Asking a girl to go to homecoming can be really difficult because it takes a lot of courage and you have to really put yourself out there. Here are 8 ways to ask a girl to homecoming.
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8. Make Sure That You Time when You Are Going to Ask Her Correctly
Females of all ages like to think about there date well in advance. It is really important that you do not decide to leave it until the last possible minute and then ask her to homecoming; the chances are that she already has a date.
Honestly, the best way is to be genuine and true to yourself. Think about what surprises her in a positive way and go from there.
Find a comfortable and memorable spot. Maybe somewhere you've shared good times or where she feels at ease. Timing is key, so don't do it when she's stressed.
You can try a themed invitation, create a unique sign, or incorporate her hobbies. Be thoughtful and make sure it's something she would appreciate.
Not necessarily. While a grand gesture can be fun, sometimes something simple and heartfelt can be even more special.
Rejection is always a possibility, but don't let fear hold you back. Be respectful, and remember that there's always the possibility of a yes.
Some girls are likely to be asked out by a lot of guys to homecoming therefore try to be original when you ask her. This is especially important if she has become accustomed to guys asking her out in the same way, this will help you to stand out from the crowd and is particularly useful when you have never spoken to her before.
Honestly, the best way is to be genuine and true to yourself. Think about what surprises her in a positive way and go from there.
Find a comfortable and memorable spot. Maybe somewhere you've shared good times or where she feels at ease. Timing is key, so don't do it when she's stressed.
You can try a themed invitation, create a unique sign, or incorporate her hobbies. Be thoughtful and make sure it's something she would appreciate.
Not necessarily. While a grand gesture can be fun, sometimes something simple and heartfelt can be even more special.
Rejection is always a possibility, but don't let fear hold you back. Be respectful, and remember that there's always the possibility of a yes.
Now this is a very old fashioned method of asking a girl out to a dance but it can still be used to charm and impress the old man. This is easier if you know the father already because it may be difficult to meet him otherwise. Asking the father first will show the girl that you are serious about going to homecoming with her.
Honestly, the best way is to be genuine and true to yourself. Think about what surprises her in a positive way and go from there.
Find a comfortable and memorable spot. Maybe somewhere you've shared good times or where she feels at ease. Timing is key, so don't do it when she's stressed.
You can try a themed invitation, create a unique sign, or incorporate her hobbies. Be thoughtful and make sure it's something she would appreciate.
Not necessarily. While a grand gesture can be fun, sometimes something simple and heartfelt can be even more special.
Rejection is always a possibility, but don't let fear hold you back. Be respectful, and remember that there's always the possibility of a yes.
Be original and creative by writing a song specifically for this girl and include lyrics that ask her to the dance. In my opinion if you try to be humorous this is likely to win the girl over, and if you want to make a bit of a fool out of yourself then that will in most cases impress her more. This is because it shows her that you do not care what you look like as long as it makes her happy and laugh.
What's the best way to ask a girl to homecoming?
Honestly, the best way is to be genuine and true to yourself. Think about what surprises her in a positive way and go from there.
How do I choose the right time and place to ask?
Find a comfortable and memorable spot. Maybe somewhere you've shared good times or where she feels at ease. Timing is key, so don't do it when she's stressed.
What are some creative ideas for asking a girl to homecoming?
You can try a themed invitation, create a unique sign, or incorporate her hobbies. Be thoughtful and make sure it's something she would appreciate.
Do you need to go big with your proposal?
Not necessarily. While a grand gesture can be fun, sometimes something simple and heartfelt can be even more special.
Should I be worried about getting rejected when asking her to homecoming?
Rejection is always a possibility, but don't let fear hold you back. Be respectful, and remember that there's always the possibility of a yes.
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In my opinion this is only a good way to ask a girl to homecoming if you have a trustworthy friend because they could end up chatting up the girl instead. If you do have a close friend ask them to speak to the girl for you and ask her for you. Many girls find this sweet because it shows a bit of vulnerability on the other person’s side.
What's the best way to ask a girl to homecoming?
Honestly, the best way is to be genuine and true to yourself. Think about what surprises her in a positive way and go from there.
How do I choose the right time and place to ask?
Find a comfortable and memorable spot. Maybe somewhere you've shared good times or where she feels at ease. Timing is key, so don't do it when she's stressed.
What are some creative ideas for asking a girl to homecoming?
You can try a themed invitation, create a unique sign, or incorporate her hobbies. Be thoughtful and make sure it's something she would appreciate.
Do you need to go big with your proposal?
Not necessarily. While a grand gesture can be fun, sometimes something simple and heartfelt can be even more special.
Should I be worried about getting rejected when asking her to homecoming?
