When it comes to relationships, sometimes it's all about keeping things spicy and a tad unpredictable. In 2024, generating a bit of jealousy can be the magic trick to keep your special someone on his toes, constantly reminding him about how fabulous and desirable you are. Maybe that's something your grandmother never told you, but hey, we live in a new era where shaking things up is not just recommended; it's expected! So, you’re probably wondering, "How do I pull this off without seeming like a total schemer?" Well, my friend, welcome to the world of jealousy techniques.
Now, before you accuse me of promoting manipulation, hear me out. We're not talking about causing any relationship disasters here. It’s all about light-hearted, fun strategies that can escalate the excitement and passion in your relationship. Think of it as adding some extra pepper to your already delightful stew. Remember, ladies, men are wired differently, and sometimes, instigating a little rivalry can make your guy realize what a catch he has. You’ll be surprised at how small actions can lead to bigger commitment.
Just the other day, I tried one of these clever jealousy tips myself. As a university graduate, I like to believe I document my every interaction (thanks, psychology classes), and let me tell you, these tricks work! Ever tried subtly flaunting the new attention you’re getting from an admirer? It’s all about leaving slight hints here and there - I promise, no dramatic scenes required.
So, grabbing your imaginary popcorn, let’s dive into one of the first primary tips: effortlessly flaunt your independence. Show him that you’ve got a life outside of just waiting around for his text or call. Go out with your friends, pick up a new hobby, or post a selfie from your latest solo adventure. Next, circle back to what I call "The Glorious Ex Factor" - yes, bringing up an old flame in casual conversation can stir up those possessive inclinations and remind him that you’re a hot commodity.
To keep things balanced and not turn it into a competitive sport, it’s also crucial to give him a taste of his own medicine – we’ll cover that juicy bit under “Mirror Effect”. So, grab a comfy seat, and get ready to sprinkle some delicious, strategic confusion in your guy’s mind with these clever, friendly tips you’re about to master. Wouldn't want him taking you for granted in 2024, now would we? Welcome to the fun side of love games!
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1. Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
Take a good look at yourself. When was the last time you had a sexy haircut? Get an appointment with your hair salon for a body wax, manicure and a pedicure. You can’t make anyone jealous if you look like a yellow toothed gorilla. Add some color to your hair and look clean, and get ready to take on the world.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
2. Pamper Yourself a Bit
Remember the money you’re saving up to buy him a new tie? Spend it! Buy a pair of elegant black pumps. Move over to the lingerie section and get something strappy, a little bold but not too flashy. Subtlety works like magic! When you get home, leave the package at some obvious location. You don’t have to open it all out. Just leave a little bit of lace peeping out of the cover. Don’t mention it when your man comes home. Don’t even wear it for the next week. He’ll wonder why you bought such awesome innerwear when you were not planning to use it!
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
3. Girls Day out
Avoid sitting at home and calling up your man to ask him when he’s coming back from home. Be independent. Get a hobby to keep yourself occupied. Find friends who are not common to his. Make plans to keep you busy in the evenings. You want him to know that you have a life and that you are a happy and independent women of the 21st century. If he doesn’t have time for you, then you are not going to wait around forever.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
4. Join a Gym
Make sure that the gym that you join is unisex. Mention in passing the names of a couple of ‘male’ friends and how they’re so regular to the gym. Also mention how you appreciate that they’re putting so much effort into looking good. If you have a personal trainer, then all the better! Don’t forget to talk about his biceps.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. A Bouquet of Questions
If Valentine’s is around the corner, make a pact with your girlfriends to send each other red roses. Don’t include a card. When it arrives, look happy. Don’t prance around him asking if he sent it. Act like it’s just another day. After you’re done with the cooking, take a bath and change into something nice before you sit down to dinner. Don’t look surprised, if he compliments the food today (even if it’s just broccoli).
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Playing it cool is key. Ignite that spark of jealousy by casually mentioning that your coworker had nothing but praise for your new project—or that your ex just got married and you're genuinely happy for him. Let him see that your world is bustling with admiration from others, yet you’re as unfazed as ever. Sipping your coffee with poise, flash him the faintest hint of a smile. It's not about being deceitful, but allowing him to realize that you are a gem desired by many, yet choosing to shine alongside him.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
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6. Use Thy Neighbor
If you have a good looking single neighbor then call him over to fix the leaking tap in the kitchen or get him to help you with the gardening. Ensure he’s still around when your man gets home. Soon he’ll be looking around for things to fix up at home!
