heyy.. iv been in such a difficult situation and sort of the same as what some of the girls on here have also said.. i was with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, complicated at times and on and off, as we couldnt bare the fact for being seperated from each other.. but yeah about 7 months ago, he had told me he was gay… completely crushed me? but at the same time confused me a lot, as he did not show any sign of being gay at all. i cant help but still have feelings for him as he has been my first love and first of everything and he says same for me? thats why it had been so hard for him to just walk away ... anywhooz, .. as this was a surprise to a lot of the people he is close to, especially me, could this possibly be just a phase..? we have such strong feelings for each other, but can't seem to get this issue resolved..

Ok so I've known this guy for about 8 years. We used to date in undergrad and we both needed to grow up so it didn't work out. But we always kept in touch flirting here and there. Recently he reached out to me and we talk a great deal since his last relationship failed. He told me it didn't work b/c there were red flags: arguing disrespectful, blah blah. He told me that he doesn't like to date a lot of women where he lives because he has a fairly high profile career and doesn't want to be seen as a playboy. Now, I have a very close guy friend who came out after we left undergrad. He mentioned to me that he thinks the guy I want to get with may be gay. He said he never heard anything and never saw anything questionable years ago or now but he is suspicous. He said I should observe him closely and maybe just ask. I'm so confused because I've always had such a strong attraction to this guy. But I'm wondering if I should trust my friends instinct. What to do?

How about if you've known the person for a while and he has a girlfriend who is one of your friends. You have a huge crush on him and you think he is giving you the eye. How do you tell if it is more than that without it looking like you're a total bitch trying to split them up - hell you can't just go and ask him then. (this coming from a gay man's perspective here)

Please don't judge me for my age. I just thought that feminine features link to feminine hormones. Do you think that's true?

hi.. im just wondering if my boyfriend is gay.. we're together for 5 months now.. personally, i don't think he is but i really noticed some gestures that well, other people may think that he is gay.. he usually covers his mouth when laughing ALWAYS.. he is really not that manly in walking but he does not walk in one line.. his favorite movie is stardust. he is not that fashionable.. he is very slow in eating, i usually finish first before he does.. our married guy neighbors told my parents that they think he's gay.. i hope you can help me with this.. im a bit confused.. he had 4 girlfriends already.. and had flings.. he opened up all about it to me.. he also make love with them.. so do you think he is gay? thanks..