Kissing is always fun to do – I still remember my first kiss – I think those are things that you will never forget. My husband and I like to talk about our first kiss (with each other, of course). Kissing is romantic and it can really set the mood. Of course, there are some things that you should avoid doing or saying when the two of you are engaged in this intimate moment. Below, I am going to give you 7 things not to do when kissing …

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7. Don’t Charge with Your Tongue Sticking out

This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue.

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This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue. Additionally, timing is essential. Rushing with your tongue straight away can be overwhelming. Gradually build up to it, making the transition smooth and enjoyable for both parties. Be mindful of movements and try to mirror your partner’s actions, ensuring a balanced and reciprocated experience. Furthermore, keeping the tongue subtle and gentle can make the kiss more romantic and intimate.

6. Don’t Keep Pulling Away

Of course, this if you want to be kissed. If you don’t want to be kissed, then you pull away and if that doesn’t work, smack them. Now, if you actually want to be kissed by that person, then don’t keep pulling away.

5. Oxygen

People hate it when you push too hard, shove your tongue down their throat and don’t give enough oxygen. You should do it gently and give room for oxygen. While I said do not keep pulling away, there is a time you need oxygen, so use that time to gently kiss the neck.

4. Don’t Make Jokes

While you are kissing and in an intimate hold, don’t keep making jokes. I think this is a bit childish and guys could get turned off by this one. Especially, if you are making jokes about saliva or something gross.

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3. Don’t Belch

Oh goodness, if you feel that you are about to belch, please don’t do it in their mouth. By all means, ignore number 6 and pull away before you belch!

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2. Don’t Pass Your Gum

Unless your partner specifically asks for you to give the gum from your mouth to their mouth, don’t do it. This could totally gross them out.

1. Don’t’ Say Someone else’s Name

While you are kissing, I know things get in the heat of the moment, but you should avoid saying someone else’s name. You definitely should not say your ex girlfriend or boyfriend’s name. Also, don’t go and mention how they used to kiss – this is not the time or the place to do something like that and sometimes, things are better off not said.

Those are 7 things not to do when kissing. If you do these things, then your partner may not respect you so much the next time the two of you kiss. They may also try to avoid giving you kisses from then on out. Oh and as a reminder, before you kiss, make sure you clean your nose, because you would hate to introduce your partner to whatever may be inside your nose. I think I about covered it – do you have a terrible kissing story you would like to share with us?

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Ugh my ex boyfriend was the WORST kisser EVER!! First he asked me to bite him as hard as I could. Later on when we were actually kissing I licked him lip, so he "returned the favor" by licking my entire face, stomache, and left arm. Then he went back to my face and proceeded to kiss me. He kissed with his entire mouth. As in, it felt like he was trying to shove his mouth in mine. I could hardly breathe, and worse, he had me pinned to a wall so I couldn't pull away and get a breath. His teeth were like grinding against mine the entire time, and it was just him swirling his tounge in my mouth the entire time. Even small little pecks were rough and hard and just horrible, and 9 times out of 10 they ended up to the "teeth to teeth" makeout session that left me breathless and my tounge tired, but not in the good ways.

Okay so I know this is really gross, but I actually did number 3 hahahaha! It was with a guy that I dated 3 and well it kinda just happened but it was a really tiny one. He laughed and laughed. He makes fun of me every great once in a while but he was never bothered by it. Its been a year and we're still dating so that goes to show as long as you can laugh it off you'll be fine!

"Don't keep pulling away" you don't know what you're missing...one of the most seductive maneuvers ever.

I remember my first kiss. I was so confused as to what to do. The guy asked to kiss me, and I had told him yes. But once we finally started kissing I didn't know what to do! He was amazing at it, so I just kind of followed his lead. After awhile I got the hang of it, but it was still embaressing. He said it wasn't that bad, but it wasn't great.