While I do not believe that you should fake an orgasm as it could lead to misunderstandings with your partner and make him think he is doing it right, when he really isn’t.
But if you really need to fake orgasm - for any reason - because you are running out of time, you have had a long day or you have already had one, you should try the following tips:
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10. Make Sure You Keep Your Eyes Closed
If you do not keep your eyes closed, you are never going to fool your sex partner.
9. Make an Occasional Gasp
It'll make him feel as if you are getting close to that big moment. A couple of gasps will fool him if you are not a big fan of noises in bed.
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Incorporating a sudden intake of breath can ramp up the authenticity. This little trick tends to convey a feeling of being overwhelmed by pleasure, which can be very convincing. Remember, timing is key here; use it sparingly and at the right moment to capture the essence of a genuine climax. Just be cautious not to overdo it, as going overboard might just tip him off that your theatrics aren't as spontaneous as they seem. Keep it natural and spontaneous to maintain the illusion.
8. Panting Helps
Change your breathing pattern and start panting slightly. Instead of breathing normally, mix things up a bit by inhaling a couple of times, then exhaling once. You see, when you orgasm, the breathing has a tendency to come and go sporadically.
If he is looking at you and sees you reaching for something to hold onto, he will think that you are close to that magical moment.
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6. Master the Moaning
Moan gently and slowly let your moans get louder and louder. You need to make the same noises you do during a real one in order to be convincing. Don’t let him know you even know how to fake orgasm!
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As you become more expressive, remember to synchronize your breathing with your vocalization. Quicken your breath, as if each exhale is pushing out a moan. Feel free to let out soft sighs initially, then transition into deeper groans as if you're on the brink of ecstasy. It's about painting a sonorous picture of pleasure, but make it as natural as possible – avoid overdoing it. To enhance the illusion further, you might even whisper your partner's name or throw in a few pleading gasps. Just stay in tune with your body's rhythm, as if each sound you make is an involuntary response to overwhelming pleasure.
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5. If Talking...
Start saying something, then let your voice trail off. This will make him think you are caught up in the moment so much that you are not able to think straight.
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As your voice fades, focus on maintaining a convincing facial expression. Allow your eyes to flutter or even close as if the sensation is overwhelming. A well-timed sigh can enhance the effect, suggesting a release of pent-up energy. Remember to keep your performance consistent with your partner's rhythm and intensity—if they slow down, your actions should similarly simmer down. Your body language, combined with the vocal cues, can paint a vivid picture without the need for over-the-top theatrics.
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4. Allow Your Muscles to Spasm
Arch your back, scratch his back and curl your toes. Let him believe that you are losing control of your body.
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3. Grab and Moan
While grabbing him tightly, give a really loud moan.
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2. Let Him Know
Talk to him. Tell him that you are almost there.
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Communicating with your partner is vital, even when putting on a show. Whisper in his ear with breathy enthusiasm. You could suggestively say things like "That feels amazing" or "Keep going, please." It's all about building the illusion of pleasure. Your words can expedite his belief in your enjoyment and bring the act to a timely close. Remember, your voice is a powerful tool—use it to moan, gasp, and let out those convincing little cries of delight that echo authenticity. Just be sure to keep it natural, avoid going over the top, and align your verbal cues with your body language for full effect.
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1. At the End...
Smile, give a little giggle and let your body relax. Don’t forget to tell him how good it is! And go take a shower…
I know, why fake an orgasm when you could have a real one? But this is something that many girls need to know.
Sometimes, when a girl is too stressed out, it is merely impossible to fake an orgasm and they do not want to let the guy down.
These are ten tips on how to fake orgasm that will be sure to province that guy that he did a mighty good job at what he likes doing the best. What about you, have you ever had to fake it? Did the guy ever find out?
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This...This...This is just plain mean... you girls are mean...
For the women that say they cant have an orgasm ... This is because you don't practice enough .. 8) and you dont know how ... most Women arnt like Men. women need to masturbate and practice through trial and error .. learn what makes them orgasm.
