7 Things Not to do when Kissing ...

7 Things Not to do when Kissing ...
By Melanie • Sep 26, 2021 MD

Kissing is always fun to do – I still remember my first kiss – I think those are things that you will never forget. My husband and I like to talk about our first kiss (with each other, of course). Kissing is romantic and it can really set the mood. Of course, there are some things that you should avoid doing or saying when the two of you are engaged in this intimate moment. Below, I am going to give you 7 things not to do when kissing …

7. Don’t Charge with Your Tongue Sticking out

This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue.

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This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue. Additionally, timing is essential. Rushing with your tongue straight away can be overwhelming. Gradually build up to it, making the transition smooth and enjoyable for both parties. Be mindful of movements and try to mirror your partner’s actions, ensuring a balanced and reciprocated experience. Furthermore, keeping the tongue subtle and gentle can make the kiss more romantic and intimate.

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6. Don’t Keep Pulling Away

Of course, this if you want to be kissed. If you don’t want to be kissed, then you pull away and if that doesn’t work, smack them. Now, if you actually want to be kissed by that person, then don’t keep pulling away.

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5. Oxygen

People hate it when you push too hard, shove your tongue down their throat and don’t give enough oxygen. You should do it gently and give room for oxygen. While I said do not keep pulling away, there is a time you need oxygen, so use that time to gently kiss the neck.

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4. Don’t Make Jokes

While you are kissing and in an intimate hold, don’t keep making jokes. I think this is a bit childish and guys could get turned off by this one. Especially, if you are making jokes about saliva or something gross.

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If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

3. Don’t Belch

Oh goodness, if you feel that you are about to belch, please don’t do it in their mouth. By all means, ignore number 6 and pull away before you belch!

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2. Don’t Pass Your Gum

Unless your partner specifically asks for you to give the gum from your mouth to their mouth, don’t do it. This could totally gross them out.

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1. Don’t’ Say Someone else’s Name

While you are kissing, I know things get in the heat of the moment, but you should avoid saying someone else’s name. You definitely should not say your ex girlfriend or boyfriend’s name. Also, don’t go and mention how they used to kiss – this is not the time or the place to do something like that and sometimes, things are better off not said.

Those are 7 things not to do when kissing. If you do these things, then your partner may not respect you so much the next time the two of you kiss. They may also try to avoid giving you kisses from then on out. Oh and as a reminder, before you kiss, make sure you clean your nose, because you would hate to introduce your partner to whatever may be inside your nose. I think I about covered it – do you have a terrible kissing story you would like to share with us?

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  • elena

    2011-07-04T20:40:49.000Z

    my first kiss was a drunken mistake...with another girl :/
  • Anonymous

    2012-02-18T04:19:14.000Z

    I had my first kiss when I was 12. And ya know what they say, you ALWAYS remember your first kiss, but boy that isn't always a good thing. Him and I were just hanging out at a park. He kept texting me saying, "wanna make out? wanna make out? wanna make out?" Total turn off ! I didn't even like him that much. But as we were were walking, he leaned in, and shoved his tongue down my throat. He didn't even hold me or anything. Talk about awkward. And what's worse is, it was really public.. There were even little kids around ! Now, every time a guy asks me 'Wanna make out?' I get sooooooo disgusted.
  • Sassy

    2011-06-12T13:18:04.000Z

    I am curious about the one that says Oxygen. Do you hold your breath while kissing? And if so, how old are you really?
  • Steph

    2011-03-08T10:15:46.000Z

    number 2 ROTFLMAO :D
  • vitobonespur

    2011-06-08T01:22:25.000Z

    As the old saying goes: "When you're out with your honey, and you nose gets all runny, don't think it's funny, 'cuz it'snot."
  • Amy

    2011-08-12T02:39:24.000Z

    I got my first kiss at 15. My friends and I were at a party and a little tipsy when we ran into this guy I've known since I was 5. He took me down to the beach, a little away from everyone, and we were joking around, laughing and dipping our feet in the water. Suddenly he pulled me close - I said something funny and we both laughed. Then he kissed me, very short and sweet, and looked at me to see if I liked it. I did, so he kissed me again, only for a second or two. Then we both burst out laughing and kissed for a longer time. It was his first kiss too and I'm really glad I got to experience it with someone I know so well; and that it was funny to us both, not awkward at all. And he really is a great kisser!
  • Jenn

    2013-02-18T16:25:45.000Z

    pulling away during a kiss if is done right is also teasing and it can be a great turn on for a guy.. well from my experience at least :)
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