8 Signs You Are Crushing on the Boy Next Door ...

8 Signs You Are Crushing on the Boy Next Door ...
By Melanie

Are you crushing on the boy next door? You naughty girl! Oh, don’t worry, many girls crush on the boy next door. There isn’t anything wrong with this, it can be very fun. So, if you find that you are crushing, keep crushing! You may even want to move in and see if he’s interested in you – you know, if he does not have a girlfriend. Below, I am going to give you 8 signs you are crushing on the boy next door.

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8. You Watch Him through the Window

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Are you being a sneaky girl and peeking at him from the window? Are you starting to use your brother’s telescope, making up excuses that you’re just watching the stars? Then this may be a sign that you’re crushing. You’re definitely interested in something he is doing.

  • You might find yourself looking forward to seeing him more often, feeling nervous or excited when he's around, and maybe even making excuses to spend time together!

  • Absolutely! There's something sweet about having a crush on someone who's close by and feels familiar. You're definitely not alone in this feeling.

  • The 'boy next door' is usually someone who seems friendly, approachable, and sweet. It's a bit of a compliment because it suggests he's a nice guy!

  • Start by being friendly and open. Maybe try spending more time together casually and see if there's a natural connection.

  • It can be, especially because you live close, but it's important to be respectful and mature about it. Remember, friendships can still remain strong even if romance isn't in the cards.

7. You Know His Schedule

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You watch him so much that you know his schedule. You seem to know when he wakes up, when he leaves and when he comes home. I know, this one may be a bit obsessive, but when you’re crushing, it’s what a girl may do!

  • You might find yourself looking forward to seeing him more often, feeling nervous or excited when he's around, and maybe even making excuses to spend time together!

  • Absolutely! There's something sweet about having a crush on someone who's close by and feels familiar. You're definitely not alone in this feeling.

  • The 'boy next door' is usually someone who seems friendly, approachable, and sweet. It's a bit of a compliment because it suggests he's a nice guy!

  • Start by being friendly and open. Maybe try spending more time together casually and see if there's a natural connection.

  • It can be, especially because you live close, but it's important to be respectful and mature about it. Remember, friendships can still remain strong even if romance isn't in the cards.

6. You Dream about Him

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You not only dream about him, but you have hot dreams about him. After those dreams, you wake up wishing they were real! Don’t worry, if Cupid is on your side, love may be in the air.

  • You might find yourself looking forward to seeing him more often, feeling nervous or excited when he's around, and maybe even making excuses to spend time together!

  • Absolutely! There's something sweet about having a crush on someone who's close by and feels familiar. You're definitely not alone in this feeling.

  • The 'boy next door' is usually someone who seems friendly, approachable, and sweet. It's a bit of a compliment because it suggests he's a nice guy!

  • Start by being friendly and open. Maybe try spending more time together casually and see if there's a natural connection.

  • It can be, especially because you live close, but it's important to be respectful and mature about it. Remember, friendships can still remain strong even if romance isn't in the cards.

5. You Love Talking to Him

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You make up excuses just to talk to him. You ask him if he has seen your dog when you know little Rover is inside your home. You bake cookies and take them over – just so you can talk.

  • You might find yourself looking forward to seeing him more often, feeling nervous or excited when he's around, and maybe even making excuses to spend time together!

  • Absolutely! There's something sweet about having a crush on someone who's close by and feels familiar. You're definitely not alone in this feeling.

  • The 'boy next door' is usually someone who seems friendly, approachable, and sweet. It's a bit of a compliment because it suggests he's a nice guy!

  • Start by being friendly and open. Maybe try spending more time together casually and see if there's a natural connection.

  • It can be, especially because you live close, but it's important to be respectful and mature about it. Remember, friendships can still remain strong even if romance isn't in the cards.

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4. You Talk about Him a Lot

When your girlfriends are around, you talk about the boy next door a lot. Your friends are starting to know more about the guy than he probably does about himself! Oh, you’re definitely a girl in love!

