#1
Keep it playful. Getting too serious will scare people off.
# 2
Flirt to make the other person happy, not to get something from them.
# 3
Make sure you’re having fun. If you’re not, you’ll be a terrible flirt.
# 4
Use flattery. It really will get you everywhere.
# 5
Shake hands. Physical contact creates a connection.
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# 6
Make eye contact. It will make the other person feel more connected to you, but be careful not to stare.
# 7
Use the person’s name. This will make the conversation more personal.
# 8
Ask interesting questions. Seeming interested is flattering and most people enjoy talking about themselves.
# 9
Do a double take.
# 10
Listen, and make sure you can respond to what they’ve said.
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Another one… Mimic your date’s mannerisms. If he touches his face, you touch yours. He leans in, you lean in. Mimicry is found in nature and it works… check it out.
That’s a good one, FupDuckTV! Thanks!
Sorry, but shaking hands would be a total turn-off for me. Am I buying a car from her? If a woman shakes my hand, I’d assume she wants nothing to do with me. Maybe it’s an old-fashioned thing with me, but normally speaking a woman does not shake hands with man in social situations. I’d perceive it as an attempt to let me know “this is strictly business.”
That said, I’m surprised you didn’t mention touching of other kinds. A squeeze on the hand or arm to emphasize a point or express surprise or absentmindedly touching your glass to his during conversation. These are the kinds of touch aren’t overtly sexual but give an honorable man a clear signal that you’re interested, and not just (shudder) “as a friend.”
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Dear Joe,
It all depends on how you shake hands :)) If it was done in a flirty way I think you would know she doesn’t mean business :))
yes mirroring another persons body language is known to be very effective. And handshakes are a little to masculine and more so for the office than attracting a person
Good one!
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Another one is to admit you like him/her. It always works for me. But be friends with him/her first.
If your crush already has a bf/gf then try make him/her jealous (big risk) but works
If they’re already married then just accept it, or if your desperate, love spell. ONLY IF YOU ARE DESPERATE!
If they are about to get married then do the previous solution (love spell) or break up the wedding =p
If they’re single then go for it.
i love one person. he is more concerned about level as rich, poor and social status like. how to make him for love me?
Haha that’s funny, Mariah! Do you have any effective love spell we can use? ;-)
A love spell will catch you up karma-wise… that’s controlling others’ emotions, and a very bad idea. Besides, would you really enjoy being with someone who you knew only loved you because he was forced to, that he didn’t have a choice… and it wouldn’t really be him, anyway, if not acting under his own free will.
YOU ARE RIGHT BUT DO NOT ALWAYS BE THERE (were he is) but other than that YOU ARE GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!
I am VERY interested in a guy. He seems to be interested in me too, he always looks my way and smiles, he even holds the door open sometimes. So, I texted him the other day, and we talked for a while then the next day I texted him, again we texted then I ended the conversation to leave him wanting more. What should I do now? I realllly need help!!!!!!! He is one of the rare one’s. I don’t want to lose him!
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I dont know if this really works that good but it does with me. If you act cold or you really are cold shake or say something. The guy that I like always gives me his hoodie to wear or he will come closer to me. Once he even went inside when we were watching the stars and got me a blanket and put it around me and he kept his arm there. Let me know if it works with you guys.
I am REALLY interested in this guy, but I don’t think he likes me the same way. We’re best friends, which is kinda awkward sometimes. But he went out with my bestfriend, before she moved. I’m worried that my mom will drag me off to California before I get the chance to go out with him. And I’ve loved him since 5th grade for crying out loud! I’ve got to do something. I’m…just scared to make the first move, because I’m afraid that if he doesn’t like me the same way, then we can’t be friends anymore. I really need help with this!!!
Good tips, by the way.
I always find that this works:
After I say something sweet or cute to him I lean in a little bit and roll my eyes up a bit, smile, bite my lip and then look away and smile again. This guy that I work with always falls for that. He has a girlfriend (and I respect that) but I like to flirt with him a little because she doesn’t treat him right.
caitling I am nearly exactly the same! I’ve liked one of my best friends for about a year now and im sooo scared incase he doesnt like me back. I can never stop thinking about him and I always have the urge to talk to him on facebook or msn whenever he is online but I know he needs his space and stuff so I end up going watching tv before I start talking to him. He rarly talks to me first even though were friends and he has friends hes known longer that he hangs round with at lunch =( He was going out with my best friend a couple of weeks ago but they broke up and now shes on holiday and thats why I know him so well and I’m friends with him. I really dont want to make the first move but what if he doesnt want to or doesnt like me back!?
Hi, i really like this guy in my class and people say he wants to go out with me but he doeant really show it. We talk sometimes, you know, hi, bye, little conversations, but nothing more. Im not really one to start flirting either i only flirt when other people flirt with me. I think hes a bit ashamed of me because im not as popular as the other girls but i see him flirt loads with them. i just dont know what to do! Please help!! xox
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Well i really like this guy in my class and he knows i like him. he is always very sweet and kind to me … does this mean he likes me or is he just being friendly? we went on a school trip to an ice rink and he came over to me and my friend and said to me , lauren , do you want to skate round with me ? he is always very understanding and i feel i can be very open with him… the problem is im not sure if he feels the same way… another example of his kindness… in english he was sat on the other side of the room and he needed to borrow a pen so instead of asking the person he sits next to, he walked over to where i was sat and asked if he could borrow a pen… i really don’t no what to do because i dont want to scare him off by thinking he likes me to.