7 Things Not to Share with Your Boyfriend ...

Jordin

7 Things Not to Share with Your Boyfriend ...
7 Things Not to Share with Your Boyfriend ...

When it comes to relationships, there are always boundaries. Whether you like it or not, they are there and it is your job to make sure you don't overstep yours. I don't believe you should ever intentionally hide anything from your man, but there are a few things you should never share with him. Read on to discover what they are!

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1

Your Bodily Functions

Yea, everybody farts. And everyone has to go poop. And shockingly, every person in the world has belched at one time or another. But men like to think of us as ladylike and feminine. After all, isn't that what attracts them to us in the first place? So don't give any raunchy details about your period or your stomach flu. Save all that for your diary!

2

Your Girlfriends' Secrets

This really is a no-brainer. Your friends confide in you and expect you to keep that confidence. After all, they do the same for you, right? So keep their trust intact. You have no idea how hard it is on a guy to hear us dish about all the latest gossip when all they want to do is rest after a long day. And if the secret you are telling is one of your close girlfriends who happens to have a boyfriend that your man sees everyday, it may be hard for him not to let it slip.

3

Your Toothbrush

Yes, I know you kiss him and you both drink from the same glass occasionally. But we live in a civilized age and hygiene is a little more obvious now than it was 200 years ago. Toothbrushes only cost a few dollars. Buy your own!

4

Your Password

Unless you both share an email account, or you're married, this is a big no-no. Giving him your password may encourage him to "check up" on you, and all that's going to do is raise insecurities on your part and feelings of distrust on yours. Not good for a healthy relationship. Plus, he may find out about the surprise party you were planning him for next weekend!

5

Your Dislike for His Mother

There will always be a few of us who can't stand or get along with our in-laws. But that doesn't mean you should give him a highlighted, detailed list of the 492 reasons why every time you have to be around them! He may feel pressured to choose between you, or he may get aggravated with you and put a strain on your relationship. If the problem is too big to be ignored, gently state your case. If he doesn't see it your way, give him some time and in the meantime, learn to bite your tongue and keep your cool.

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6

Your Insecurities

If you think your thighs are too fat, your hair is too curly and your teeth are too crooked, try to refrain from bringing it up every 3 to 4 hours. Men get tires of hearing about our horrible bodies. He thinks you are beautiful. He's with you isn't he? And if he accepts you, you can certainly accept yourself! Besides, you drawing attention to your "flaws" may make him notice it when it never really stood out before.

7

Your past...in Detail

While it's never OK to lie or hide your past from someone if you are in a committed relationship, it's also not OK to tell your significant other how many times a day you kissed each one of your exes or give him the livid details of what you and your girlfriends used to do to get back at all the guys who broke your hearts. Guys just don't need to know that sort of stuff. They always wonder if they measure up or if you regret choosing them. Don't give him reason to wonder!

You CAN have an open, honest relationship with your man. All you need to do in order to achieve it is be kind and thoughtful and think about what you say before you say it! Do you ever share things with your sweetie that you probably shouldn't?

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My mom and dad have farting contests , infront of me and my boyfriend , he thinks it's hilarious , i think it's downright embarrassing . But, he's always telling me how he wants us to have a love like my mom and dad . I really can't stand him sometimes , but when he says that it makes me the happiest person in the world (:

This list is sh*t ... If you cant even share your past then what kind of relationship are you in anyways?? .. and yes i understand all the little details of your ex's should not be shared, that is common sense .. but if you cant even discuss poop then you are too young and immature to be in a committed relationship anyways .. also i hate how my body looks and my boyfriend knows that and when i am feeling insecure he helps me and raises my self confidence .. he doesnt want to leave and find someone who is confident .. he wants to help me see myself like he does.. i am very lucky to have a guy like him.

Okay Hi we felt this was conpletely FALSE due to the fact we have been together along time and live together He pees or poops when im in the shower or doing my hair and makeup and I do the same I talk freely about anything no matter what SECRETS DONT MAKE FRIENDS yes i know but friends make secrets ok we can fart or burp in front of each other but to be lady like i try not to or make it suttle and be cute and say "Wows Scuse me baby" be comfortable and confident he/she is your other half

This is entirely wrong. Just sayin'.

I would feel privileged rather than incensed about such revelation. I wish a women would so entrust me.

i have had my bad shares of boyfriends and i did not tell him anything but he told me something i was not ready for he told me that he was gay and i was really disturbed because he has had alot other girlfriends/ or boyfriends in this case oh and he also was almost in bed with me so i am really scared because i have a brother who is also gay and they mite hook up and that is really fritining because he might be my brother inlaw and i dont have any sisters

I've shared every one of those things with my boyfriend, and we have an awesome relationship. Suckers.

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