hi.. im just wondering if my boyfriend is gay.. we're together for 5 months now.. personally, i don't think he is but i really noticed some gestures that well, other people may think that he is gay.. he usually covers his mouth when laughing ALWAYS.. he is really not that manly in walking but he does not walk in one line.. his favorite movie is stardust. he is not that fashionable.. he is very slow in eating, i usually finish first before he does.. our married guy neighbors told my parents that they think he's gay.. i hope you can help me with this.. im a bit confused.. he had 4 girlfriends already.. and had flings.. he opened up all about it to me.. he also make love with them.. so do you think he is gay? thanks..

If you're cheking if he's gay then what are you doing with him in the first place? How about a list to differentiate between gay and metrosexual in a potential partner? Although personally I'd prefer the direct approach and just ask.

Please don't judge me for my age. I just thought that feminine features link to feminine hormones. Do you think that's true?

Hey Russel, Really? Agreed that these are stereotypes but I guess stereotypes become those because there's some truth to it. I have a few close gay friends myself and all four points apply to them. Do you have any tips on telling how your guy may be gay?

I talk to a guy but he's really feminie but he gets really turned on when I get naked but can he still be gay?

Ok so I've known this guy for about 8 years. We used to date in undergrad and we both needed to grow up so it didn't work out. But we always kept in touch flirting here and there. Recently he reached out to me and we talk a great deal since his last relationship failed. He told me it didn't work b/c there were red flags: arguing disrespectful, blah blah. He told me that he doesn't like to date a lot of women where he lives because he has a fairly high profile career and doesn't want to be seen as a playboy. Now, I have a very close guy friend who came out after we left undergrad. He mentioned to me that he thinks the guy I want to get with may be gay. He said he never heard anything and never saw anything questionable years ago or now but he is suspicous. He said I should observe him closely and maybe just ask. I'm so confused because I've always had such a strong attraction to this guy. But I'm wondering if I should trust my friends instinct. What to do?