Okay, you have recently told him it is over or you are thinking about telling him it is over, because you have had enough and enough is enough. Have I at least come close to the picture? So, when you tell him it is over, there are some things you are wondering. For starters, you will wonder what he is thinking when you say it’s over. Am I right? Right now, I am going to give you 8 things he’s thinking when you say it’s over.
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8. She’s Doing This Because I Don’t Make Enough Money
If it is a known fact that the guy is not making much money and has a low end job, then this may be a thought that goes through his mind. This is especially true if you have recently had the “money” discussion with him.
Honestly, if you’ve just said it’s over, he’s probably processing a lot of emotions. But yes, he’s likely thinking about you, what went wrong, and maybe even what he could’ve done differently.
It’s always good to be honest and direct. Find a private space, be clear about your feelings, and let him know it’s not working out for you. It’s tough, but kindness and clarity are key.
For some, yes. Saying those words means they’ve reached a point of no return. But for others, it might be a way to start a necessary conversation. Only you know what it truly means in your heart.
It’s possible, but it really depends on both of you. Some need time apart to heal, while others might easily transition into a friendship. Just be honest about your needs and feelings.
That’s totally normal. If he truly cares, of course he’ll want to fix things. But stay true to your feelings. If you’re certain it’s over, kindly let him know you need to move on.
7. There’s Another Guy in Her Life
I think this is one of the first things that goes through a guys minds when the girl breaks up with him. I mean, everything seemed perfect, there are no other things he can think of, so he is going to think there is another guy in your life.
Honestly, if you’ve just said it’s over, he’s probably processing a lot of emotions. But yes, he’s likely thinking about you, what went wrong, and maybe even what he could’ve done differently.
It’s always good to be honest and direct. Find a private space, be clear about your feelings, and let him know it’s not working out for you. It’s tough, but kindness and clarity are key.
For some, yes. Saying those words means they’ve reached a point of no return. But for others, it might be a way to start a necessary conversation. Only you know what it truly means in your heart.
It’s possible, but it really depends on both of you. Some need time apart to heal, while others might easily transition into a friendship. Just be honest about your needs and feelings.
That’s totally normal. If he truly cares, of course he’ll want to fix things. But stay true to your feelings. If you’re certain it’s over, kindly let him know you need to move on.
6. I’m Not Good Enough for Her
This is a sad one in my book, but guys do think this. Those that think this tend to have a hard time dating, because they have it in their mind that they are not good enough. Then again, they may be thinking they are not good enough simply because the girl was too demanding.
Honestly, if you’ve just said it’s over, he’s probably processing a lot of emotions. But yes, he’s likely thinking about you, what went wrong, and maybe even what he could’ve done differently.
It’s always good to be honest and direct. Find a private space, be clear about your feelings, and let him know it’s not working out for you. It’s tough, but kindness and clarity are key.
For some, yes. Saying those words means they’ve reached a point of no return. But for others, it might be a way to start a necessary conversation. Only you know what it truly means in your heart.
It’s possible, but it really depends on both of you. Some need time apart to heal, while others might easily transition into a friendship. Just be honest about your needs and feelings.
That’s totally normal. If he truly cares, of course he’ll want to fix things. But stay true to your feelings. If you’re certain it’s over, kindly let him know you need to move on.
5. Oh, I Saw This Coming
If you have been having a great deal of arguments and silent treatments, then this may be one of the thoughts that goes through his head. After all of those arguments and being kicked out of the bedroom, he saw it coming.
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It's like a moment of grim recognition, when all the strained conversations and the mounting distance finally make sense. The heart may not want to admit it, but the mind has been piecing together the puzzle of a fizzling romance all along. The cold shoulder and the curt replies were more than just rough patches; they were the writing on the wall. So, when the words "It's over" are finally spoken, it's not so much a shock as it is a confirmation of what he's been bracing himself for. It's the unwanted epiphany that the end was not a matter of if, but when.
Honestly, if you’ve just said it’s over, he’s probably processing a lot of emotions. But yes, he’s likely thinking about you, what went wrong, and maybe even what he could’ve done differently.
It’s always good to be honest and direct. Find a private space, be clear about your feelings, and let him know it’s not working out for you. It’s tough, but kindness and clarity are key.
