Recently, there has been a lot of media coverage of the new 'Bad Girls,' and how they are driving men wild in bed. The real story? These Bad Girls are just like you, and have been driving men wild for years, with no plans to stop now. Men love women who can take control, and let their emotions and sexiness guide them. So if you want to drive him wild, steal these 8 tips for being a bad girl in bed...
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Be the Boss
Seduce him. Don’t wait for the perfect moment, or for him to make the first move, simply jump on him. It only takes men 30 seconds to get aroused, and this will boost your confidence and make you feel sexy, and have his complete attention! If you are shy, don’t think about it or plan it, and do it randomly when you are close to him. If you’re feeling a bit braver, try getting out the handcuffs...
Be the Boss and take control of the bedroom! Seduction is key to a great night in bed. Don't wait for the perfect moment, or for him to make the first move. With just 30 seconds, you can have his complete attention and boost your own confidence. If you're feeling shy, try getting close to him and initiating the action. If you're feeling brave, try out some handcuffs. These are just a few tips to help you take the lead in the bedroom and become the bad girl you've always wanted to be. Have fun and enjoy the experience!
Talk Dirty
Try spicing up your sex life by randomly talking dirty to him. He’ll love the spontaneity and it’s sure to turn him on. Start with some moans and sighs (although you probably shouldn’t have to fake those...) and then add some dirty dialogue... tell him what feels good, and what you’d like him to do next. Once you’ve got started, it’ll come naturally, and he’s sure to love it.
Talking dirty in the bedroom can be a great way to spice up your sex life. It's a great way to express yourself and to make your partner feel desired. It can also be a fun way to explore your fantasies and to let your partner know what turns you on and what you like. Talking dirty can also be a great way to add a bit of playfulness to your relationship. It can be as simple as whispering a few naughty words in your partner's ear or as elaborate as creating a role-play scenario. Whatever you decide to do, it's sure to add some excitement to your bedroom.
Frequently asked questions
Being a 'bad girl' in bed is all about embracing your bold, confident and adventurous side. It means stepping out of your comfort zone to try new things and fully enjoying the experience. It's about having fun and feeling empowered!
Confidence comes from within! Start by knowing your body and what makes you feel good. Communicate with your partner about your wants and needs. Remember, the more comfortable you are, the more confident you'll feel.
Oh, absolutely! Being more adventurous with positions, trying some light bondage or role-playing, and being vocal about what you like can all add that 'bad girl' touch. It’s all about having a playful attitude and being open to exploring.
Honesty is key! Start a conversation when you're both relaxed. You could say something like, 'Hey, I've been thinking about trying something new in bed. How do you feel about it?' Being open and respectful of each other's boundaries is super important.
It’s totally normal to feel a bit anxious! The key is to remember that your pleasure and happiness matter. If your partner cares about you, they’ll be open to your desires. Take baby steps and go at your own pace. It’s a journey, not a race.
Dress up
If you know his fantasies, this is a great way to involve them in your sex life. Explore some sex shops on online boutiques and find a sexy dress up outfit that you like. Then, take a shower, and spend some time moisturizing and pampering yourself so that you look and feel amazing. If you don’t feel like investing in an outfit, use items you already have, such as one of his shirts tied around the waist and a short skirt with white underwear for a school girl look.
Dressing up can be a fun and exciting way to spice up your sex life. It allows you to tap into your partner's fantasies and explore new roles and scenarios. Sex shops and online boutiques offer a wide variety of sexy outfits to choose from, but you can also use items you already have in your wardrobe to create a seductive look. Taking the time to pamper and groom yourself before putting on your outfit can boost your confidence and make you feel irresistible. Dressing up can also add an element of roleplay and excitement to your intimate moments.
Gentle Roughness
Bring out his caveman side by being gently rough with him. Scratch his chest lightly, or gently bite his shoulder... remember that you aren’t meaning to cause pain or discomfort, simply to show him how much you want him, and awaken the primal, caveman part of him. A recent men’s study showed that men wish women would be more physical in bed, even if it hurt them!
Being gentle rough in the bedroom can be a great way to show your partner how much you want them. This can include light scratching, biting, or other physical activities. A recent study showed that men actually want women to be more physical in bed, even if it causes them some discomfort. To bring out your partner's caveman side, start off with gentle roughness and then take it up a notch. Don't forget to keep communication open throughout the process to ensure that your partner is comfortable and enjoying the experience.
Keep Your Heels on
Next time you seduce him, keep your heels on. You might need to adjust positions to make sure he doesn’t get hurt, but with that extra height, you’ll have many more available to try anyway, and he’ll be driven mad at the sight of your long legs. It’ll remind him of quick, secret sex, and really turn him on.
Heels can amplify your confidence and accentuate your calves, making your legs appear longer and more inviting. Imagine those strappy stilettos or sleek pumps acting as a catalyst for his imagination, hinting at a world of playful sophistication. Let the click of your heels tease his senses as you move, a subtle declaration of your uninhibited spirit. Embrace the elevation to try new angles and depths, as it adds an edge of excitement to familiar positions. The contrast of the delicate footwear against the softness of the bed sheets will surely spark his fervor.
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Let Him Have Control
Instruct your man to take control, and leave the planning to him. If you want some influence, write or buy some short stories about sexy men in control, and women being treated the way you’d love to be. Being dominated is a really popular fantasy, but it tends to vary a lot, so let him know if you’d love to be wined, dined and led to bed, or if whips and chains is more your style, and then leave the planning to him,
This text provides advice on how to be a "bad girl in bed". It suggests that women should instruct their partner to take control and allow them to do the planning. It also suggests that women can influence their partner by reading or buying stories that involve sexy men in control and women being treated in the way they'd like to be. This could involve being wined, dined and led to bed, or it could involve more intense activities such as whips and chains. This advice is especially useful for those who want to explore their fantasies and add a little spice to their sex life.
Watch Yourself
Move a large mirror into your bedroom, close to your bed, and lie on the bed. Check you can see yourself, and then seduce your other half. He won’t notice until you are having sex, and watching it will be like starring in your own secret porn, but without any evidence to destroy. This is a great tip which is often recommended by sex therapists, so give it a try!
Bringing a mirror into the play adds a visual dimension that can dial up the heat in your bedroom antics. It lets you explore your sensuality and capture your partner's reactions in real time, offering a tantalizing live show that amplifies the thrill. Just make sure the mirror is securely placed to avoid any mishaps. Embrace your inner voyeur and let this reflective rendezvous take your breath away. It's a saucy twist that's bound to leave a lasting impression on both of you. Go ahead, be bold—it's all about the view!
Strip Tease
Give your man his very own strip tease. Choose a song that you love, and take your clothes off slowly, without exposing yourself too fast, and remember not to let him touch! If you are far too shy for this, consider making it a game, such as playing strip poker. The loser has a sexy challenge, of course...
These tricks are a great way to boost your sex life, and remind your other half how sexy and redblooded you really are, as well as boosting your confidence. Once you start to think like a sex goddess, you’ll start to feel like one too, and soon you’ll be sexy instinctively! Have you got a tip for bad-girl sex? Please let me know!
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