#1
Keep it playful. Getting too serious will scare people off.
# 2
Flirt to make the other person happy, not to get something from them.
# 3
Make sure you’re having fun. If you’re not, you’ll be a terrible flirt.
# 4
Use flattery. It really will get you everywhere.
# 5
Shake hands. Physical contact creates a connection.
10+ Ways to Get a Guy to Ask You Out …
# 6
Make eye contact. It will make the other person feel more connected to you, but be careful not to stare.
# 7
Use the person’s name. This will make the conversation more personal.
# 8
Ask interesting questions. Seeming interested is flattering and most people enjoy talking about themselves.
# 9
Do a double take.
# 10
Listen, and make sure you can respond to what they’ve said.
10 Best Places to Meet Eligible Men…
Pages: 1 2
why didn’t my comment appear ?? :’(
to Runii:
No worries, it’s just that all the comments are moderated :) It takes 24 hours or so for them to appear on the website if they do not have any spam or cursing :)
Hi, I read the tips about how you can tell if he likes you are not without asking, its funnym how he does most of them to me, but he’s not doing anything about our friendship. I really like them for more then two years, we are friends, kinda best friends but nothing is going further than that. I asked him out, asked him if he likes me, he just denies me and says he’s not the right guy for me. Is he just being nice or does he even like me??
Omg okay, i like this guy and i told him i liked him, but just before that he had got back with his ex who he had gone out with for 9 months before. they broke up cause she cheated on him. we had spent loads of time together that week and were flirting loads and holding hands and stuff after they had broke up, but neither of us said anything or made a move because his best friend liked, and still does like me. When i finally got round to telling him i like him he had just got back with his girlfriend, and he said to me that he likes me and we got the timings wrong, but he also said he couldnt trust me cause i liked his best friend till i met him, but he can trust his girlfriend who has cheated on him so wtf? basically i like love him and cant stop thinking about him and i dont know what to do. peaceeee outt xxx
Well, Floo, this guy obviously does not know what he’s doing. You can be bitter ’bout it but really what else can you do. Maybe you’re better off without him. What about this best friend of his?
I like this guy that I’ve known my entire life and were really close but like brother and sister. I’m afraid that if he finds out I like him it will ruin our friendship. I’m also afraid that we will stop being friends if we go out and then break up. What should I do????
Rippy,
Based on my personal experiences, it’s never a bright idea to get into a relationship with a friend, especially a great friend. Something about it always ruins the friendship and if you do break up, things will never be the same. I don’t think it’s worth all the trouble jeopardizing your friendship in that way. But that’s just me. You guys may just turn out to be an exception who knows :)
WEll i really like my one friend. He’s so nice and funny. And i’ve liked him for awhile( afew years), but what do i do to get him to like me. I mean he asked for my number and we talk, but i’m the one that always has to call him. And i want him to call me and like me. we also make fun of eachother. and i’m always the one to hug him and he never even comes to me first. What do i do?
Layla,
If it’s been a few years and it hasn’t gone down the romantic road, I doubt it ever will. Maybe you’re just in the friend category and once in it’s hard to get out. Of these 20 flirting rules, I would try flattering him (genuine flattery only), eye contact, physical contact…basically flirt a little more and see if he responds. If he doesn’t you know that plane has already taken off…
OK my best friend likes a guy and is really obssesed and all she does is talk about him. When she says she is going to talk to him she chickens out and when end up talking to him instead. What do i do???????
Annely,
I don’t really see how you can help unless maybe you can get the guy to talk to her instead of the other way around. Hopefully, she wont flee! :)
Thanks for the advice I will try to get him to talk to her.
You’re welcome Annely :)
Hey it’s annely again! Ok so last night was our school homecoming dance and i noticed the guy i like was looking at me alot and so i smiled at him. Do you think that there is a slight chance he may like me???
Annely,
Definitely a chance yes :)
Hey girls, I just wanted to say that I LOVE how we help each other on sites like this (It’s like a secret weapon.. ;) !
And there’s always someone to turn to, even if you can’t talk to any of your friends about your fears and stuff…
I bet boys don’t have something like this, meaning head start for us ! ;)
<3
Joana,
Since when do boys talk about their feelings anyway ;)
But you are right. Girl power! (Can’t believe I just said that :p)
awesome!! Thanks so much
Annely,
You’re very welcome :)
okay so this guy that i have been talking to seems to like me, he ttold me he liked me, i old him i liked him, but he still hasnt asked me out! we have been talking throug mail, not in person. he goes to public school, i goto online. he wants to hangout but im scared.. the other day my friend talked to him and found out he does like me he just doesnt know how to ask me.
i guess im scared to hangout with him because im scared he wont like something about me..
hes a very sweet guy and i havent had a bf before and for a first boyfriend, i think he would be a good one..Please help me out..
