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Get Smart! Learn How to Tell if Your Guys Straight or Gay ...

Get Smart! Learn How to Tell if Your Guys Straight or Gay ...
By Mabelle

Here’s a 'gaily' (pun intended) interesting article from AOL Personals about how to tell if someone's gay or not.

There's this study conducted by researchers NYU, UCLA **and **Texas **where they found out that **subtle cues are easier to detect in gay men than in lesbians.

…gay men had hourglass figures, while the lesbians had more tubular bodies. In addition, the gay men tended to sway their hips, while the lesbian women swaggered their shoulders more than their straight counterparts.

So what are the other signs to watch out for to check if he's gay or not? Here's a few, just for laughs:

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1. He Cares about Your **hair **more than You do

  • Honestly, everyone is unique, so there's no surefire way. It's best to communicate openly with the person and respect their privacy. Stereotypes aren't reliable.

  • If a guy is exploring or questioning, he might show interest in conversations about sexuality. But remember, it's their journey, so be patient and supportive.

  • Talk to him! Open, non-judgmental communication is key. Let him know it's a safe space to share his feelings.

  • Absolutely. Interests like fashion, cooking, or even wearing colorful clothes (like a cardigan!) don't define someone's sexuality. Everyone should feel free to be themselves.

  • Just be genuine and respectful. Maybe start with something like, 'I've been wondering about a few things about us, mind if we chat?' And remember, it's okay if it feels a bit awkward at first.

2. He criticizes your choice in shoes

  • Honestly, everyone is unique, so there's no surefire way. It's best to communicate openly with the person and respect their privacy. Stereotypes aren't reliable.

  • If a guy is exploring or questioning, he might show interest in conversations about sexuality. But remember, it's their journey, so be patient and supportive.

  • Talk to him! Open, non-judgmental communication is key. Let him know it's a safe space to share his feelings.

  • Absolutely. Interests like fashion, cooking, or even wearing colorful clothes (like a cardigan!) don't define someone's sexuality. Everyone should feel free to be themselves.

  • Just be genuine and respectful. Maybe start with something like, 'I've been wondering about a few things about us, mind if we chat?' And remember, it's okay if it feels a bit awkward at first.

  • Honestly, everyone is unique, so there's no surefire way. It's best to communicate openly with the person and respect their privacy. Stereotypes aren't reliable.

  • If a guy is exploring or questioning, he might show interest in conversations about sexuality. But remember, it's their journey, so be patient and supportive.

  • Talk to him! Open, non-judgmental communication is key. Let him know it's a safe space to share his feelings.

  • Absolutely. Interests like fashion, cooking, or even wearing colorful clothes (like a cardigan!) don't define someone's sexuality. Everyone should feel free to be themselves.

  • Just be genuine and respectful. Maybe start with something like, 'I've been wondering about a few things about us, mind if we chat?' And remember, it's okay if it feels a bit awkward at first.

4. He always tries to catch the eye of the cutest guy in the room

Uhhmm… I really can't add more to the list but I do love "**Will & Grace**" – I guess if you find out that a potential bf's gay, you can just turn him into your** BFF**, lol.

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hi.. im just wondering if my boyfriend is gay.. we're together for 5 months now.. personally, i don't think he is but i really noticed some gestures that well, other people may think that he is gay.. he usually covers his mouth when laughing ALWAYS.. he is really not that manly in walking but he does not walk in one line.. his favorite movie is stardust. he is not that fashionable.. he is very slow in eating, i usually finish first before he does.. our married guy neighbors told my parents that they think he's gay.. i hope you can help me with this.. im a bit confused.. he had 4 girlfriends already.. and had flings.. he opened up all about it to me.. he also make love with them.. so do you think he is gay? thanks..

hi, I really need help on this one ...so i met a cute guy with my friend and she automatically said he was gay but i'm so confused because he said he really liked me after we chilled to be honest i think his bisexual by the way he walks he moves his hips from side to side but the really confusing part is he has a daughter and as we was cheating up he was telling me about how him and his baby mom didn't work out and also how she wants him back but he said he really wanted to get to know me and he literally asked me out on the spot only knowing me for a day so i really don't know what to do ? are their someone ways i can ask questions to see if his bi or gay ? I REALLY NEED HELP SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME

MY RECENT BOYFRIEND HAS HAD SEX WITH STRAIGHT GUYS BEFORE WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER AND HE TOLD ME BEFORE WE EVEN WENT OUT AND I ACCEPTED IT I FORGOT ABOUT IT FOR A WHILE BUT IT COMES TO MY HEAD SOMETIMES HE SAYS HE REGRETS IT AND THAT HE WANTS TO BE NORMAL I DONT KNOW I LOVE HIM BUT HE SAYS HES NOT BISEXUAL HE SAYS HE LOVES GIRLS AND SEX WITH GIRLS BUT I CANT FORGET ABOUT IT HE HAD SEX WITH THESE STRAIGHT GUYS AND DID OTHER SEXUAL STUFF IS THIS NORMAL? HE SAYS HE THINKS ITS BECAUSE HE NEVER TOUGHT HE COULDNT GET GIRLS ... HE TOLD ME HES BEEN ATTRACTED TO GUYS BEFORE SO HE SAYS? I DONT KNOW I TRY TO FORGET BUT ITS HARD AND I JUST CANT LEAVE HIM I LOVE HIM WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A WHILE NOW....IS HE STRAIGHT. BI? SOMETIMES I EVEN GET TOUGHTS OFF HIM LEAVING ME FOR A GUY?? AND I ONCE EVEN GOT DISGUSTED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM ITS SAD BUT TRUE HES REALLY FEMININE , BUT THAN AGAIN I DO SEE HE LOVES WOMEN AND SEX COULD IT REALLY BE THAT HE WAS LONLEY? THAN AGAIN NOT EVERY GUY WOULD ALLOW HIS FRIEND TO DO A MOVE ON HIM? I DONT KNOW IM CONFUSED AND HE HATES TO TALK ABOUT IT

I need some help here. I've been dating a guy for about three months now and our relationship has been perfect. He told me that he's in love with me and we've talked about moving in together. He's talked before about how he wants to get married and have kids. Both of our past relationships ended around the same time, so it was like we found each other at the perfect time. Anyways, when I first met him, he introduced himself and has sort of a high voice, so I wondered if he was gay. He has had previous girlfriends and says he was in love with his most recent ex girlfriend and that he was absolutely devastated when she broke up with him. He has had many sexual partners, all female. He said that after his ex girlfriend broke up with him, he didn't care if he broke girls hearts, he just wanted to play the game. He and his friends joke about being gay all the time, and sometimes will even say he is gay, although it always seems like he is joking. Sometimes he even calls me gay as a joke. There aren't any other signs that would make me think that he might be gay besides his sort-of high voice and always joking around with his guy friends about being gay. He cares about his body and loves to work out to make himself look good, but doesn't dress in a way that would come off as gay: usually a t-shirt and jeans. He doesn't primp excessively or gel his hair up or anything like that. We have great sex, he does things to me without me having to ask him to and always tells me how much he loves me and is super romantic. But I just can't help but wonder, because he jokes about it with his friends so much, if he actually could be gay. Is there anything I should be worried about, or am I just being neurotic?

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