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By inviting the handsome neighbor over, you’ll hit the jealousy sweet spot. Watch how those mundane, ignored chores around the house suddenly become priorities. A little competition never hurt anyone. Just make sure you don't go overboard—subtlety is your best friend here. Keep it playful and innocuous, after all, you’re just being a friendly neighbor, right? But the presence of a potential rival will make your man realize that he might need to step up his game if he doesn’t want anyone else playing the handyman at home.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
7. Be Secure
If you really love your man, there’s no need to go all out to hurt him. We just want to nudge him in the right direction. Sometimes a heart to heart talk can revive a marriage like nothing else. Sit him down, tell him that he’s the love of your life and nothing would ever come between you. Men need to feel needed. And if you’re a emotionally strong, sexy, entertaining and loving woman then there’s no reason why he wouldn’t want you around.
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Communicate openly and earnestly about your feelings. Sweep away the cobwebs from any misunderstandings by pouring your heart out. Reassure him of your commitment and stress the importance of trust. Flirt with him; it’s not just for the dating phase! Keep the spark alive and remind him why he fell for you in the first place. Men appreciate transparency, so keep it real and honest. It will strengthen your bond and make any notions of jealousy constructive rather than destructive.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
8. In Action
If he normally only sees you one-on-one, it's time to invite your girlfriends over to the house. That way, he'll get to see a whole new side of you. When he notices how easily you can make your friends laugh and how much they love you, it'll make him jealous he's not a part of the fun. Of course, you should always invite him to join in.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
9. Get Checked out
This one is tricky, because you want a guy to check you out, but you don't want to reciprocate any feelings out of respect for your boyfriend. The trick is to wear something that really shows off your body when you go to a place you know a lot of single men will be. Whenever a guy catches a glimpse of you, your man will be jealous that you're getting attention.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
10. Post Pictures
When you go out with your friends, it helps to have proof of the fun times you had without him. Snap some photos and post them on Facebook or just show them to him when you get home. He'll be jealous that you were having tons of fun without him around.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
11. Wait to Respond
When he texts you, don't respond right away. You shouldn't keep him waiting for hours, but you should wait long enough that he'll be wondering what you could possibly be doing. It's a simple way to get his mind going.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
12. Guy Friends
If you have a group of guy friends, hang out with them. As long as you don't cross any lines, your man has no right to be angry--but he'll definitely be jealous. He wants you all to himself, even if he hasn't told you that in a while.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
13. Name Drop
Even if you haven't seen your guy friends in forever, mention them in a conversation. Your man might get jealous over simply hearing his name. You could also leave your phone on the table when another guy is texting you, so that your man sees just how social you are.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
14. Easy on the Details
If he asks you about your new male coworker, go easy on the details. The less you say about him, the more your man will wonder about how attractive he is and how well you two get along. Less is more, as they say.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
15. Watch Celebrities
Even though you've never been in the same room as your favorite celebrity, your man will still get jealous when you go on and on about him. That means that you could make him jealous just by watching a certain show or movie with that actor. The more interested in it you look, the more jealous he'll become.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
16. Look Good for Everybody else
If you don't dress up for him, but you dress up to hang out with other people, he'll be super jealous. He'll be wondering why you don't care about him as much as you care about them, so make sure you remind him of how much you love him at the end of the day.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
17. Stop Caring
If you show him that you don't care about his attention, he'll probably give you more of it. People are funny that way. So if you want to make him jealous, act like you couldn't care less if he was jealous.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
18. Get Hit on
Your man doesn't have to see someone else hit on you in order to be jealous over it. If you casually mention that your coworker asked you out, he'll be just as jealous as he would've been if he watched the whole scene unfold in person.
Well, sometimes a little jealousy can spark a reminder of your value and make him realize what he's got. It can reignite the passion in your relationship if things have become too routine.
As long as it’s harmless! If he’s super committed to his fitness routine and it's bothering you, showing that you have a life outside of him can make him realize he shouldn’t take you for granted.
It's a delicate situation. Making him jealous can be a way to show you're desirable, but communication and therapy might also be necessary to truly heal and move forward. The key is balance.
It might! Sometimes showing that you’re strong, independent, and still desirable can make him rethink the separation. But don’t play too many games; focus on self-growth first.
