7 Things Not to do when Kissing ...

7 Things Not to do when Kissing ...
By Melanie • Sep 26, 2021

Kissing is always fun to do – I still remember my first kiss – I think those are things that you will never forget. My husband and I like to talk about our first kiss (with each other, of course). Kissing is romantic and it can really set the mood. Of course, there are some things that you should avoid doing or saying when the two of you are engaged in this intimate moment. Below, I am going to give you 7 things not to do when kissing …

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7. Don’t Charge with Your Tongue Sticking out

This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue.

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This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue. Additionally, timing is essential. Rushing with your tongue straight away can be overwhelming. Gradually build up to it, making the transition smooth and enjoyable for both parties. Be mindful of movements and try to mirror your partner’s actions, ensuring a balanced and reciprocated experience. Furthermore, keeping the tongue subtle and gentle can make the kiss more romantic and intimate.

6. Don’t Keep Pulling Away

Of course, this if you want to be kissed. If you don’t want to be kissed, then you pull away and if that doesn’t work, smack them. Now, if you actually want to be kissed by that person, then don’t keep pulling away.

5. Oxygen

People hate it when you push too hard, shove your tongue down their throat and don’t give enough oxygen. You should do it gently and give room for oxygen. While I said do not keep pulling away, there is a time you need oxygen, so use that time to gently kiss the neck.

4. Don’t Make Jokes

While you are kissing and in an intimate hold, don’t keep making jokes. I think this is a bit childish and guys could get turned off by this one. Especially, if you are making jokes about saliva or something gross.

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3. Don’t Belch

Oh goodness, if you feel that you are about to belch, please don’t do it in their mouth. By all means, ignore number 6 and pull away before you belch!

2. Don’t Pass Your Gum

Unless your partner specifically asks for you to give the gum from your mouth to their mouth, don’t do it. This could totally gross them out.

1. Don’t’ Say Someone else’s Name

While you are kissing, I know things get in the heat of the moment, but you should avoid saying someone else’s name. You definitely should not say your ex girlfriend or boyfriend’s name. Also, don’t go and mention how they used to kiss – this is not the time or the place to do something like that and sometimes, things are better off not said.

Those are 7 things not to do when kissing. If you do these things, then your partner may not respect you so much the next time the two of you kiss. They may also try to avoid giving you kisses from then on out. Oh and as a reminder, before you kiss, make sure you clean your nose, because you would hate to introduce your partner to whatever may be inside your nose. I think I about covered it – do you have a terrible kissing story you would like to share with us?

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  • sheilachristie

    2011-05-10T03:21:27.000Z

    i kissed my bf last night, after had sushi.. when we kiss, i said, "your mouth taste like sushi", he said " u too!!" and we laughed.. hahahaha... funny..
  • purpplchic

    2011-03-25T03:21:50.000Z

    i really liked this post (^_^) i would not like to have gum passed to me. . . that is just icky lols
  • simple

    2011-05-29T10:29:26.000Z

    my English is poor ,Who can tell me what is the web site
  • clareta

    2011-04-23T07:03:41.000Z

    one of the worst kisses i ever had was from the guy i was seeing..... it was right after he had eaten a hotdog :x
  • Maddie

    2013-03-14T19:12:30.000Z

    My "real" first kiss was when I was 16 and at a party out in a strange city. The guy bought me drinks all night, so I felt like I owed it something to him, and he was pretty ugly and annoying.. and then after we danced a little we went outside, because he wanted to get pizza. Then he kept staring at me while I tried to talk, until I just finally gave in and let it happen. And during the kiss I was like: OMG! This is horrible... - it was the worst experience ever, he was the WORST kisser and now, when I'm 18, I've not yet gotten over it, and every kiss since reminds me of that first kiss.. Also, despite having been in love 3 times, i've never been kissed by someone I liked, only random guys at parties :(
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