Why would anyone try to fake an orgasm?? For me "because you are running out of time, you have had a long day or you have already had one!" are no argument. You have to be a pretty stupid person if you think you're gaining something out of this and that you HAVE to fake it. If you don't have an orgasm maybe it's because you're one of the almost 50% of women who can't reach orgasm only with penetration or you're partner doesn't know how to please you or you don't try to please yourself while he's inside you, etc. I think a woman NEVER has to fake it because it creates an illution, an idea of satisfaction that is completly fake an only leads to self frustration and misscomunication with your partner. Don't lie to yourself, don't lie to him. I think it would be more usefull to use the arguments I quouted to express why you didn't come. And then try to do something about it. There are hundreads of ways to came. Try them! Greetings from Argentina. Nice blog!
I heard it from a friend that usually girls don't reach their limit as fast as guys.... So that friend told us that she had to fake orgasms when her partner was uhh reaching his limit too...
I physically can not orgasm but my man does a pretty amazing job in bed, i probably would orgasm if i could so, i think its a good situation to fake it and let him know he's doing a top job ;)
but then again... if you did this, they would believe it lol
Looooool @ Your comment Sheila. Naughty you!! Sweet as ever! :) Well I don't recommend this to any girl! If you want to please a guy by faking an orgasm remember it's not fair to him or even you. If you're faking, he's thinking he's doing great and every time you'll get bored. If you're tired or aren't in the mood just say so. I'm quite truthful in my feelings, even though sometimes if hurts to say no, it better the truth!
This is horrible, I have been with the same guy for almost 2 years and have never had to fake an orgasm, if he's not giving you an orgasm maybe you should find a new partner!! People seem to forget that sex is an important part of any relationship once you've gotten past getting to know someone, it's important and if you're not attracted to him that way then stop stringing him along, I would never stay with a man that doesn't know how to please me!!!
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zennmaster:This...This...This is just plain mean... you girls are mean...
freejack:For the women that say they cant have an orgasm ... This is because you don't practice enough .. 8) and you dont know how ... most Women arnt like Men. women need to masturbate and practice through trial and error .. learn what makes them orgasm.
Sun:Why would anyone try to fake an orgasm?? For me "because you are running out of time, you have had a long day or you have already had one!" are no argument. You have to be a pretty stupid person if you think you're gaining something out of this and that you HAVE to fake it. If you don't have an orgasm maybe it's because you're one of the almost 50% of women who can't reach orgasm only with penetration or you're partner doesn't know how to please you or you don't try to please yourself while he's inside you, etc. I think a woman NEVER has to fake it because it creates an illution, an idea of satisfaction that is completly fake an only leads to self frustration and misscomunication with your partner. Don't lie to yourself, don't lie to him. I think it would be more usefull to use the arguments I quouted to express why you didn't come. And then try to do something about it. There are hundreads of ways to came. Try them! Greetings from Argentina. Nice blog!
jen:I heard it from a friend that usually girls don't reach their limit as fast as guys.... So that friend told us that she had to fake orgasms when her partner was uhh reaching his limit too...
Anonymous:I physically can not orgasm but my man does a pretty amazing job in bed, i probably would orgasm if i could so, i think its a good situation to fake it and let him know he's doing a top job ;)
Vanisha:but then again... if you did this, they would believe it lol
Xannyyy:Looooool @ Your comment Sheila. Naughty you!! Sweet as ever! :) Well I don't recommend this to any girl! If you want to please a guy by faking an orgasm remember it's not fair to him or even you. If you're faking, he's thinking he's doing great and every time you'll get bored. If you're tired or aren't in the mood just say so. I'm quite truthful in my feelings, even though sometimes if hurts to say no, it better the truth!
Ann:This is horrible, I have been with the same guy for almost 2 years and have never had to fake an orgasm, if he's not giving you an orgasm maybe you should find a new partner!! People seem to forget that sex is an important part of any relationship once you've gotten past getting to know someone, it's important and if you're not attracted to him that way then stop stringing him along, I would never stay with a man that doesn't know how to please me!!!
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