Just sex-two words that undeniably grab attention, and often lead to a flurry of raised eyebrows and whispered conversations. If you've ever found yourself in a whirlwind affair, caught between sheets and conversations that stop at "good morning," then this article is tailor-made for you. Not to burst your bubble (or maybe do exactly that), but just sex is a reality for many in 2024, particularly in our fast-paced, swipe-right culture where Netflix and chill can sometimes become Netflix and... you get the idea.
Picture this: you’re with someone exclusively for their fantastic physical connection. You’re not emotionally invested; you don’t celebrate month-iversaries, and the idea of a future together is as fuzzy as a Sunday morning hangover. Ah, been there, done that. Personally speaking, during my ill-fated college romance, it took multiple alarm bells and a friend's relentless wisecracks to see that our emotional bond was shallower than a kiddie pool.
But hey, I'm not alone, right? Many folks are navigating these choppy waters, unsure if they’re more like friends with benefits or just conveniently bypassing the friend part altogether. The good news? This guide is your life raft, your beacon of clarity. By the end of this gem, you'll nail the subtle and not-so-subtle signs they don't introduce you to their friends and that classic moment when your chat history brims only with late-night texts. Been a victim of the mysterious ‘Hey stranger’ text at 2 AM? Yes, we’ll decode that too.
Let’s keep it real. The emotional investment from someone who's only in it for the nookie usually equals zilch. You’ll notice scant post-coital cuddles, and the romantic gestures are often as rare as teeth on a hen. Frankly, stuff like getting your first name wrong (ouch, true story) and never discussing any future plans falls right into our hilarious yet brutally honest signs it’s merely a fling.
So why is 2024 any different? Well, with the rise of casual dating apps, navigating the maze of commitment-free entanglements has never been more confusing. Technology's great but often complicates what was already a convoluted pursuit.
In this article, you'll also get plenty of laughs along the way (promise), and considering issues like avoiding public places becomes all too relatable.
Alright, enough teasing. Fasten your seatbelts and arm yourself with some solid insights, as we delve into 21 spot-on signs that confirm you're in it for the fun and not the forever.
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1. Every Time You See Each Other It’s Only to Have Sex
So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.
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This type of relationship is not uncommon, but it is important to remember that it is not a healthy or sustainable one. It is possible to develop feelings for someone you have sex with, but it is unlikely to lead to a lasting relationship. People in this type of relationship should be aware that it is not likely to evolve into a more meaningful one. Additionally, it is important to practice safe sex and to be aware of the potential risks of having sex without a committed relationship.
2. Only Comes over at Night
They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.
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This behavior is an unmistakable signal that their interest in you isn't about emotional connection, but rather a physical one. If it's always after-hours and never during daylight – think about it, are brunch dates or afternoon walks in the park ever on the agenda? Likely not. It's a relationship that's operating on their time, suiting their needs, and it's all about the convenience of it. That's not partnership; that's a call of desire. In your gut, you know there's no depth to these encounters.
3. Doesn’t Want to Go out Anywhere
Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex
4. Never Talks about Family and Friends
Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.
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In a real relationship, sharing details about one's inner circle is a given. It's a way to let someone in, to make them feel included in your life. If you're in the dark about even the most basic details of their personal life, it's a pretty telling sign. Conversations that evade anything deeper than surface-level topics can indicate a lack of emotional investment, which is a red flag if you're looking for something more meaningful than casual encounters.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. Doesn’t Want to Hear about Your Family and Friends
Are you bummed out about your family and want to talk about it and they don’t want to hear about it. It could be just sex
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6. Phone Conversations or Text Messages Are Only in a Sexual Nature
Do you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.
7. You Only Meet at Places Where Sex Can Occur
Only going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.
8. No Sleepovers
They come over at midnight have sex and then around 2 am they want to go home or send you home. Oh yeah it’s just sex.
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This behavior points to a clear-cut arrangement where emotional ties aren't on the table. If you find that pillow talk is non-existent and the bed is quickly cooled after the deed is done, it's a strong indication that you're in a hookup scenario rather than a blossoming relationship. It's all about physical satisfaction—once that's achieved, the connection seems to fizzle out, literally by night's end. If you're longing for a cuddly morning-after, you may need to adjust your expectations with this setup.