Not necessarily. If he cheated, he might need a wake-up call. Showing you’re wanted by others can make him realize what he stands to lose. Just be careful not to stoop to any unhealthy behavior.
19. Be Happy
The easiest way to make others jealous is to enjoy your life. When they see how happy you are, they'll want to be a part of it. It's as simple as that, and you won't be hurting anybody.
As long as you don't hurt your man, there's no harm in making him a teensy bit jealous. Of course, in a healthy relationship, you two should be able to work out your issues without resorting to these tactics. Does your man get jealous easily?
This article was written in collaboration with editor Holly Riordan.
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OK WHO EVER READS THIS DONT DO IT THIS IS BULL SHIT, THIS IS THE SAME SHIT I TRYED WITH THE LAST FEW MEN I DATED AND IT DID NOT WORK, AT MOST WHAT IT REALLY DOES IS IT CHACES THEM AWAY BELIEVE ME, THEY DONT LIKE TO FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE COMPETITION AND EXPECIALY NOT WITH GUY'S AT A GYM. ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A HALF A YEAR NOW AND WE STILL HAVE THE SAME HUGE LOVE SPARKS WE'VE ALWAYS HAD EXCEPT FOR ABOUT TWO MONTHS AFTER WE STARTED DATEING I STARTED LISTENING TO THIS TYPE OF SHITTY ADVICE AND DO YOU KNOW WHERE IT GOT ME? IT GO ME TO A POINT WHERE MY FIANCE DID'NT WANT TO HEAR A DAMN WORD I SAID AND TO A POINT WHERE HE WANTED TO TAKE ME HOME AS SOON AND POSSIBLE AND HANG OUT WITH ME LESS. THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU IS TO STAY CALM WHEN IT COME'S TO OTHER GIRLS AND DON'T TALK ABOUT FIGHTING THEM INSTEAD JUST SAY TO HIM "I KNOW YOU LOVE ME AND I HAVE NO WORRIES SO I'M NOT EVEN GOING TO WORRY ABOUT HER" AND THAT MAKE'S HIM FEEL LIKE YOU TRUST AND TRUELY LOVE HIM, BELIEVE ME I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO GET THREW A SINGLE RELATIONSHIP IN MY LIFE POSSATIVELY, BECAUSE I ALWAYS DID THIS KINDA SHIT BUT THEN I DESIDED TO MAKE MY OWN PATH AND TREAT HIM LIKE A PEACE OF GOLD IN MY LIFE RATHER THAN A RAG, BUT BEFORE THIS I HAD DEPRESSION SO I TRYED TO OVERDOSE ON MEDS AND SIX DAYS AFTER I GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL YOU KNOW WHAT HE SAID TO ME? "YOUR THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPEND TO ME AND I DID'NT REALIZE IT TILL YOU STARTED TREATING ME ALL NICE THE WAY YOU DID BEFORE YOU WENT TO THE HOSPITAL, AND WHEN YOU DONE WHAT YOU DID I WAS SO WORRIED THAT I WAS GOING TO LOSE YOU AND I KEPT THINKING IF I DID LOSE YOU I WOULD BE RIGHT BEHIND YOU" AND THEN HE STARTED TO CRY RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, YOU KNOW YOU'VE GOT A GUY TO ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU WHEN HE FEELS COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO CRY IN FRONT OF YOU, BTW GUY'S DON'T ALWAY'S CARE HOW YOU LOOK BUT IT REALLY DOES HELP TO TRY TO LOOK CUTE AND BEAUTIFUL ON DAY'S WHEN THE TWO OF YOU ARE GOING TO HANG OUT IN TOWN OR WITH YOUR FRIEND BUT WHEN IT'S JUST THE TWO OF YOU IN YOUR BED ROOM THATS WHEN YOUR SUPPOSE TO GO HIGHER THAN CUTE TO SEXY LIKE HIGH HEELS AND BTW MOST GUYS AT LIP STICK AND LIP GLOSS IT GROSES THEM OUT, BUT IF YYOU TREAT HIM WITH RESPECT AND LOVE HIM THEN GUESS WHAT HE WILL DO THE SAME FOR YOU HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND LISTEN TO WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY.
