Kissing is always fun to do – I still remember my first kiss – I think those are things that you will never forget. My husband and I like to talk about our first kiss (with each other, of course). Kissing is romantic and it can really set the mood. Of course, there are some things that you should avoid doing or saying when the two of you are engaged in this intimate moment. Below, I am going to give you 7 things not to do when kissing …

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7. Don’t Charge with Your Tongue Sticking out

This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue.

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This one could actually gross the person out. Instead, put your lips together, then insert the tongue. I know, it sounds funny, but that is how it is done. This way, we don’t actually see the tongue. Additionally, timing is essential. Rushing with your tongue straight away can be overwhelming. Gradually build up to it, making the transition smooth and enjoyable for both parties. Be mindful of movements and try to mirror your partner’s actions, ensuring a balanced and reciprocated experience. Furthermore, keeping the tongue subtle and gentle can make the kiss more romantic and intimate.

6. Don’t Keep Pulling Away

Of course, this if you want to be kissed. If you don’t want to be kissed, then you pull away and if that doesn’t work, smack them. Now, if you actually want to be kissed by that person, then don’t keep pulling away.

5. Oxygen

People hate it when you push too hard, shove your tongue down their throat and don’t give enough oxygen. You should do it gently and give room for oxygen. While I said do not keep pulling away, there is a time you need oxygen, so use that time to gently kiss the neck.

4. Don’t Make Jokes

While you are kissing and in an intimate hold, don’t keep making jokes. I think this is a bit childish and guys could get turned off by this one. Especially, if you are making jokes about saliva or something gross.

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3. Don’t Belch

Oh goodness, if you feel that you are about to belch, please don’t do it in their mouth. By all means, ignore number 6 and pull away before you belch!

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2. Don’t Pass Your Gum

Unless your partner specifically asks for you to give the gum from your mouth to their mouth, don’t do it. This could totally gross them out.

1. Don’t’ Say Someone else’s Name

While you are kissing, I know things get in the heat of the moment, but you should avoid saying someone else’s name. You definitely should not say your ex girlfriend or boyfriend’s name. Also, don’t go and mention how they used to kiss – this is not the time or the place to do something like that and sometimes, things are better off not said.

Those are 7 things not to do when kissing. If you do these things, then your partner may not respect you so much the next time the two of you kiss. They may also try to avoid giving you kisses from then on out. Oh and as a reminder, before you kiss, make sure you clean your nose, because you would hate to introduce your partner to whatever may be inside your nose. I think I about covered it – do you have a terrible kissing story you would like to share with us?

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i was just wondering,at wat age do you get a boyfrind? Iam 14 and havnt evn had 1,is that normal?

i honestly don't know how to kiss i have never kissed before

I never forget that moment when I Kissed on her Lips,

As the old saying goes: "When you're out with your honey, and you nose gets all runny, don't think it's funny, 'cuz it'snot."

Some of these stories are seriously hilarious! My first official kiss, not like little pecks at parties and stuff, was when I was 16 and it was new years eve and I had a lot to drink and we were playing truth or dare and I was still so drunk that I was kind of half there and half not and my friends wanted me to kiss this boy and he was drunk as well but full on into it and I was like laughing it off and then he just went in and I was like not even moving my mouth that much and he was like full on moving his whole tongue around my mouth and I think to this day that it was one of the worst kisses ive ever had! ahahah!

HAHAHA this post cracked me up

Ok, how about keep your extra saliva in your own mouth when kissing. Seriously I kissed this gorgeous blonde in 9th grade. I had a crush on him for months and then we kissed behind the school by the romantic water and the sound of water running etc. Everything was perfect for my first kiss with him. Not my first kiss but 1st with him. I had to break our kiss every minute or so to wipe my face off from his extra saliva. After kissing for 20 minutes my shirt in the front was soaked past my bra from his saliva. It looked like I had just attended a wet t-shirt contest. I kept hoping he'd get better the longer we kissed, but needless to say it didn't.

My first REAL kiss was when I was 14, not like pecks, but make-out! He was my first real boyfriend and we had been talking about the subject for a while. I was nervous because it was my first kiss, but it wasn't his. I was scared because I thought I would be bad. It took me a month and a half of us dating for us to finally kiss! We were laying on his twin bed, which was really tiny! He was spooning me and we were just talking. I turned over and looked him in the eyes and told him how much I liked him. And he told me how much he liked me and how I was so beautiful and he pointed out everything about me that he loved. It was really sweet actually! So I gave him several long closed-mouth kisses and then we just kind of both started in. Afterward we were done, he said, "Are you sure you've never done this before?" I said, "Yeah... Why..?" And then he said, "Because you are a REALLY good kisser! One of the best I've ever kissed." And that's how I had my first kiss! :)