9. You Don’t Eat Together
Ever hear that old saying “a couple that eats together stays together”.
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This adage underscores the intimacy of sharing meals, a basic human connection bonding us through the ritual of eating. When your encounters are solely bedroom-based, skipping the dinner table talks, you miss out on this fundamental form of closeness. It's not just about the food—it's the conversations, the laughs, and those tender moments that weave the fabric of a relationship. If all you savor together is the physical, it might be a sign that you're in a casual fling rather than a nourishing partnership.
10. They Take a Shower Right after Sex and Send You on Your Way
Normally you want to rest a bit and maybe talk. When they all of a sudden they want you to leave it’s probably just sex.
11. Never Talk about Life outside the Bedroom
There are so many other things going on that you could talk about.
12. You Only Have a Cell Phone or Beeper Number
It could be Just Sex
13. When You Talk It’s Only to Setup a Sex Time
Ever call then and setup a time to meet and you end up having sex. It’s Just Sex.
14. They Avoid You in Public
You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away. It’s Just Sex.
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When someone is willing to share intimate moments with you but avoids acknowledging you in social settings, it's a glaring signal that they're separating those aspects of their interaction with you. It may sting a bit to realize this, but clarity is key in these situations. If you find that they're consistently slipping away in crowds or giving you the cold shoulder when friends are around, it's likely that they want to keep things casual and aren't interested in integrating you into their broader life or circle. This detachment is symptomatic of a connection that lacks depth beyond the physical.
15. Only Spends a Couple of Hours with You
Only spend enough time with you to have sex. Then It’s Just Sex.
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If your partner consistently makes excuses to leave right after intimacy or shows an evident lack of interest in spending quality time before or after the encounter, it's a stark sign. They prioritize their convenience, ensuring minimal investment beyond the physical connection. This behavioral pattern suggests they might not be emotionally invested in the relationship, but rather in satisfying their carnal desires. It's crucial to recognize when you're being relegated to an afterthought rather than being cherished as a valued companion.
16. There is No Quality Time
No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.
17. He Keeps His Distance
He makes sure the two of you never get too close emotionally by keeping things from you. If you tell him you like it when he does a certain something, he’ll stop because he wants to keep things casual emotionally.
18. He Tells You so
Has he ever straight-up told you that he’s not interested in anything serious and just wants to play the field? He wouldn’t be saying these things if it weren’t true!
19. You Initiate All Communication
If it’s not about sex, all communication is likely to come from you. Are you the only one suggesting dates? Are you the only one who tries to start a real conversation when the two of you are together?
20. He Doesn’t Care if He Hurts Your Feelings
If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.
21. He Cheats
Or should I say he has multiple sex partners that he’s not very private about. If the guy is openly having sex with multiple partners, it is definitely not a relationship.
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I have known this man for many years he comes into my place of work off and on we are booth married and have flirted and shown Intrest in each other we have txt off and on to each other we meet up about a year ago and made out !!! Now about two weeks ago we hooked up and went to his house and had sex and now I haven't heard from him I txt him last week to let him know that I had a good time and that I did not expect any thing more from him !! But he never responded ??? Should I txt him again and ask him if everything is ok or should I just let it go ?
