You know what they say – the first impression is what counts the most. Therefore, when you are on a first date, you want to make it a good first impression. If you make too many mistakes, then you could really screw things up for yourself. There are some women who may look past your simple mistakes, but others will not. I am going to give you 8 first date mistakes men make. If you’re a guy that is reading this post, take note that I’m not trying to make fun of you. I know that women make mistakes as well – but this should help you …
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Being Too Focused on Sex
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Yes, some men are too focused on sex. Being too focused on the first date could turn out to be a big mistake as you will appear to be too eager. It may also look as if you are only there for the sex.
Bad Personal Hygiene
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Okay, so a guy walks into the diner and looks as if he has never brushed his teeth, plucked his nose hairs, shaved or bothered to change his shirt after he ate a big plate of spaghetti. I respect that you are being yourself, but this would not be a good first date choice.
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Showing up Late and Being Disorganized
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On your first date, it would be a mistake to show up late. Even worse, you have lost your wallet. On your first date, you definitely do not want to appear to be a disorganized human being.
Over Complimenting Her
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Okay, yes, I know, you like the eyes, you think the dress looks good and you love how the hair is. However, if you keep saying it, then you are making a mistake.
Drinking Too Much
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A big mistake would be to drink too much alcohol. So, lay off of the alcohol, especially during that first date.
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Staring at Other Women
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Guys, if you stare at other women while on your first date, this is not a good sign. So, avoid doing this, at least for the night!
Being Clumsy
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Okay, you not only knocked over your drink, but you also knocked your plate of food from the table. Come on, put that nervousness to the side and have a good time. You don’t want to be a clumsy boy.
Saying “I Love You.”
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I am not sure if this is a good thing to do on the first date. You barely even know each other, so speaking these three words might should wait – until you get to know each other a bit more.
Those are 8 first date mistakes men make. Yes, men make these mistakes a lot, but that does not necessarily mean that us women are not guilty of anything. In fact, we make just as many mistakes as men. Sometimes, there are certain mistakes that we are not able to avoid. What are some mistakes you have made?
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