So there’s this guy. You’re totally into him, but you can seem to nail him down. Does he like you? Does he LIKE like you? Or is he just playing games? Here are the best ways to know for sure:
1. He always calls at the last minute.
If he calls and asks you to go out at the last minute, then you might not have been his first choice — someone else may have cancelled on him, so now he’s asking you. Why else would he call you at six o’clock on a Friday evening and ask if you want to go out that same night? A guy who wasn’t playing games wouldn’t dare wait until the last minute to ask you out on a Friday night!
2. He never wants to go out.
Does he ask you to come over, or want to come to your place, but never wants to actually go out anywhere? Then he might be hiding. If he’s seeing another girl, then he might be afraid to run into her or her friends if you go out.
3. He’s always sending calls to voicemail.
If he constantly sends his calls to voicemail when you’re together, or he’s getting and ignoring a lot of text messages, he might be avoiding someone — like his girlfriend.
4. He doesn’t want you to meet his friends.
A guy who is serious about you will want to introduce you to his friends and family, and will want to meet yours.
5. He doesn’t want you to stay.
If he never wants you to stay the night, or to stay at your place overnight, he might have somewhere else, or someone else, he needs to spend the night with. Like a wife or girlfriend.
Great post as always Jennifer! Some of the points are really obvious ….like that one…when he doesn’t want u to meet his friends.
Thanks again for a great post Jen.
Some of these signs are pretty obvious. When you meet a person and by time you learn how he is, and then after some time he changes see to it to pay attention.. For me he will have something to hide for sure!
Like – He never wants to go out! And at first you’re always stuck with him!
Pay attention girls! Really helpful tips!!
And like I always say, pay close attention to your intuition. It’s always going to be your best friend. Always!
Tsk tsk, men can be such jerks.
Yeah Sheila, It’s one of the best features us girls have. Certain things we smell them from a distance! :)
Yeah Meream,
Such bastards around.
But I guess we have to live with them!
Both parties can’t live without each other!
another thing is when he never talks first, like you always have to or you’s don’t talk atall really..
but one night, instead of chasing after him, i stuck with friends..most of them being fellas.
after a while he was hugging round me all night.
i felt great, give it a try girlys ;)
Hi Ellie,
The jealousy trick really works doesn’t it? :D As long as you don’t overdo it.
Ellie,
Sometimes he needs that push! Something to make him jealous, and to help him realize what you mean to him!
Most of the boys are so lame at times. You need to help them for them to say, ‘Heck, If I don’t act fast I’m going to loose her!’
Mostly if you give a guy all your attention he will take you for granted. Girls need to continue with their own lives and normal routines even if they’re so madly in love, our lives shouldn’t revolve around them. Buy that he has a chance to do his own things and you give him time to miss you! By making them feel so important, is worst than better!
i hate when a person wastes another persons valuable time. just be forward with them and stop leading them onnnn
Vanisha,
I’m with you on that!!
Regarding #10. I would just like to say it for the record. ZENNY DOESN’T SHARE FOOD.
And no I am not playing mind games. You telling me your secret doesn’t amount to you digging your fork into my cheese cake. No euphemisms there. Honest to god.
Zenmaster,
What is it with men and their food. My best friend (he’s a man) and me never fought except when it came to food. How come it’s okay for him to dig into my food but not okay for me to do the same? Life s unfair! And men are pigs.
@sheila – Am not sure about life but we are pigs. B-)
Zenmaster,
Glad you agree. Now to get the rest of your kind to do the same.