Hi, Please help for some advice reagrding my case. This is my story. We are in the same company. Since I started working in our company every time we saw each other it’s just hi and hello and some kidding moments because he is funny guy. No attraction involve for both of us. Even me I don’t want to get involved to other nationality in terms of relationship because for me we have different point view that somehow we will not understand each other. But I’m not against being friends with them, that’s the only thing I want from them, friendship and companionship, since I’m not in my own country. July this year we became friends in facebook. Since then almost every day we are talking thru chat then after a week we are using skype and we are seeing each other thru webcam every time we are chatting. Then we are just enjoy talking to each other for more than an hour. He’s a very nice man; he has this funny personality that you cannot have dull moments with him that I can’t resist. Then the next month August we started going out sometimes he’s the one who dropped me home after work, then eat late dinner outside, so it happened many times, until we came to a point that I go with him in his place. And as expected we had sex. After that it happened again many times, I’m staying in his place for more than 2 hours and one time we are 24 hours together in his place. At that point I had this feeling that I’m starting to have feelings for him, but I knew him very well that he don’t want any commitment. That what we are doing is nothing serious that it’s just for fun. He’s a happy go lucky man. And he admitted that since before. That he’s a cheater. So that time I decided to talk to him and had an agreement that if he has new girl or if he found someone new to have fun with he will let me know and he told same rules will be applied for me. So we had that deal. After that we still continue what we started, had sex going out staying and in his place, but difference now is we are not talking on the net that much as we use to be. And because of those things, even I had no right because we had a deal I still asked him if he’s avoiding me. But as expected he told me he’s just very busy with his work, and he’s not avoiding me, then he told me that “I thought we already talked about it, if there’s something going on with me I will tell you, you know me I’m very honest person”. Then I said ok I understand. Then we continue talking but not every day. He’s treating me the same. Until this month September 2011, then again I felt that he’s avoiding me and I have this instinct that my other officemate is being closed with him because they are enroll in one program after work doing some work out. You know its women intstince. And the girl obviously flirting with him when the guy is in our working area. but the girl didn't know anything about us. So I didn’t ask him reagrding that. But one time again I tried to talk to him seriously then again he told he’s not avoiding me he’s just really busy finishing all things before leaving going to vacation. Then I ask him what if I started to have feelings for him what he will do. But I told him it’s just what if. Then he answered me, that he don’t want to hurt my feelings so try not to fall for him because he’s a cheater and he knew himself very well that he cannot stay in long relation, that if I have feelings for him he will just hurt me every time since he cannot commit to one relation. He also told me that he really like me that once he knew I’m hurting; he will back out without notice in our situation now. And since I’m still enjoying what we have and I’m still happy with him, I told him that I’m not also looking for any relation, I just want to enjoy my life, and be happy with him and I will stay for whatever we have. I just told him once he wants to back out just tell me and I will understand. But of course you know the feeling deep inside. Then he agreed and promised me that nothing will change between us we still have this kind of situation, no commitment, no relation. And now he’s on vacation. I don’t know what to do Suzy. What I’m thinking now is that I’m still happy with what we have though I know that I will be hurt in the end. I will just show him who I am, because I’m really sweet with him I want to show him how important he is with me, that he’s making me happy, I don’t want to tell him that I do really have feelings for him. I will just go with the flow and pretend that nothing’s wrong that everything was ok that I'm just having fun and as long as I feel happy being with him. And I’m not losing hope that I can change his point of view about commitment, about relation. I will show him everything he believed about relation and commitment was wrong thru actions. In short I will do my best to make him fall for me or at least have feelings for me.. But I will not make him feel that I’m pressuring him, and I don’t want him to think that I have feelings for him. I just want to make things happen naturally that may he will have feelings for me. What do you think, am I doing the right thing? Please give me advice because every time we are together he’s so sweet and caring, he makes me feel that he cares for me specially the time that we spend 24 hours together. And I know he’s honest that if there’s someone new he will tell me but he assured me now that there’s nothing going on. Do you think somehow he has feelings for me now? Do you think he’s just afraid to show that to me maybe because of his ego, because he has this character in mind that he is a cheater and he can’t stay long in a relation? What is the best that I can do to make him fall for me? Is it really possible that he will have feelings for me? or he already has feelings for me? Or do I really to stop this? Thanks anyone can give me serious advice about this. My Best Regards, Xianne
Ok so I've been having sex with this guy pretty much everyday for the past 4 months. At first it was just about the sex for me but then of coarse I started feeling something more. I have stayed the night over his house and I've meet his family. We talk about things other than sex sometimes, but neither of us like talking much anyways. Though he does only call me to see what I'm doing then we end up having sex, day or night. I don't know if it's just sex or if he actually likes me but is too shy to say something. Also, I know this is weird, but we've never kissed even though I've wanted to, he's never tried really. I guess that's a pretty big indicator that it's just sex huh? I want something more though but I don't want to mess up whatever we have if he doesn't feel the same. Idk what to do...