Rejection is always a possibility, but don't let fear hold you back. Be respectful, and remember that there's always the possibility of a yes.
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3. Speak to One of the Girl’s Friends and Ask Them to Ask Her
Girls often listen to their friends therefore speak to her friend and tell them that you would like to take their friend to homecoming. You will need to make sure that you make a good first impression on this friend, especially if you have never met them before, as they are likely to feed back everything to the girl.
What's the best way to ask a girl to homecoming?
Honestly, the best way is to be genuine and true to yourself. Think about what surprises her in a positive way and go from there.
How do I choose the right time and place to ask?
Find a comfortable and memorable spot. Maybe somewhere you've shared good times or where she feels at ease. Timing is key, so don't do it when she's stressed.
What are some creative ideas for asking a girl to homecoming?
You can try a themed invitation, create a unique sign, or incorporate her hobbies. Be thoughtful and make sure it's something she would appreciate.
Do you need to go big with your proposal?
Not necessarily. While a grand gesture can be fun, sometimes something simple and heartfelt can be even more special.
Should I be worried about getting rejected when asking her to homecoming?
Rejection is always a possibility, but don't let fear hold you back. Be respectful, and remember that there's always the possibility of a yes.
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2. Write a Note Asking Her to Homecoming and Leave It in Her Locker
This method is probably easier if you are a bit shy or do not fancy the thought of hearing no. By writing a note you show the girl that she is worth a bit more effort, maybe write a little message in the card to show how much you would like to go to homecoming with her.
What's the best way to ask a girl to homecoming?
Honestly, the best way is to be genuine and true to yourself. Think about what surprises her in a positive way and go from there.
How do I choose the right time and place to ask?
Find a comfortable and memorable spot. Maybe somewhere you've shared good times or where she feels at ease. Timing is key, so don't do it when she's stressed.
What are some creative ideas for asking a girl to homecoming?
You can try a themed invitation, create a unique sign, or incorporate her hobbies. Be thoughtful and make sure it's something she would appreciate.
Do you need to go big with your proposal?
Not necessarily. While a grand gesture can be fun, sometimes something simple and heartfelt can be even more special.
Should I be worried about getting rejected when asking her to homecoming?
Rejection is always a possibility, but don't let fear hold you back. Be respectful, and remember that there's always the possibility of a yes.
The most obvious and direct way is to ask her to her face. Okay this is not the most unique method but it does take the less amount of time to think about. This method does involve putting yourself completely out there, so you should prepare yourself in case she does say no.
There you have 8 ways to ask a girl to homecoming. Hopefully these tips will help to give you some ideas and should make asking that girl out a bit easier. Do you have any tips?
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My name is Melanie :D And I really like this guy and he likes me back and i wanna go to homecoming with him, and our friend Cain keeps saying suggestive comments b/c we havent officially dated yet, and I heard him smack Cain (XD) and say "Quiet, I have a plan! I hope he asks me out to homecoming, would die!!! :DDD
NO. Do not do 3 or 4. Grow a pair and ask the girl yourself. Ask her directly, do not make your friend or her friends do the work. it makesyou look weak and spineless.
3 and 4 could be misconstrued as a joke by the girl.
true lol
I would never say yes to a guy who couldn't ask me himself. Although, I've seen some cute and creative things over facebook. I knew a guy who spelled out "Homecoming?" with flowers and took a picture, uploaded it, and tagged the girl in it. She ended up doing it herself, but it said "Yes" and he was tagged in it too. I've also seen people bake cupcakes and each one spelled had a letter on it and they spelled homecoming.
Homecoming is over.... I don't think any schools have homecoming after the beginning of November. Just saying.
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Melanie:My name is Melanie :D And I really like this guy and he likes me back and i wanna go to homecoming with him, and our friend Cain keeps saying suggestive comments b/c we havent officially dated yet, and I heard him smack Cain (XD) and say "Quiet, I have a plan! I hope he asks me out to homecoming, would die!!! :DDD
Anonymous:NO. Do not do 3 or 4. Grow a pair and ask the girl yourself. Ask her directly, do not make your friend or her friends do the work. it makesyou look weak and spineless.
Eve:3 and 4 could be misconstrued as a joke by the girl.
stephanie:true lol
Erin:I would never say yes to a guy who couldn't ask me himself. Although, I've seen some cute and creative things over facebook. I knew a guy who spelled out "Homecoming?" with flowers and took a picture, uploaded it, and tagged the girl in it. She ended up doing it herself, but it said "Yes" and he was tagged in it too. I've also seen people bake cupcakes and each one spelled had a letter on it and they spelled homecoming.
Danielle:Homecoming is over.... I don't think any schools have homecoming after the beginning of November. Just saying.
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