Kissing is always fun to do – I still remember my first kiss – I think those are things that you will never forget. My husband and I like to talk about our first kiss (with each other, of course). Kissing is romantic and it can really set the mood. Of course, there are some things that you should avoid doing or saying when the two of you are engaged in this intimate moment. Below, I am going to give you 7 things not to do when kissing …
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7. Don’t Charge with Your Tongue Sticking out
This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue.
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This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue. Additionally, timing is essential. Rushing with your tongue straight away can be overwhelming. Gradually build up to it, making the transition smooth and enjoyable for both parties. Be mindful of movements and try to mirror your partner’s actions, ensuring a balanced and reciprocated experience. Furthermore, keeping the tongue subtle and gentle can make the kiss more romantic and intimate.
6. Don’t Keep Pulling Away
Of course, this if you want to be kissed. If you don’t want to be kissed, then you pull away and if that doesn’t work, smack them. Now, if you actually want to be kissed by that person, then don’t keep pulling away.
5. Oxygen
People hate it when you push too hard, shove your tongue down their throat and don’t give enough oxygen. You should do it gently and give room for oxygen. While I said do not keep pulling away, there is a time you need oxygen, so use that time to gently kiss the neck.
4. Don’t Make Jokes
While you are kissing and in an intimate hold, don’t keep making jokes. I think this is a bit childish and guys could get turned off by this one. Especially, if you are making jokes about saliva or something gross.
3. Don’t Belch
Oh goodness, if you feel that you are about to belch, please don’t do it in their mouth. By all means, ignore number 6 and pull away before you belch!
2. Don’t Pass Your Gum
Unless your partner specifically asks for you to give the gum from your mouth to their mouth, don’t do it. This could totally gross them out.
1. Don’t’ Say Someone else’s Name
While you are kissing, I know things get in the heat of the moment, but you should avoid saying someone else’s name. You definitely should not say your ex girlfriend or boyfriend’s name. Also, don’t go and mention how they used to kiss – this is not the time or the place to do something like that and sometimes, things are better off not said.
Those are 7 things not to do when kissing. If you do these things, then your partner may not respect you so much the next time the two of you kiss. They may also try to avoid giving you kisses from then on out. Oh and as a reminder, before you kiss, make sure you clean your nose, because you would hate to introduce your partner to whatever may be inside your nose. I think I about covered it – do you have a terrible kissing story you would like to share with us?
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Elanah: Some of these stories are seriously hilarious! My first official kiss, not like little pecks at parties and stuff, was when I was 16 and it was new years eve and I had a lot to drink and we were playing truth or dare and I was still so drunk that I was kind of half there and half not and my friends wanted me to kiss this boy and he was drunk as well but full on into it and I was like laughing it off and then he just went in and I was like not even moving my mouth that much and he was like full on moving his whole tongue around my mouth and I think to this day that it was one of the worst kisses ive ever had! ahahah!
Amy: I got my first kiss at 15. My friends and I were at a party and a little tipsy when we ran into this guy I've known since I was 5. He took me down to the beach, a little away from everyone, and we were joking around, laughing and dipping our feet in the water. Suddenly he pulled me close - I said something funny and we both laughed. Then he kissed me, very short and sweet, and looked at me to see if I liked it. I did, so he kissed me again, only for a second or two. Then we both burst out laughing and kissed for a longer time. It was his first kiss too and I'm really glad I got to experience it with someone I know so well; and that it was funny to us both, not awkward at all. And he really is a great kisser!
Cute: the first kiss is the best nd cutest kiss. i remember mine i dn't knw how ds dat happen bt aftr da kiss i ws happy nd little worried bt she ws jst blushing nd lukng at me wid those b'ful eyes (^_^)
kamal: I never forget that moment when I Kissed on her Lips,
Pauline: I honestly don't agree on some of these because maybe it's just me and my boyfriend , we're so close that when ever we have a fail , we're like ; Hah .. A fail , (: and we love it because life is full of fails , and it's not perfect like a movie , but our first kiss together ( wasn't our first for both of us though ) was actually really good . We even mess with our tongues together because we both love each orhers saliva , and our tongues , nothing is disgusting to us really . If I accidently burped in his mouth , he said he would say " Ahhh , she lovee mee . " hahahh , maybe we're just a weird type of couple .
Anonymous: who wrote this stuff? a 6th grader?
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