There are so many ways to tell if your crush is crushing on you back! Guys like to think that they're being subtle when it comes to girls but we all know they're the worst at that! LOL. Here are some telltale signs that he's totally got a crush on you:
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1. You Run into Him Everywhere
I mean, everywhere. Outside your class after English Comp. At the grocery store. At the coffee shop. At Home Depot. At the mall, where you work. If you’re seeing him everywhere, he may be trying to make YOU notice HIM. Yup, he's got a crush. Smile a little. It will drive him crazy.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
2. He Makes Sweet Gestures
Little gestures can mean a whole lot. If he's leaving you notes on the windshield wiper of your car, meeting you at your locker after class, or just trying his best not to be nervous around you, yeah, he likes you.
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These sweet gestures are not just limited to notes and meeting you after class. He may also go out of his way to do small things for you, like getting you a coffee or offering to carry your books. These thoughtful actions show that he is thinking about you and wants to make you happy. Additionally, he may also show signs of nervousness, such as fidgeting or blushing, when he is around you. These are all clear indicators that he has a crush on you and is trying to show it in his own way.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
3. You Catch His Eye - a Lot
This means he’s looking at you a lot. The next time you catch him looking, smile. He’ll probably either smile back, or blush a little because he got caught.
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Another way to tell if a guy is crushing on you is if he goes out of his way to be near you or talk to you. This could mean choosing a seat next to you in class or joining a group conversation you're a part of. Additionally, pay attention to his body language. If he leans in towards you, makes eye contact, or mirrors your movements, these are all signs that he's interested in you. He may also try to impress you by showing off his talents or knowledge. These are all subtle yet telling signs that he's crushing on you.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
4. He Compliments You - a Lot
He tells you that you have the prettiest smile, the shiniest hair, the nicest smile, he loves that skirt. If he pays you a lot of sincere compliments, that’s another sign he likes you.
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It's not just compliments on your looks, either. He'll notice and appreciate your quirks, the way you laugh, and how you light up when talking about your passions. Whether it’s your sense of humor or the way you handled a tough situation, he's paying attention. His compliments are deep and meaningful, showing he’s really tuned into who you are. When he sees the best in you, even in moments you might not notice yourself, it’s a sure sign he’s got his sights set on you.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
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5. His Friends Know Your Name
If his friends all know your name, that means he’s been talking about you, especially if his friends aren’t in your own circle of friends. If he’s talking to his friends about you, he almost certainly likes you.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
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6. He Asks Questions
He wants to know your opinion, your likes, your dislikes. If he asks a lot of questions, rather than just talking about himself, that means he wants to get to know you better and that he likes you.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
7. He Remembers Details
Asking you questions is a good sign but what's even better is when he remembers everything you said. He's already shown that he has a genuine interest in you but you'll get further confirmation of this if he remembers all the little things you tell him like the name of your first pet, your favorite color, etc.!
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
8. He Comments on Your Facebook/Twitter - a Lot
If he follows you on Twitter or always leaves a comment on your status on your wall, he likes you, and he’s not afraid who else knows it.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
9. He Invites You to His Game
If a guy likes you, he’ll want to show off. If he’s in a band, he’ll invite you to a show. If he plays sports, he’ll ask you to his game. Cheer the loudest and he’s yours.
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He's not just showing off his skills; he's also testing the waters to see if you're interested in his hobbies. Remember, guys often communicate their affection through actions rather than words, so his inviting you is a big step. Whether he's on the field or strumming a guitar on stage, your presence means a lot. And if you're equally enthusiastic about his passions, it further fuels his attraction. Don't be surprised if he glances over to see your reaction during the pivotal moments. Your support could be the sweetest victory of all for him.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
10. He Makes an Effort with Your Friends
If he takes the time and effort to chat with your best friend, he’s probably just trying to find out more about YOU. Perfect! You can always find out exactly what he said later. What else are BFFs for?
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A guy who digs you wants to ingratiate himself with the people you care most about. After all, your tribe is a reflection of you, and he's keen to show that he can jive with your inner circle. When he's asking your friends about their interests or recalling little details from previous conversations, it's a subtle sign that he values your world. Bonus points: He remembers your friends' birthdays or special occasions, proving he's invested in maintaining those friendships, just to see you smile. Trust us, he's not doing that for everyone.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
11. His Body Language
Body language can tell you everything that you need to know. If you notice that he mimics your own body language, it means he’s trying to connect and is completely focused on you! Other things to look out for is if he maintains eye contact and leans in whenever he's talking to you. That shows that's super comfortable around you and feels safe with you!