Wow, this is terrible, awful advice. Want to have a mature meaningful adult relationship? Then stop reading crap like this and try being a mature adult. It's really not that hard. If you're dumb enough to actually try these ridiculous mind games you deserve to get left. Then you can go to the bar with all your other single girlfriends who also got left and whine about how there are no good men out there. Pathetic. Just pathetic.
Ladies, why are we even bothering.. If we have got to make them jealous then maybe they are just nit worth the hassle in the first place! X
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Taylar:OK WHO EVER READS THIS DONT DO IT THIS IS BULL SHIT, THIS IS THE SAME SHIT I TRYED WITH THE LAST FEW MEN I DATED AND IT DID NOT WORK, AT MOST WHAT IT REALLY DOES IS IT CHACES THEM AWAY BELIEVE ME, THEY DONT LIKE TO FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE COMPETITION AND EXPECIALY NOT WITH GUY'S AT A GYM. ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A HALF A YEAR NOW AND WE STILL HAVE THE SAME HUGE LOVE SPARKS WE'VE ALWAYS HAD EXCEPT FOR ABOUT TWO MONTHS AFTER WE STARTED DATEING I STARTED LISTENING TO THIS TYPE OF SHITTY ADVICE AND DO YOU KNOW WHERE IT GOT ME? IT GO ME TO A POINT WHERE MY FIANCE DID'NT WANT TO HEAR A DAMN WORD I SAID AND TO A POINT WHERE HE WANTED TO TAKE ME HOME AS SOON AND POSSIBLE AND HANG OUT WITH ME LESS. THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU IS TO STAY CALM WHEN IT COME'S TO OTHER GIRLS AND DON'T TALK ABOUT FIGHTING THEM INSTEAD JUST SAY TO HIM "I KNOW YOU LOVE ME AND I HAVE NO WORRIES SO I'M NOT EVEN GOING TO WORRY ABOUT HER" AND THAT MAKE'S HIM FEEL LIKE YOU TRUST AND TRUELY LOVE HIM, BELIEVE ME I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO GET THREW A SINGLE RELATIONSHIP IN MY LIFE POSSATIVELY, BECAUSE I ALWAYS DID THIS KINDA SHIT BUT THEN I DESIDED TO MAKE MY OWN PATH AND TREAT HIM LIKE A PEACE OF GOLD IN MY LIFE RATHER THAN A RAG, BUT BEFORE THIS I HAD DEPRESSION SO I TRYED TO OVERDOSE ON MEDS AND SIX DAYS AFTER I GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL YOU KNOW WHAT HE SAID TO ME? "YOUR THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPEND TO ME AND I DID'NT REALIZE IT TILL YOU STARTED TREATING ME ALL NICE THE WAY YOU DID BEFORE YOU WENT TO THE HOSPITAL, AND WHEN YOU DONE WHAT YOU DID I WAS SO WORRIED THAT I WAS GOING TO LOSE YOU AND I KEPT THINKING IF I DID LOSE YOU I WOULD BE RIGHT BEHIND YOU" AND THEN HE STARTED TO CRY RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, YOU KNOW YOU'VE GOT A GUY TO ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU WHEN HE FEELS COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO CRY IN FRONT OF YOU, BTW GUY'S DON'T ALWAY'S CARE HOW YOU LOOK BUT IT REALLY DOES HELP TO TRY TO LOOK CUTE AND BEAUTIFUL ON DAY'S WHEN THE TWO OF YOU ARE GOING TO HANG OUT IN TOWN OR WITH YOUR FRIEND BUT WHEN IT'S JUST THE TWO OF YOU IN YOUR BED ROOM THATS WHEN YOUR SUPPOSE TO GO HIGHER THAN CUTE TO SEXY LIKE HIGH HEELS AND BTW MOST GUYS AT LIP STICK AND LIP GLOSS IT GROSES THEM OUT, BUT IF YYOU TREAT HIM WITH RESPECT AND LOVE HIM THEN GUESS WHAT HE WILL DO THE SAME FOR YOU HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND LISTEN TO WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY.
Dragon:Wow, this is terrible, awful advice. Want to have a mature meaningful adult relationship? Then stop reading crap like this and try being a mature adult. It's really not that hard. If you're dumb enough to actually try these ridiculous mind games you deserve to get left. Then you can go to the bar with all your other single girlfriends who also got left and whine about how there are no good men out there. Pathetic. Just pathetic.
