Hopefully you won’t find any of these cheating signs in your husband, but no marriage is foolproof. So it helps to keep these points in mind just in case you need to tick them off your list sometime in the future!
1. Looks - Your husband is suddenly over-aware about how his hair is set or if his socks smell good. This is definitely a sign to worry about especially if he was a major slob earlier.
2. Overtime - Is your husband staying late at work more often than not? Does he have unexplained meetings or sudden business trips too often? Watch out for these telling signs. If he’s really working late then his salary stub should show it.
3. Car cleanliness - He wants that junk of a car extra clean all the time! Now he doesn’t want your comb in the glove compartment and toys in the back seat. What happened? Does he want to do away with indications of a family?
4. Hair evidence - You’re folding his shirts but happen upon a long blonde hair. Now that’s perfectly fine except if you’re a brunette and you have a brown haired son! Too many blonde hairs can spell trouble.
5. Shirtless - He doesn’t want to take his shirt off. Is he hiding an unexplained bruise? He wants to shower with the bathroom door locked on the inside. These are troubling signs of a cheating husband.
6. Stomach upset - You’ve cooked a wonderful meal but he is suddenly full or not hungry. His favorite dishes are left on the table three weekends in a row. Where is he eating his meals?
7. Perfume evidence - You don’t like floral perfumes, but what’s it doing on your husband’s laundry? That smell is becoming more and more familiar to you and it’s not yours!
8. Lies - Cover up. You can see it a mile away. You’re used to spotting a lie when your son is the guilty one, but now your husband isn’t being truthful. He doesn’t look you in the eye anymore.
9. Emails - He’s at the computer almost all the time. He has new email accounts and you don’t have the password. He closes down chat windows when you walk into the room. Is he hiding his communication to someone?
10. Bank accounts - Unexplained payments at jewelry stores and gift shops when you haven’t received a gift from him in months. Who is he buying these gifts for anyway? Hmm…
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Please help me. My boyfriend on and off for two years has more femalee friens than guy friends. The problem is is that he emails this one certain girl, tells me that he talks to her,but won’t show me the emails??? He lied about tellng her about me also, and when I caught him, he said it was so I wld quit worrying about it….I’m so confused
Trust is very important in a relationship. You may see the signs but they dont necessarilu mean that he’s already cheating.
I have a man I’ve been seeing for two years. Everytime we’re together he is texting. It annoys me. We have the usual intimacy, and dinners, I’ve even met his parents. We spend a lot of time together, and even go to events. I have met the important people in his life.
He has female and male friends, but there is this one female friend that is two years younger than I am. She says they used to “date.” I’m sure a lot more happened, by her actions. She tells him she misses him and loves him. I tried to put my foot down, but he got angry at me??
One night he left at 7pm to do some “business work,” he didn’t return back until almost midnight. I am not positive, but some think he was doing something else other than what he said??
I have told him I love him, and I really want to be with him, but he avoids our conversations.. What do any of you think? I cannot imagine life before him. I really do love him.
hello,
my husband and i have been together for seven years and married for five years this may. a couple of months ago he told me he was unhappy and confused about what he wanted. well there is a lady he works with and i knew that they talked at work but one day i came home from work and checked his email and he had changed his password so i changed it and was able to get in to his acct only to find out that he had been emailing her the message that i found was “i meant holly knows how i feel now”. after seeing that i freaked out and check our cell phone record only to find out that they have been talking on the phone to again i knew that the talked at work but i had no idea about the emailing and talking on the cell phone, i told my husband i found the phone records and his email and he swore to me that nothing was going on she was just a friend and he needed someone to talk to about “our problems”. i felt so betrayed and felt like he cheated on me emotionally…he swears nothing has happened sexually and i want to believe him but i cant. so we started going to marriage counseling and have been for the last two months but nothing has changed he now likes to leave when he gets “angry” the other night we got into an argument and he made a phone call outside he came in changed cloths and said he was going to watch his dad play a softball game so i asked him if he planned on spending the night and he said no so i told him he needed to pack his crap and just leave. i packed my kids clothes and went to spend the night at my parents. i didnt find out until the next morning that he didn’t even come home he supposedly spent the night with his sister!!! once again i checked the cell phone records and what do you know two different times last night he had two blocked phone calls that came in one was at eleven at night so i questioned him about it he stated that the lady he had been talking to had left her husband and she was very upset at work so he called one of her friends to check on her!!! i then asked how he got this number and he told me one night a few weeks ago at one of his valleyball games that this lady and her kids and her friend showed up to supposedly watch her cousin play. anyway my husband walked up to them and asked what they were doing there and the kids thought that my husband was flirting with the friend so she gave him her number!!! which my husband left that part out when he told me that he had ran into her at the game of course…….well now i made him pack and leave so its my first night alone and i am scared and so hurt!!! he is trying to make me feel like this is my fault and that him talking to her is not a big deal at all….please help me!!!!
Many of these are false positives.
If a guy is working overtime, he may be doing just that: Working overtime.
Taking care of a family or a wife isn’t cheap. It’s very expensive, especially with inflation.
Spending lots of time on the computer could be a sign of cheating, but again, it could just be a sign of internet addiction. I’ve been using chat rooms since 1996. I grew up online. I’ve known people on internet messageboards for 10 years. In fact, I met my current fiancee through a friend I met on the internet. So being online a lot could just be a sign of internet addiction.
Because I’m online alot and I work lots of odd hours, she accuses me of cheating on her.
Actually, it’s the opposite. When I go online, the first thing I tell any woman I first meet is that I’m looking only for friends. As much as I love her, we have little in common when it comes to tastes. So I look for friends who have the same tastes as I do. But it’s established that I’m looking for friends and only friends, and they’re cool with it.
When I work the long hours, it’s because she kind of likes to be pampered when we go out to eat. I’m satisfied getting the soup, the beans or the plain rice. She’s not.
So even though cheaters might use work and the internet as a way to cheat, using the internet and working long hours might be just that; Working long hours and using the internet.