guys are really not that complicated to understand, all u need to do is consult a guy.

We are dating from past eight months and fallen in love. we both love eachother and there is no doubt about it. He introduced me among his friends and sister. He is going to US for his further studies and is very ambitious, which i am aware and support as we both are of the same profession. I asked for commitment but he gave excuses that he is not sure but I thought with love I can change his mind. I did everything in past three months so that I can change his mind at last he said yes he went home had a word with his family they were allright initially but later on they said not for next three years till he pay his education loans and quoted certain other reasons. He told me this and that they might want to look for other options after he return from US. Which really pissed me off and I got angry and had a fight with him.. But later I apologised to him and said that three yers is unreasonable fr me as it ll be a long distance and my parents will not agree to it without any formal ceremony however two years is fine with me and my parents. But he just not understanding and refused to commit though he says he loves me but is not sure but dont want to part also. I had a word with his sister she said everythg is fine its with his mind he is very stubborn. He is flying to US in another twenty days I dont know wat to do, none of his friends is supporting him as he is doing wrong I am ready to wait but just want him to ask me to wait I cannot wait for such a long period without his assurance. Please advice.

I just met this guy in February of this year. I personally think everything is good with us. We're taking our time with meeting the family thing because we're really trying to get to know each other. I mean this is sort of fresh. Recently, one of my friends started having problems with a guy she met online at that has pretty much made me completely nervous about the guy that I am with. The guy she met had lied about everything so it has me thinking. The guy that I met hasn't actually given me a reason not to trust him. I have hung out/stayed the night at his home on more than one occasion and everything seems legit. He tells me all the time that he's serious about me and that I am the only one. He tells me just about everything that he does and his plans. He makes plans for us to do things a year from now and he recently told me he wanted to hang out with me more. So I really don't want to ruin my relationship due to thinking about the issues my friend had in hers. We're definitely not at the marriage stage, and it's way too soon for anything like that. However, I have found that he has really gotten comfortable with me and he has also told me that I am always welcome to stop by anytime. Not to mention he seems to check in with me all the time. We haven had the 'are we a couple' conversation yet...but how do one really have that conversation especially when everything seems to be implied. I really don't want to look stupid asking him are we a couple. What is your take on this?

ive been dating this guy for a year, he is amazing and all. always including me in his trips, agendas and all. I love him so much and am grateful for him. we live together, really he didn't give me an option and told me to pack my bags and move in with him. since then everything is great. we had our ups and downs but still stay strong for each other. He tells me about his dreams of marrying me but im still a little scared of commitment that serious. and talk about having babies that scares me too. ive had 5 guys ask me to marry them and rejected them all, only he makes it harder for me to say no, instead i say "wait' honestly he does have me half n half and planning my wedding but when i realize what im doing i start to think about it and get freaked out. normal for a woman to have these kind of thoughts??

hi ive been a relationship for almost two years, my boyfriend and i have been living together for almost a year. he get nervous about commitment but the other day he said ill be a good wife and he called me his wife, that surprised me. do u think he maybe getting ready for commitment?

well, sometimes, guys , well we are just nervous of hearing the world : no But if she is the one, for sure we will ask the question.... and buy the ring.