Nicky:Ladies, why are we even bothering.. If we have got to make them jealous then maybe they are just nit worth the hassle in the first place! X
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Take a good look at yourself. When was the last time you had a sexy haircut? Get an appointment with your hair salon for a body wax, manicure and a pedicure. You can’t make anyone jealous if you look like a yellow toothed gorilla. Add some color to your hair and look clean, and get ready to take on the world.
Remember the money you’re saving up to buy him a new tie? Spend it! Buy a pair of elegant black pumps. Move over to the lingerie section and get something strappy, a little bold but not too flashy. Subtlety works like magic! When you get home, leave the package at some obvious location. You don’t have to open it all out. Just leave a little bit of lace peeping out of the cover. Don’t mention it when your man comes home. Don’t even wear it for the next week. He’ll wonder why you bought such awesome innerwear when you were not planning to use it!
Avoid sitting at home and calling up your man to ask him when he’s coming back from home. Be independent. 
Make sure that the gym that you join is unisex. Mention in passing the names of a couple of ‘male’ friends and how they’re so regular to the gym. Also mention how you appreciate that they’re putting so much effort into looking good. If you have a personal trainer, then all the better! Don’t forget to talk about his biceps.
If Valentine’s is around the corner, make a pact with your girlfriends to send each other red roses. Don’t include a card. When it arrives, look happy. Don’t prance around him asking if he sent it. Act like it’s just another day. After you’re done with the cooking, take a bath and change into something nice before you sit down to dinner. Don’t look surprised, if he compliments the food today (even if it’s just broccoli).
If you have a good looking single neighbor then call him over to fix the leaking tap in the kitchen or get him to help you with the gardening. Ensure he’s still around when your man gets home. Soon he’ll be looking around for things to fix up at home!
If you really love your man, there’s no need to go all out to hurt him. We just want to nudge him in the right direction. Sometimes a heart to heart talk can revive a marriage like nothing else. Sit him down, tell him that he’s the love of your life and nothing would ever come between you. Men need to feel needed. And if you’re a emotionally strong, sexy, entertaining and loving woman then there’s no reason why he wouldn’t want you around.
If he normally only sees you one-on-one, it's time to invite your girlfriends over to the house. That way, he'll get to see a whole new side of you. When he notices how easily you can make your friends laugh and how much they love you, it'll make him jealous he's not a part of the fun. Of course, you should always invite him to join in.
This one is tricky, because you want a guy to check you out, but you don't want to reciprocate any feelings out of respect for your boyfriend. The trick is to wear something that really shows off your body when you go to a place you know a lot of single men will be. Whenever a guy catches a glimpse of you, your man will be jealous that you're getting attention.
When you go out with your friends, it helps to have proof of the fun times you had without him. Snap some photos and post them on Facebook or just show them to him when you get home. He'll be jealous that you were having tons of fun without him around.
When he texts you, don't respond right away. You shouldn't keep him waiting for hours, but you should wait long enough that he'll be wondering what you could possibly be doing. It's a simple way to get his mind going.
If you have a group of guy friends, hang out with them. As long as you don't cross any lines, your man has no right to be angry--but he'll definitely be jealous. He wants you all to himself, even if he hasn't told you that in a while.
Even if you haven't seen your guy friends in forever, mention them in a conversation. Your man might get jealous over simply hearing his name. You could also leave your phone on the table when another guy is texting you, so that your man sees just how social you are.
If he asks you about your new male coworker, go easy on the details. The less you say about him, the more your man will wonder about how attractive he is and how well you two get along. Less is more, as they say.
Even though you've never been in the same room as your favorite celebrity, your man will still get jealous when you go on and on about him. That means that you could make him jealous just by watching a certain show or movie with that actor. The more interested in it you look, the more jealous he'll become.
If you don't dress up for him, but you dress up to hang out with other people, he'll be super jealous. He'll be wondering why you don't care about him as much as you care about them, so make sure you remind him of how much you love him at the end of the day.
If you show him that you don't care about his attention, he'll probably give you more of it. People are funny that way. So if you want to make him jealous, act like you couldn't care less if he was jealous.
Your man doesn't have to see someone else hit on you in order to be jealous over it. If you casually mention that your coworker asked you out, he'll be just as jealous as he would've been if he watched the whole scene unfold in person.
The easiest way to make others jealous is to enjoy your life. When they see how happy you are, they'll want to be a part of it. It's as simple as that, and you won't be hurting anybody.
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