Dotz,
The great thing is he already likes you so that’s out of the way. As for something he might not like about you, it’s bound to happen. No one likes everyhting about everyone. Who knows…you’d probably find something annoying about him too! Go ahead, hangout with him and have fun! Leave everything else to fate or whatever you believe in :)
Hi there. Theres this cute guy I really like in one of my classes, and i catch him looking at me sometimes. But Im kinda shy and i never talked to him before so i don’t know what he really thinks about me. He sits far from me, and he seems like a reserved guy himself. So i don’t even know where to start and how to break the ice, help me out??
Allie,
The next time you catch him looking at you give him your best, most wonderful smile! That will be a good start. And if he doesn’t come up to you, you’re just going to have to go up to him and say hi!
Ok here goes my friend really really likes a guy and she thinks he likes her but he doesn’t like her he likes someone else. Any advice on how i can let her down easy?????
Kimmie,
If she’s your friend and you know for a fact that this guy likes someone else, just tell her! I’m sure she’d rather know tha make a fool of herself…
Hey I really like this guy iv liked him for 4 years now and he is a year older than me.
I know he doesn’t know that I like him but I think about him all the time how do I find out if he likes me
Megan,
Wow you’ve liked him for 4 years and you haven’t done anything about it yet?? Instead of waiting to find out if he likes you why don’t you figure out or atleast give him hints to let him know that you like him? Sometimes guys need obvious signs before that little bulb in their head goes off. :)
ohkay, here is whats going on. i like this one guy and it seems like hes interested. i mean, he is always flirting with me and im always flirting back. another thing is, when i was going out with this one guy a few months ago, the guy i like now was trying to break us up. is it normal for a guy that doesnt like you to stare into your eyes and then lick their lips????
Bri,
Umm that just sounds weird and icky. Classic film villian like!
I really like this guy in my uni, but i’m not sure if he feels the same way about me.I told my friends about it and they set me up with the guy by inviting him over.I am a very shy person and when he came over i couldnt think of any conversation to generate.I never used to say hi to him until that day.What do i do guys.Help me.
well i like this boy in my vocational class and he knows i like him. he sometimes looks at me and smiles, i want to start a convo up with him but i dont know what to say! im to shy and my friend haves been trying to get him to go to a movie or a football game with me but he is shy to! i dont know what to do casue i like this guy alot but i dont know if he likes me back!
Hey Amanda,
Thanks for visiting us! You know what, he already knows you like him. So as weird as it may be, just go up and say Hi the next time. And the whole routine of small talk may seem silly but a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do! :)
OK so there is this guy that I like and he is in my class for like every class except 2 and I told some of my friends and one of them talked to him on the bus and he said something to the effect of uuuummmm as a good friend definetly and another of my friends went and talked to him and he said not even as a friend to my friend that talked to him on the bus asked him about it and said that this guy really said that he wanted why ppl were askin him…that was like monday and now he just started talkin to me again today in our last class together! What does this mean? And do I have any type of chance with the guy??
Kray,
Maybe you should just ask him yourself instead of letting your friends do the work for you. Well obviously he wants to be friends with you considering he is still talking to you. But I don’t know if it means anything more. Why don’t you ask him to hang out with you? Maybe after class?
Well yeah i mean i know all of these things and i do them all the time but yeah he likes this other gurl that he has told me about like all the time. we talk like everyday!!!! Does he just say this just to make me jealous or something like that and if so how would i know. More than any of that i would never before see that i like him. Hes not the usual type that i would like haha i mean i dont think he is. but yeah just help me out some i think i am fallin for him but idk.
Gurlie,
Okay maybe I’m wrong here but do you just want him because you can’t have him? I’ve been in that situation before and when the guy became available, he suddenly wasn’t attractive anymore. I don’t think he really has a reason to lie to you about this girl he supposedly likes does he?
okay so i really like this guy and i get butterflies when i see him. hes awesome and sweet .. he asked me if i like him and i told him yes he said he feels the same . we talk all the time.. hes always flashing me smiles and laughing at everhing i say . eat always sit at lunch together
but sometimes he blows me off
and stares at other girls when im talking …
i really want to be with him.
i asked him out and wouldnt give me a answer
im not sure if he really likes me or not
( advice plz)
Hi Chrsitnn,
If I were you, I’d ask him for a definite answer. If it’s a no, it’s a no but atleast you’ll know for sure.