I met the love of my life. As luck would have it, this 'doesn't need a girlfriend' guy fell in love with me in just weeks. We were in a love bubble for some time. I spent mostly every night at his house for 2 years, never fought, had a ridiculously awesome sex life, his whole family LOVES me, as much as he does. We became as good of friends as lovers, just understood one another. Abou a month after my dad died, he told me that he wasn't feeling accomplished enough, fights with his brother too much, doesn't like his living situation, wants to do more with his music 'career', and he wasn't making the choices like these to make him happier and he needed a break from our relationship. I talked to this guy everyday for 2 years and we go six weeks of not talking, he goes on vacation, comes back and wants to hang out. We have sex, great sex, but two days later he confesses he still isn't ready for a commitment. So over the last month and a Half we've been getting together, hanging out and not having sex and hooking up to just have sex. We don't say I love you, and he stresses that he wants me, doesn't think it's fair to ask me to wait until he's ready, I know I matter to him, but I don't know if I am making the right decision. Am I encouraging bad behavior by having just sex with him, when I'm still in love with him? I don't know how to handle this. I see the man I love when it's just us two, but I still feel like he is troubled. He told his brothe that he wants to be 'just friends' with me in a drunken stupor, and he's been making mistakes with me. Then call me and ask me to come over and tell me he likes our relationship. What do you do? Will he realize what he truly wants if I stop having sex with him? If I don't stop having just sex, will it always be just that? Blah! Thank you.
I'm a college student and going to be a junior, he is going to be a senior. He is typically known for being quite the ladies man. I did have sex with him too soon, which was a mistake but it happened and I don't typically do that so I forgave myself. We continued to have sex and he invited me on his next 4 fraternity date functions and over the last two and a half months I've gotten to know his friends and roommates. I've heard from more than one of them that he talks about me and says great things about me which I don't believe is normal behavior for him. However, although we've hung out in the day and have really great, long real life talks we haven't really gone on "dates" outside hanging out at his house or parties. He knows about me, my friends and my family and I know about his. The last few weeks of school we were having less sex than normal and there were even a few nights I slept over with no sex at all. It was really weird because I clearly wanted to and we still hooked up but no sex. He's told me before that I'm the "most fun sex he's ever had" and numerous times...which is a compliment because his number is quite high. If he enjoyed having sex with me so much why does he not want lately?! I came and visited campus where he is staying as I'm home because school is out for summer and we didn't have sex!! It was so weird considering it'd been two weeks since we've seen each other and won't see each other again for awhile as I'm going to Greece. Yes, I was angry with him because he got much to drunk the night before but still! He came and got me at 10PM because he knew I wanted to spend time with my friends and yes I had been drinking but I made it clear I wanted to have sex, and we've done it countless times before after drinking. We just had a super short hookup, made out, talked for two hours...cuddled and went to bed. I am so confused!! Please help me. He's told me he likes me in the past but I think this no sex thing is SO out of character. Is he losing interest? Does he not find me attractive anymore?! What is the deal! I'll take any advice I can get, thank you and sorry for the book of a post!
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Aiajin:the signs are so clear .
Anonymous:I have known this man for many years he comes into my place of work off and on we are booth married and have flirted and shown Intrest in each other we have txt off and on to each other we meet up about a year ago and made out !!! Now about two weeks ago we hooked up and went to his house and had sex and now I haven't heard from him I txt him last week to let him know that I had a good time and that I did not expect any thing more from him !! But he never responded ??? Should I txt him again and ask him if everything is ok or should I just let it go ?
