Kissing is always fun to do – I still remember my first kiss – I think those are things that you will never forget. My husband and I like to talk about our first kiss (with each other, of course). Kissing is romantic and it can really set the mood. Of course, there are some things that you should avoid doing or saying when the two of you are engaged in this intimate moment. Below, I am going to give you 7 things not to do when kissing …
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7. Don’t Charge with Your Tongue Sticking out
This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue.
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This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue. Additionally, timing is essential. Rushing with your tongue straight away can be overwhelming. Gradually build up to it, making the transition smooth and enjoyable for both parties. Be mindful of movements and try to mirror your partner’s actions, ensuring a balanced and reciprocated experience. Furthermore, keeping the tongue subtle and gentle can make the kiss more romantic and intimate.
6. Don’t Keep Pulling Away
Of course, this if you want to be kissed. If you don’t want to be kissed, then you pull away and if that doesn’t work, smack them. Now, if you actually want to be kissed by that person, then don’t keep pulling away.
5. Oxygen
People hate it when you push too hard, shove your tongue down their throat and don’t give enough oxygen. You should do it gently and give room for oxygen. While I said do not keep pulling away, there is a time you need oxygen, so use that time to gently kiss the neck.
4. Don’t Make Jokes
While you are kissing and in an intimate hold, don’t keep making jokes. I think this is a bit childish and guys could get turned off by this one. Especially, if you are making jokes about saliva or something gross.
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3. Don’t Belch
Oh goodness, if you feel that you are about to belch, please don’t do it in their mouth. By all means, ignore number 6 and pull away before you belch!
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2. Don’t Pass Your Gum
Unless your partner specifically asks for you to give the gum from your mouth to their mouth, don’t do it. This could totally gross them out.
1. Don’t’ Say Someone else’s Name
While you are kissing, I know things get in the heat of the moment, but you should avoid saying someone else’s name. You definitely should not say your ex girlfriend or boyfriend’s name. Also, don’t go and mention how they used to kiss – this is not the time or the place to do something like that and sometimes, things are better off not said.
Those are 7 things not to do when kissing. If you do these things, then your partner may not respect you so much the next time the two of you kiss. They may also try to avoid giving you kisses from then on out. Oh and as a reminder, before you kiss, make sure you clean your nose, because you would hate to introduce your partner to whatever may be inside your nose. I think I about covered it – do you have a terrible kissing story you would like to share with us?
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Joe: My first kiss was so embarrassing... I was dating my first boyfriend and we'd spent the day together and I walked him home. And then we were just stood outside his door and I tried to be all romantic and grabbed his tie and then he tripped and when I finally did kiss him I lost my nerve so pushed him away and then hugged him... Luckily he didn't mind and we made up for it the next time... Phew talk about a close shave =D
Anonymous: My first kiss (with my current boyfriend) was sooooo embarrassing! It was the end of our first date and I gave him a hug and then I was going to give him a kiss on the cheek - only he didn't quite get that and thought I was going for the lips. So we sort of met in the middle on the corner of the mouth. And so then I thought, oh alright, we'll go for the lips then, and tried that but we still missed! This was his first kiss, not mine, so we like to pretend that kiss didn't count. We made up for it the next time! And although I blush from embarrassment whenever I think about how awkward it was, it's still a good story to tell!
Twinklez: Girls at school are really annoying, they keep on cramming me to kiss my crush, but i don't want to. im 13 years old, i think i have time.. right?
Ice: "do not say someone else's name", especially your other girlfriend / boyfriend XD
Anonymous: who wrote this stuff? a 6th grader?
Sassy: I am curious about the one that says Oxygen. Do you hold your breath while kissing? And if so, how old are you really?
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