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
12. He Makes Physical Contact
One of the most obvious signs that a guy is into you is if he tries to make physical contact! This could mean pulling you in for a hug every time he sees you, putting his arm around you, or trying to hold your hand when walking down the street or school hallway! He clearly wants people to know that he's interested in you!
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Physical contact is a clear indication that a guy is interested in you. It shows that he wants to be close to you and is comfortable with physical intimacy. This could also include small gestures like brushing your hair out of your face or playfully nudging you. Additionally, studies have shown that physical touch can release oxytocin, the "love hormone," making him feel more connected to you. So if he's constantly finding ways to touch you, it's a sure sign that he has feelings for you. However, it's important to note that consent is always necessary before any physical contact.
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
13. He Finds Common Interest
If a guy is really into you, he'll make it his duty to find common ground with you. Having the same classes isn't enough, he'll try to connect with you on different levels! This could mean that he'll finally start listening to that band you love or watch that rom-com he swore he'd never watch. Whatever it takes to spark up conversation!
Oh, he's definitely interested! When a guy likes you, he often 'magically' shows up in places you go. It's his way of trying to get more face time with you without seeming too obvious.
This is such a good sign! When a guy invites you to hang out with his friends, it usually means he likes you and wants to see how you'll fit into his social world. Plus, he's probably looking for his friends' approval too.
Inviting you over is pretty special. It means he feels comfortable with you and wants to share his personal space. It's a good opportunity to get to know each other better in a relaxed setting.
If he's mentioning you to his friends, that's a big deal! He's thinking about you even when you're not around and wants his friends to know about you. It's almost like seeking their advice or approval.
Group events are a more relaxed way for him to include you in his life. It means he wants you to be a part of his social circle and see how comfortable you are around his friends. Definitely a positive sign!
14. He Asks You out
BINGO! This is the best way to tell if a guy is interested. Why else would a guy ask you out? And if he is too shy to make the first move, go ahead! You can do the asking. If he does like you, and you like him, enjoy the thrill of the chase. Sit back, relax, and flirt a little. It’s just a matter of time.
Are there any other ways to tell if a guy is interested? Please, let me know!
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yum: 1. You run into him everywhere. 3. You catch his eye — a lot. 4. He compliments you — a lot. 5. His friends know your name. 6. He asks questions. 9. He makes an effort with your friends. i've got them going for me so far :)
lala: Hi guys its me again, lol srry i keep on talkingabout my life but i can't help it..haha but yeah its about me and that guy again. No we're not together i'll let you know when that happens cuz i will be surprised. lol but how do you know if the guy just doesnt like you for your body like i dont think he does i mean he tells me i look great and that i have so much control over him and he said he lliked my smile, he called me beautiful and we have our deep conversations about his life (im more of an introvert and keep things to myself more which is bad i kno but i've been practicing letting things out one at a time so we dont have deep convos about me) but i guess i feel like hes like me for my physical appearance but that can't be right b/c he said he appreciate me being there for him and he really thanks me for that but idk. i'm probably overreacting. blahblah Ignoring my 1st question i had another one He gives me pet names (now i dnt rlly say pet names n that stuff b/c im nt use to that and it sounds werid comin 4rm me so yeah) but is it ok 4 him to call me things like baby and stuff when we're nt even together or whatever it is we're doing. Being 17 has 2 many problems. Ok thanks guys for listening to me ramble. Thanks again:0
:): okay so i go to this church every 2 weeks and there's this guy (lets name him eli) well eli plays the guitar in church and always stares at me during church service but after church service he ignores me.. i try not to look at him when he's up there but i just feel him staring at me and when i look at him he turns away really fast. I want to talk to him but i'm really shy. he added me on myspace and when i said thanks for the add he didn't even respond to me... what can I do to get to know him better with out looking like i'm desperate?
Samantha: Hi, I have a question... So this boy i had a crush on at around 12/13 yrs old also had a crush on me. He then told others and it went around and i had to stop speaking to him due to parents getting involved.. Then recently i saw him again and i still have a crush on him, i just don't know what to do about it. How do i know he likes me? It's different when you dont see the boy a lot, right. Should i just leave it? and see how things go?
Sophie: Hi! I have 2 Co worker. one time i was absent the next day they are both talking about my absence with my friends in the line we work and the 1st guy asked my name but i wasnt able to answer back at once because guy2 asked another question at once. i was working with guy two on the same line and he keeps on dropping lines which makes me feel goosebumps because he's too old for me. Guy1 and guy2 are friends. Guy 2 works on the other section. He comes on our line/ section from time to time and is too shy to look at me but i like him a lot. can you help me tell if he likes me too? thank you.
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