Xianne:Hi, Please help for some advice reagrding my case. This is my story. We are in the same company. Since I started working in our company every time we saw each other it’s just hi and hello and some kidding moments because he is funny guy. No attraction involve for both of us. Even me I don’t want to get involved to other nationality in terms of relationship because for me we have different point view that somehow we will not understand each other. But I’m not against being friends with them, that’s the only thing I want from them, friendship and companionship, since I’m not in my own country. July this year we became friends in facebook. Since then almost every day we are talking thru chat then after a week we are using skype and we are seeing each other thru webcam every time we are chatting. Then we are just enjoy talking to each other for more than an hour. He’s a very nice man; he has this funny personality that you cannot have dull moments with him that I can’t resist. Then the next month August we started going out sometimes he’s the one who dropped me home after work, then eat late dinner outside, so it happened many times, until we came to a point that I go with him in his place. And as expected we had sex. After that it happened again many times, I’m staying in his place for more than 2 hours and one time we are 24 hours together in his place. At that point I had this feeling that I’m starting to have feelings for him, but I knew him very well that he don’t want any commitment. That what we are doing is nothing serious that it’s just for fun. He’s a happy go lucky man. And he admitted that since before. That he’s a cheater. So that time I decided to talk to him and had an agreement that if he has new girl or if he found someone new to have fun with he will let me know and he told same rules will be applied for me. So we had that deal. After that we still continue what we started, had sex going out staying and in his place, but difference now is we are not talking on the net that much as we use to be. And because of those things, even I had no right because we had a deal I still asked him if he’s avoiding me. But as expected he told me he’s just very busy with his work, and he’s not avoiding me, then he told me that “I thought we already talked about it, if there’s something going on with me I will tell you, you know me I’m very honest person”. Then I said ok I understand. Then we continue talking but not every day. He’s treating me the same. Until this month September 2011, then again I felt that he’s avoiding me and I have this instinct that my other officemate is being closed with him because they are enroll in one program after work doing some work out. You know its women intstince. And the girl obviously flirting with him when the guy is in our working area. but the girl didn't know anything about us. So I didn’t ask him reagrding that. But one time again I tried to talk to him seriously then again he told he’s not avoiding me he’s just really busy finishing all things before leaving going to vacation. Then I ask him what if I started to have feelings for him what he will do. But I told him it’s just what if. Then he answered me, that he don’t want to hurt my feelings so try not to fall for him because he’s a cheater and he knew himself very well that he cannot stay in long relation, that if I have feelings for him he will just hurt me every time since he cannot commit to one relation. He also told me that he really like me that once he knew I’m hurting; he will back out without notice in our situation now. And since I’m still enjoying what we have and I’m still happy with him, I told him that I’m not also looking for any relation, I just want to enjoy my life, and be happy with him and I will stay for whatever we have. I just told him once he wants to back out just tell me and I will understand. But of course you know the feeling deep inside. Then he agreed and promised me that nothing will change between us we still have this kind of situation, no commitment, no relation. And now he’s on vacation. I don’t know what to do Suzy. What I’m thinking now is that I’m still happy with what we have though I know that I will be hurt in the end. I will just show him who I am, because I’m really sweet with him I want to show him how important he is with me, that he’s making me happy, I don’t want to tell him that I do really have feelings for him. I will just go with the flow and pretend that nothing’s wrong that everything was ok that I'm just having fun and as long as I feel happy being with him. And I’m not losing hope that I can change his point of view about commitment, about relation. I will show him everything he believed about relation and commitment was wrong thru actions. In short I will do my best to make him fall for me or at least have feelings for me.. But I will not make him feel that I’m pressuring him, and I don’t want him to think that I have feelings for him. I just want to make things happen naturally that may he will have feelings for me. What do you think, am I doing the right thing? Please give me advice because every time we are together he’s so sweet and caring, he makes me feel that he cares for me specially the time that we spend 24 hours together. And I know he’s honest that if there’s someone new he will tell me but he assured me now that there’s nothing going on. Do you think somehow he has feelings for me now? Do you think he’s just afraid to show that to me maybe because of his ego, because he has this character in mind that he is a cheater and he can’t stay long in a relation? What is the best that I can do to make him fall for me? Is it really possible that he will have feelings for me? or he already has feelings for me? Or do I really to stop this? Thanks anyone can give me serious advice about this. My Best Regards, Xianne
cherries:Ok so I've been having sex with this guy pretty much everyday for the past 4 months. At first it was just about the sex for me but then of coarse I started feeling something more. I have stayed the night over his house and I've meet his family. We talk about things other than sex sometimes, but neither of us like talking much anyways. Though he does only call me to see what I'm doing then we end up having sex, day or night. I don't know if it's just sex or if he actually likes me but is too shy to say something. Also, I know this is weird, but we've never kissed even though I've wanted to, he's never tried really. I guess that's a pretty big indicator that it's just sex huh? I want something more though but I don't want to mess up whatever we have if he doesn't feel the same. Idk what to do...
