… I’m not confident at all! that’s the problem! At first men are attracted to my looks but then my insecurity pushes them far away and forever! Men love confident women!
Maybe the tips in this post can help you out:
http://allwomenstalk.com/12-best-ways-to-improve-your-self-confidence/
And hun, try to enjoy life even if you don’t have a guy in your ... See more life. I know getting disappointed sucks (I just went through a break up), but sooner or very much later, you will realize that there’s so much to enjoy by yourself or with family and friends. But there’s no need to rush yourself. Take time to recover. I wish you the best!
I’ve only ever been with one guy, and after five years I found out about the numerous girls he’d been with and lies he’s told. My question is: how do I know if I’m getting back into a similar relationship? How can I tell the douchers from the genuine?
Dating is so frustrating!
Dating is never easy sweetie and honestly, there is no way to tell if you are with a douche or not until something actually goes wrong. Instinct is usually your best friend. If ... See more you think he’s up to something and have enough reason to believe so, he probably is. You’ve got to ask yourself if you are genuinely happy with this person. If the answer’s yes, that’s pretty much all that matters! :)
I am a firm believer that the getting to know someone is the best part of dating even if it takes 25 dates. i feel liek with online dating your picking out a dog that is cute. there is no personal level, no getting to know someone level. call me old fashioned maybe, i am not sure.
I know bars honestly are a big place to meet single people. i laugh every boyfriend i had was from a bar BIG MISTAKE. Like my father says the only people who sit in bars every night drinking are the rejects that no one wants. I am not saying all people I am stating be careful of the place you go to, the ratio to men types of men who go, etc.
i was told, volunteering and believe it or not hobbies shooting, fishing, basketball, bowling leagues are becomming huge!
i totally agree with u. internet dating is a danger zone because he knows dat he has a chance to get girls that are better than you anytime and that make him to ... See more be unstable. same thing with the bars, now seriously how many girls does he buy drinks and take numbers when he’s out. girls try some else if ur looking for serious.
What you’re pretty well saying is ... See more that the men that sign up on dating sites can and/or will most likely not only be [online] dating you alone, but rather, more than one woman at a time. That happens with guys you meet at a food drive as well.
Anyone can go on the internet, so yes, you may be a firm believer of getting to know someone on a personal, face-to-face level…but are you completely sure that they aren’t one of those men that you just turned your back on for online dating?
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If actively searching is not working for you, then maybe you need to embrace your singleness and enjoy life. Then again, I don’t know your story, ... See more so who am I to say that? I guess my point is, just try to enjoy your life for now… with or without a man.
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