hi shiela, im victoria, i was the one who asked you about a month ago about my boyfriend whom i think a gay.. its confirmed,he is or maybe bisexual. the thing is i opened his email which he did not know of course. i found out that he really is gay/bisexual. he had relationships with guys. what should i do? i love him soo much, i really dont know what to do.. i dont know if i can live without him please help me..

The guy I have a crush on has a feminine looking face, has less body hair than me (but doesn't shave or wax or anything), has a medium-high pitched voice, cares a bit about his hair and is a prude and shows barely any romantic interest but this is to both genders. He's not emotional and doesn't like things females are into. But I do notice he liked to touch me a lot. He doesn't like gay people and the idea of men kissing is disgusting to him. He is 14 and a prude. If I say something like boobs or penis he'll say we're too young to be saying that and he doesn't like swearing either. He doesn't even know what sex is. Is he just late in puberty? How do I test his sexuality?

Hi. I'm looking for advice. Iv been with my boyfriend 4 years and we have a child together. Are relationship has not been the best. I went thru my partners phone and seen a mms of an erect Willy. I instantly thought it was his and accused him of cheating which he admited and apolagosed for but the day later I checked again and something didnt add up.thats when i realised it wasnt his penis and it was sent to him. I text the number it came from and they told me I nd our was silly to leave him and i should stick by my boyfriend as he loves me and our child. They didnt confirm weva they were female or male. When i confronted my partner his only excuse was it was a family member mucling around as that number was aecretly stored under a family nam. I have since forgiven him but lately its all i can think about and any chance I get I make snarky comments. He refuses to talk about it and I should let it go. But I'm still worried. Is there anything more i can do to confirm weva he is or isnt

So I'm a straight girl. I know this guy, he's so gorgeous (think of Lucas Grabeel non-HSM) bright bue eyes, blond hair. He prefers to dress nicely. He cares about his hair, showers, gels it up and stuff. We played baseball one day and he changed shoes to play. What do I do?

Hi I'm really confused. I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year now. His flatmate, who happens to be gay, said that my boyfriend is a lesbian in a man's body. At first, we both thought it was hilarious. Also, I only started dating when his flatmate made that comment. One year on, I noticed that he's like a woman. He is very needy in a way that he claims that I don't spend enough time with him, even though I spent most of my free time (at night) and day time with him, which is pretty much all the time. We were able to do this because we were in the same classes for all our papers. I'm also annoyed that I've lost some friends because he starts to sulks and start to say that I never spend time with him because I'm so busy. At the start of this year, since our majors differ this year, we don't see much of each other in our class. He has learnt to back off as I told him I needed space and if he can't give me that, then I'll have to break the relationship off. However, we've started talking about kids and I jokingly suggested that he could be a stay-at-home-dad (just to check if his response and because I may have a demanding career). He was very receptive to that idea and since then, I've noticed that his future plan has deviated to being a house husband and all he wants to do is spend time with me. This puts pressure on me to secure a job or we'll end up on the dole. But, all he wants is to spend time with me and makes me feel like I should be a lesbian, when I'm 99.9% sure I'm straight. Please please advice whether he's gay or straight. I know a few gay guys who are not concerned with fashion. He's also kissed a guy and thinks a few guys are hot.

heyy.. iv been in such a difficult situation and sort of the same as what some of the girls on here have also said.. i was with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, complicated at times and on and off, as we couldnt bare the fact for being seperated from each other.. but yeah about 7 months ago, he had told me he was gay… completely crushed me? but at the same time confused me a lot, as he did not show any sign of being gay at all. i cant help but still have feelings for him as he has been my first love and first of everything and he says same for me? thats why it had been so hard for him to just walk away ... anywhooz, .. as this was a surprise to a lot of the people he is close to, especially me, could this possibly be just a phase..? we have such strong feelings for each other, but can't seem to get this issue resolved..