  • You might find yourself looking forward to seeing him more often, feeling nervous or excited when he's around, and maybe even making excuses to spend time together!

  • Absolutely! There's something sweet about having a crush on someone who's close by and feels familiar. You're definitely not alone in this feeling.

  • The 'boy next door' is usually someone who seems friendly, approachable, and sweet. It's a bit of a compliment because it suggests he's a nice guy!

  • Start by being friendly and open. Maybe try spending more time together casually and see if there's a natural connection.

  • It can be, especially because you live close, but it's important to be respectful and mature about it. Remember, friendships can still remain strong even if romance isn't in the cards.

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3. You Catch Yourself Sitting outside to Watch Him

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Whenever he’s outside mowing the lawn, you decide that it’s a perfect time to go out and get a tan. You put on something that will catch his eye, rub some lotion on and lay in the sun.

  • You might find yourself looking forward to seeing him more often, feeling nervous or excited when he's around, and maybe even making excuses to spend time together!

  • Absolutely! There's something sweet about having a crush on someone who's close by and feels familiar. You're definitely not alone in this feeling.

  • The 'boy next door' is usually someone who seems friendly, approachable, and sweet. It's a bit of a compliment because it suggests he's a nice guy!

  • Start by being friendly and open. Maybe try spending more time together casually and see if there's a natural connection.

  • It can be, especially because you live close, but it's important to be respectful and mature about it. Remember, friendships can still remain strong even if romance isn't in the cards.

2. You Write His Name down

You Write His Name down Photo Credit: Ayumi♥Turquoise

Wait! What is written on your folder? Is that the boy's name with your name and a heart around it? Aww, that’s really cute.

  • You might find yourself looking forward to seeing him more often, feeling nervous or excited when he's around, and maybe even making excuses to spend time together!

  • Absolutely! There's something sweet about having a crush on someone who's close by and feels familiar. You're definitely not alone in this feeling.

  • The 'boy next door' is usually someone who seems friendly, approachable, and sweet. It's a bit of a compliment because it suggests he's a nice guy!

  • Start by being friendly and open. Maybe try spending more time together casually and see if there's a natural connection.

  • It can be, especially because you live close, but it's important to be respectful and mature about it. Remember, friendships can still remain strong even if romance isn't in the cards.

1. You Feel All Warm and Fuzzy inside

Whenever someone mentions him , you see him or he speaks to you, you start to feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Don’t worry, this is completely normal. It just means you have a thing for him!

Could it be? Do you have a crush on the boy next door? Those are 8 signs you are crushing on the boy next door. I never had a crush on the boy next door, but I know others who did and these were their signs. Some may seem obsessive, but it’s all good. So, are you crushing on the boy next door?

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Well, i may not have a boy next door, but theres a guy on my bus so its pretty similar in the sense that we pass by but dont completely live the same life. And well, i know all of his classes, which days he has sport practice and at what time, his middle name, his birthday, An pretty much everything else about him. We dont even have classes in the same half of the school and i know all of his teAchers names. So in other words i may be a stalker along with the people whose stalking methods are listed above, but its for a good purpose and its pefectly healthy in my opinion to stare at a guy when he is in your range:)

i dunno i talk to him, flirt.... stuff like that.... maybe a daydream or two... but staring at him through the window and knowing his schedule, and stting on you window to watch him a lot... sounds like obssesing, that can't be healthy and it's a rlly bad way to get a guy... and again no pun intended

I´m with Abbey on that. Having a crush on a boy and stalking are not very similar. I have to admit that looking at him a lot and talking about him all the time are sign that you have a crush, but knowing his schedule is a bit too much

no pun intended but sounds like stalking the boy next door, more than 5 of the signs...

Its been about two weeks since i posted tha. Last comment, and BAM! Guess who is dating the guy on her bus! When i asked him what he thought of when gurls "stalk " him he said that its flattering and lets him know who is available

too bad there are no guys next door that are my age on either side since i have two next door neighbours.. :(

All the best Abbey

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