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Hi there, I think my guy friend is gay. Well I've known for him about 6 months and I really want to go out with him. Yet he talks in a soft voice but flirts with me like crazy...my parents say he's gay and I shouldn't waste my time with him. He likes to Cosplay as much as I do, he talks about gay stuff( he jokes about it), and likes to go shopping , etc. But, he will try to hold my hand or hint a relationship here and there or he'll try to poke me or play around with me. I don't get it , maybe its just me being paranoid, a guy has never been this close to me before. When we talk he'll answer my question with a question or with a joke, and there will be times he stares into space when I talk to him and he looks at everything else. Like today I was talking to him at the mall and he was just watching this guy walk by, he wasn't necessarily checking the guy out but just staring...it freaked me out. (not that I'm a homophobe which I'm not) I ask him many times if he's gay and he tells me he isn't and gets mad at me for even bring it up. He also talks about kids, not having them but adopting them. I don't know if that's a hint that he might be gay. :( I don't know if I am being tedious about him being gay because I like him or because my parents say he is and they've convinced me to thinking that...I really need help I want say that he's gay so my parents can leave me alone. And I'm hoping he's not....

Dear Alicia, I think if the guy says he is gay, it's either: a. He truly is gay b. Or he wants the girl to think he is gay (not to hurt her feelings etc.) In either way, it's better to find another guy who is 100% straight :)

hi.. im just wondering if my boyfriend is gay.. we're together for 5 months now.. personally, i don't think he is but i really noticed some gestures that well, other people may think that he is gay.. he usually covers his mouth when laughing ALWAYS.. he is really not that manly in walking but he does not walk in one line.. his favorite movie is stardust. he is not that fashionable.. he is very slow in eating, i usually finish first before he does.. our married guy neighbors told my parents that they think he's gay.. i hope you can help me with this.. im a bit confused.. he had 4 girlfriends already.. and had flings.. he opened up all about it to me.. he also make love with them.. so do you think he is gay? thanks..

heyy.. iv been in such a difficult situation and sort of the same as what some of the girls on here have also said.. i was with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, complicated at times and on and off, as we couldnt bare the fact for being seperated from each other.. but yeah about 7 months ago, he had told me he was gay… completely crushed me? but at the same time confused me a lot, as he did not show any sign of being gay at all. i cant help but still have feelings for him as he has been my first love and first of everything and he says same for me? thats why it had been so hard for him to just walk away ... anywhooz, .. as this was a surprise to a lot of the people he is close to, especially me, could this possibly be just a phase..? we have such strong feelings for each other, but can't seem to get this issue resolved..

i have this guy who is very close to many guys and he cant even get rid to one of his friend who is known to get paid for service.. you know, gays are everywhere and some guys are being wise and abuse guys who are paying for just a sex activity.. But Ive read lately that once a guy had sex with the same sex, he falls to bisexual curious type. And then, there are times and most of the times, my guy and this guy are fond of joking around about gays things. They even tease each other to be gays and i just dont undersatnd and it made me think of something hidden issue between them. There are some instances too that makes me realizes he spends more time withhin guy friends. But the only thing and really make it a dilemma for me is that, he is very active in bed with me. And I can make HIS hard in seconds too but who really knows?. I can be cover up too like what every other girls are thinking.

hi, i have a question. i think my best friend is gay. i've asked him many times, he says he isnt (known him 5 yrs). he takes more than an hour to get dressed, he is VERY feminine, honestly, the reasons i think he is gay is too enormous, plus his best friend is bi, and messes with him, telling him he fingered him while he was asleep and more (lol) and he allows it, he just says ew. but, it confuses me because he's asked me to be his gf b4, he's flirted with me, he sometimes acts like we're dating, he's even proposed to me b4 (we were playing) and he kissed me on the neck the same day and we were alone. yet, i tried to kiss him, he turned his cheek towards me. o and hes never had a gf, hes 18. and he makes up gf, and lies alot. he's even made the mistake, twice in an hour, of saying "he' in stead of "she". for instance, "if i went out with a person, he..." then he quickly changed it to she.any ideas y he would flirt with me, and be gay? is he bi? if so why didnt he kiss me? (and i doubt he'd ever use me to act like he's straight, at least not in private (cuz thats stupid)

So I'm a straight girl. I know this guy, he's so gorgeous (think of Lucas Grabeel non-HSM) bright bue eyes, blond hair. He prefers to dress nicely. He cares about his hair, showers, gels it up and stuff. We played baseball one day and he changed shoes to play. What do I do?