Anonymous:I met the love of my life. As luck would have it, this 'doesn't need a girlfriend' guy fell in love with me in just weeks. We were in a love bubble for some time. I spent mostly every night at his house for 2 years, never fought, had a ridiculously awesome sex life, his whole family LOVES me, as much as he does. We became as good of friends as lovers, just understood one another. Abou a month after my dad died, he told me that he wasn't feeling accomplished enough, fights with his brother too much, doesn't like his living situation, wants to do more with his music 'career', and he wasn't making the choices like these to make him happier and he needed a break from our relationship. I talked to this guy everyday for 2 years and we go six weeks of not talking, he goes on vacation, comes back and wants to hang out. We have sex, great sex, but two days later he confesses he still isn't ready for a commitment. So over the last month and a Half we've been getting together, hanging out and not having sex and hooking up to just have sex. We don't say I love you, and he stresses that he wants me, doesn't think it's fair to ask me to wait until he's ready, I know I matter to him, but I don't know if I am making the right decision. Am I encouraging bad behavior by having just sex with him, when I'm still in love with him? I don't know how to handle this. I see the man I love when it's just us two, but I still feel like he is troubled. He told his brothe that he wants to be 'just friends' with me in a drunken stupor, and he's been making mistakes with me. Then call me and ask me to come over and tell me he likes our relationship. What do you do? Will he realize what he truly wants if I stop having sex with him? If I don't stop having just sex, will it always be just that? Blah! Thank you.
Nicole:I'm a college student and going to be a junior, he is going to be a senior. He is typically known for being quite the ladies man. I did have sex with him too soon, which was a mistake but it happened and I don't typically do that so I forgave myself. We continued to have sex and he invited me on his next 4 fraternity date functions and over the last two and a half months I've gotten to know his friends and roommates. I've heard from more than one of them that he talks about me and says great things about me which I don't believe is normal behavior for him. However, although we've hung out in the day and have really great, long real life talks we haven't really gone on "dates" outside hanging out at his house or parties. He knows about me, my friends and my family and I know about his. The last few weeks of school we were having less sex than normal and there were even a few nights I slept over with no sex at all. It was really weird because I clearly wanted to and we still hooked up but no sex. He's told me before that I'm the "most fun sex he's ever had" and numerous times...which is a compliment because his number is quite high. If he enjoyed having sex with me so much why does he not want lately?! I came and visited campus where he is staying as I'm home because school is out for summer and we didn't have sex!! It was so weird considering it'd been two weeks since we've seen each other and won't see each other again for awhile as I'm going to Greece. Yes, I was angry with him because he got much to drunk the night before but still! He came and got me at 10PM because he knew I wanted to spend time with my friends and yes I had been drinking but I made it clear I wanted to have sex, and we've done it countless times before after drinking. We just had a super short hookup, made out, talked for two hours...cuddled and went to bed. I am so confused!! Please help me. He's told me he likes me in the past but I think this no sex thing is SO out of character. Is he losing interest? Does he not find me attractive anymore?! What is the deal! I'll take any advice I can get, thank you and sorry for the book of a post!
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So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.
They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.
Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex
Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.
Are you bummed out about your family and want to talk about it and they don’t want to hear about it. It could be just sex
Do you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.
Only going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.
They come over at midnight have sex and then around 2 am they want to go home or send you home. Oh yeah it’s just sex.
Ever hear that old saying “a couple that eats together stays together”.
Normally you want to rest a bit and maybe talk. When they all of a sudden they want you to leave it’s probably just sex.
There are so many other things going on that you could talk about.
It could be Just Sex
Ever call then and setup a time to meet and you end up having sex. It’s Just Sex.
You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away. It’s Just Sex.
Only spend enough time with you to have sex. Then It’s Just Sex.
No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.
He makes sure the two of you never get too close emotionally by keeping things from you. If you tell him you like it when he does a certain something, he’ll stop because he wants to keep things casual emotionally.
Has he ever straight-up told you that he’s not interested in anything serious and just wants to play the field? He wouldn’t be saying these things if it weren’t true!
If it’s not about sex, all communication is likely to come from you. Are you the only one suggesting dates? Are you the only one who tries to start a real conversation when the two of you are together?
If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.
Or should I say he has multiple sex partners that he’s not very private about. If the guy is openly having sex with multiple partners, it is definitely not a relationship.
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