For some, yes. Saying those words means they’ve reached a point of no return. But for others, it might be a way to start a necessary conversation. Only you know what it truly means in your heart.
It’s possible, but it really depends on both of you. Some need time apart to heal, while others might easily transition into a friendship. Just be honest about your needs and feelings.
That’s totally normal. If he truly cares, of course he’ll want to fix things. But stay true to your feelings. If you’re certain it’s over, kindly let him know you need to move on.
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4. She Must Know I’m Cheating
This is a horrible one, but if he is cheating (without you knowing it), this is one of the thoughts that will go through his mind. Of course, for the sake of him, he will more than likely admit defeat and quietly pack his bags without even mentioning cheating. If you don’t mention it, then he’s not going to mention it.
Honestly, if you’ve just said it’s over, he’s probably processing a lot of emotions. But yes, he’s likely thinking about you, what went wrong, and maybe even what he could’ve done differently.
It’s always good to be honest and direct. Find a private space, be clear about your feelings, and let him know it’s not working out for you. It’s tough, but kindness and clarity are key.
For some, yes. Saying those words means they’ve reached a point of no return. But for others, it might be a way to start a necessary conversation. Only you know what it truly means in your heart.
It’s possible, but it really depends on both of you. Some need time apart to heal, while others might easily transition into a friendship. Just be honest about your needs and feelings.
That’s totally normal. If he truly cares, of course he’ll want to fix things. But stay true to your feelings. If you’re certain it’s over, kindly let him know you need to move on.
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3. She Beat Me to It
He has been wanting to do this for so long and finally, you did it. You beat him to it. If he has been wanting to break up with you, this is one of the things that may pop up in his mind.
Honestly, if you’ve just said it’s over, he’s probably processing a lot of emotions. But yes, he’s likely thinking about you, what went wrong, and maybe even what he could’ve done differently.
It’s always good to be honest and direct. Find a private space, be clear about your feelings, and let him know it’s not working out for you. It’s tough, but kindness and clarity are key.
For some, yes. Saying those words means they’ve reached a point of no return. But for others, it might be a way to start a necessary conversation. Only you know what it truly means in your heart.
It’s possible, but it really depends on both of you. Some need time apart to heal, while others might easily transition into a friendship. Just be honest about your needs and feelings.
That’s totally normal. If he truly cares, of course he’ll want to fix things. But stay true to your feelings. If you’re certain it’s over, kindly let him know you need to move on.
2. She Hates My Friends
This is true if you recently held out with his friends and then decided to break up with him. He may think his friends said something or told on him for something.
Honestly, if you’ve just said it’s over, he’s probably processing a lot of emotions. But yes, he’s likely thinking about you, what went wrong, and maybe even what he could’ve done differently.
It’s always good to be honest and direct. Find a private space, be clear about your feelings, and let him know it’s not working out for you. It’s tough, but kindness and clarity are key.
For some, yes. Saying those words means they’ve reached a point of no return. But for others, it might be a way to start a necessary conversation. Only you know what it truly means in your heart.
It’s possible, but it really depends on both of you. Some need time apart to heal, while others might easily transition into a friendship. Just be honest about your needs and feelings.
That’s totally normal. If he truly cares, of course he’ll want to fix things. But stay true to your feelings. If you’re certain it’s over, kindly let him know you need to move on.
1. Time for a New Girlfriend
Oh yes, last but not least, it is time for a new girlfriend. There’s other fish in the sea. Girls, they love you, then they leave you – they can’t make up their mind. Surely, some guys do think this.
So, there you have 8 things he’s thinking when you say it’s over. In your opinion, what do you think the last guy you dumped was saying?
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Shakti: Sometimes they may think..."sigh..relieved..I dont have to do it".
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Erin: I recently cut things off with a guy.. casual thing, but I knew it wasn't going anywhere and I would rather be single or be talking to a guy who actually wants to be with me in the long run. The only thing he could say back was, "I'm not big enough for you?". He seriously thought it was only because the size of his penis. When I assured him that it had nothing to do with him, he started complaining and whining about self-concious things... Good thing I ended things now before I had gotten attached and had to listen to him constantly whine!
peachy: Men are weirdos :)
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