In the fast paced world it is, it’s very easy to get caught up in the endless multitasking, problem solving and simply stop enjoying life.
And being a stress victim in the past myself, I thought I’d share these 5 simple yet effective ways to slow down and enjoy life with all of you, Ladies. Hope they’ll work for you too!
1. De-Clutter
It is very difficult to relax while living in and around clutter. Clutter is defined as disorganized things you do not love, that are unfinished and take up space within your life. It is impossible to relax while your unfinished tasks stare you in the face.
Every time our eyes see them or our attention is brought to them we feel overwhelmed by the fact that there is just one more thing to be done. So, the first thing you’ll need for you stress-free living is de-clutter your home and your working space, which not only look great, but will also give you that inner piece you might be lacking.
2. Create a Relaxing Atmosphere
This will happen as you de-clutter, but create a space within your home that promotes relaxation. This should be a place that can be your retreat, where you can sit back and relax with a good book, a cup of tea, a facial mask or whatever hits the spot for you.
Many people find the methodic sight and sounds of a tabletop water fountain to be a great aid to help create an atmosphere and ambiance that promotes rest and relaxation. For others it’s classic music and the smell of fresh cut flowers that makes them feel calm and relaxed. Either way, create a space within your house where you can feel absolutely relaxed. Use it every day for as long as you wish.
3. Eat Healthy
This is not a new concept, yet many still seem to fight against it. Healthy eating is a lifestyle and it must become a life long pattern. Your body will respond to what you put into it, you know, garbage in, garbage out! But eating healthy doesn’t mean eating cardboard, there’s plenty of healthy yet yummy food choices out there.
My personal favorites are fruit, whole wheat organic bread and great healthy snacks, like Smart Food popcorn clusters and 100 Calorie Sun Chips which I always have in the car just in case I get hungry in between the meals.
4. Exercise
Regular movement (or exercise) is equally important. This may seem like an oxymoron, but exercise brings vitality and energy and actually reduces stress while combating many potential health hazards including depression. Exercise is much more than a method to loose a few pounds; it helps revitalize the mind and body and, plain and simple, it feels good. It is important to find the right exercise plan that will fit you and your lifestyle.
5. Sleep
It is imperative to let your body receive the physical rest it needs. Many people get so busy that sleep seems to get in the way of all the things that need to be done. Make sleep a priority. Schedule it into your day timer of you need to. Nothing refreshes and re-vitalizes the body, like a good nights sleep.
Show me a person that has incorporated these 5 components into their life and I will show you a person who is not an uptight ball of anxiety ready to explode. We all have the control over our lives either to live and enjoy a healthy balance or simply be sucked into the chaos around us. The trouble is if we don’t purposely choose to relax we default to the other.
Do you have some favorite technics that make your stress melt away? Please share with us!
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yes i aggrree,
sleeoing does take stress aways.
can unhappiness in marriage add to your strss?
to Onyeka:
I think any kind of problems (including marital ones) can add to stress. I actually find that family is one of those things that can actually relief stress caused by work, money troubles etc. But if your relationship with the spouse is the cause of stress, it might be time to talk things over and do everything it takes to restore the harmony in the family.
Olga, you are so correct on stating that marital stress is one of the harder ones to overcome. Probably, because your spouse should be your best friend with whom you can share all your happy as well as sad moments. Once you find yourself unable to do that, everything else is so much more difficult to deal with.
My best way to relax is to go shopping alone,for a long time, or work in my garden. Somehow working with dirt and plants puts me in balance with nature, and gives me a sense peace and serenity.
Stress is a problem that most of us have. Between our work schedules and personal lives sometimes we forget the priorities, which is our selves and be swept away with tension that leads to stress then depression.
I agree with you Garth to De-cutter our homes to our likings and comfy ways, and there should be a special place in particular to do what we like best. In my room I made a bean sofa and I try to find an hour or so to read. It helps me to relax my mind and forget everyone around me as I enter in my author’s story and live for a few minutes with the characters. Doing something we enjoy helps to relieve every day’s tension and it’s vital for us. We should make space for our inner needs even if just for a few minutes cause it’s us how should take care of our selves, cause no one else will!
Exercising is helpful for a lot of things. I would like to try out Yoga Garth. It builds your inner strength and helps you to relax, mind, body and spirit. To finish our day a good night sleep is vital even if I my self think it’s a waste of time, as I’m a very energetic person and likes to keep my self busy.
ICe,
Meditation is a really a good way to relieve yourself from stress. I never tried it but I’ll put it in my list to try. I love trying new things especially things for my self! :)
A nice hot bath after a hard stressful day is a top to me. A like to do this on Saturdays before I go out. I dedicate two hrs for my self. A hot bath with herbal essence shower gels, doing my hair with precision, varnish my hand and toe nails, and doing something new with my make up. Girls sometimes looking good can boost your self confidence and Balance your moods! It’s really helpful!
Onyeka,
Every type of unhappiness in your life can lead to stress. Marriage stress is one of those problems that can lead do so much tension. If that’s what unhappy in your life I suggest to try and talk it out with your man and try and add harmony to your self, your marriage and all your family, which sometimes certain problems effect every one!
Good luck love :)
Xannyyy,
I absolutely agree. When you look good, you will feel great! Sure it takes time and all of that but set time aside atleast on the weekend to pamper yourself. You will feel relaxed and much much happier for sure!
sleeping,praying,laughing,and reading a good book
Sheila,
Yes it’s true. We find time to do everything, so why not some threats to our selves!!
Penelope,
Surly laughing is one of the top priorities!
We should carry a laugh on our lips through the whole day! :)
well, being a SAHM with two small children (2 year-old and 6-mos-old) and having to cope with everything alone ’tis rather difficult to find a time for myself. i don’t even mention the relaxing atmosphere that should be created, any fountain that would most surely be broken by my toddler and healthy eating for which i simply don’t have enough time. ut still try to stay optimistic!