21 Signs It's Just Sex and Not a Relationship ...

By Shanelle

21 Signs It's Just Sex and Not a Relationship ...

I hear so many of my friends talking about how they met a guy and had wonderful sex and then the guy only calls or comes by when he wants sex. OK honey what you need to know is that what you had with him was a physical attraction that magnified feelings of a deeper nature. Now let me make myself clear he is not a bad guy, for the most part, he was simply thinking “it’s just sex what’s the harm in that”. So here are some super signs to look for to see if it is just sex:

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Every Time You See Each Other It’s Only to Have Sex

hair,person,facial hair,action film,screenshot, So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.

UPD:

This type of relationship is not uncommon, but it is important to remember that it is not a healthy or sustainable one. It is possible to develop feelings for someone you have sex with, but it is unlikely to lead to a lasting relationship. People in this type of relationship should be aware that it is not likely to evolve into a more meaningful one. Additionally, it is important to practice safe sex and to be aware of the potential risks of having sex without a committed relationship.

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Only Comes over at Night

had,adult,sleepover., They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.

UPD:

This behavior is an unmistakable signal that their interest in you isn't about emotional connection, but rather a physical one. If it's always after-hours and never during daylight – think about it, are brunch dates or afternoon walks in the park ever on the agenda? Likely not. It's a relationship that's operating on their time, suiting their needs, and it's all about the convenience of it. That's not partnership; that's a call of desire. In your gut, you know there's no depth to these encounters.

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Doesn’t Want to Go out Anywhere

face,human action,hair,nose,cheek, Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex

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Never Talks about Family and Friends

Talk,me,,talk,talk,me,, Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.

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In a real relationship, sharing details about one's inner circle is a given. It's a way to let someone in, to make them feel included in your life. If you're in the dark about even the most basic details of their personal life, it's a pretty telling sign. Conversations that evade anything deeper than surface-level topics can indicate a lack of emotional investment, which is a red flag if you're looking for something more meaningful than casual encounters.

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Doesn’t Want to Hear about Your Family and Friends

black and white,photography,monochrome photography,film noir,darkness, Are you bummed out about your family and want to talk about it and they don’t want to hear about it. It could be just sex

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Men in general judge more from appearances than from reality. All men have eyes, but few have the gift of penetration.

Niccolò Machiavelli

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6

Phone Conversations or Text Messages Are Only in a Sexual Nature

you,want,see,picture,sweaty, Do you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.

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You Only Meet at Places Where Sex Can Occur

furniture,bed,bed sheet,Hey,guys!, Only going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.

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No Sleepovers

person,man,male,muscle,mouth, They come over at midnight have sex and then around 2 am they want to go home or send you home. Oh yeah it’s just sex.

UPD:

This behavior points to a clear-cut arrangement where emotional ties aren't on the table. If you find that pillow talk is non-existent and the bed is quickly cooled after the deed is done, it's a strong indication that you're in a hookup scenario rather than a blossoming relationship. It's all about physical satisfaction—once that's achieved, the connection seems to fizzle out, literally by night's end. If you're longing for a cuddly morning-after, you may need to adjust your expectations with this setup.

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9

You Don’t Eat Together

hair,black hair,face,person,eyebrow, Ever hear that old saying “a couple that eats together stays together”.

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This adage underscores the intimacy of sharing meals, a basic human connection bonding us through the ritual of eating. When your encounters are solely bedroom-based, skipping the dinner table talks, you miss out on this fundamental form of closeness. It's not just about the food—it's the conversations, the laughs, and those tender moments that weave the fabric of a relationship. If all you savor together is the physical, it might be a sign that you're in a casual fling rather than a nourishing partnership.

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They Take a Shower Right after Sex and Send You on Your Way

face,mouth,sense, Normally you want to rest a bit and maybe talk. When they all of a sudden they want you to leave it’s probably just sex.

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Never Talk about Life outside the Bedroom

person,speech,speaker, There are so many other things going on that you could talk about.

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12

You Only Have a Cell Phone or Beeper Number

face,person,nose,man,male, It could be Just Sex

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13

When You Talk It’s Only to Setup a Sex Time

screenshot,action film,midnight,special effects,fictional character, Ever call then and setup a time to meet and you end up having sex. It’s Just Sex.

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14

They Avoid You in Public

anime,the,weekend,don,know, You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away. It’s Just Sex.

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Only Spends a Couple of Hours with You

person,screenshot,facial hair,Global, Only spend enough time with you to have sex. Then It’s Just Sex.

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There is No Quality Time

hair,person,hairstyle,long hair, No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.

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17

He Keeps His Distance

person,screenshot,Wait.,What?, He makes sure the two of you never get too close emotionally by keeping things from you. If you tell him you like it when he does a certain something, he’ll stop because he wants to keep things casual emotionally.

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He Tells You so

image,Damn,it,,just,really, Has he ever straight-up told you that he’s not interested in anything serious and just wants to play the field? He wouldn’t be saying these things if it weren’t true!

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You Initiate All Communication

meal,Why,won't,you,talk, If it’s not about sex, all communication is likely to come from you. Are you the only one suggesting dates? Are you the only one who tries to start a real conversation when the two of you are together?

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He Doesn’t Care if He Hurts Your Feelings

person,human positions,sitting,professional,DON'T, If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.

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21

He Cheats

face,person,beauty,hairstyle,brown hair, Or should I say he has multiple sex partners that he’s not very private about. If the guy is openly having sex with multiple partners, it is definitely not a relationship.

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Hi All, I like a guy at work but I think all he may want from me is sex. We came to know each other better through a mutual friend. The 3 of us went out for drinks, it got late and our mutual friend ended up leaving. I drank too much but was nowhere near drunk, he drank too but I did not notice him drinking a lot more than me. Later that night he began flirting with me, it started raining and he was the perfect gentleman. I know this is probably the corniest thing ever but, we stood under an awning at 2am in the rain just looking into each others' eyes. he told me I was beautiful and we both just started laughing. (I know, its even too much for me too) I thought he was going to kiss me. I wanted to kiss him. Since it was 2am, he asked meif I was hungry and asked me to get breakfast with him. But then he started randomly started talking about going home. he caught a cab, and he thought I would follow but I got my own cab, he went home and I went home. We never told our mutual friend about this exchange. Everyday I saw him at work, he ignored me. He would not say hi, bye, a head nod in my direction, nothing. After a couple months of this, I just asked him what the problem was and he responded, I dont remember anything from that night. I know he had a few drink b/f he got to bar but once there he had maybe 2 beers. This was over the course of at least 3 hours. I was beside myself. It was a very unexpected response. I shrugged it off. Fast forward, 9 months. Same mutual friend invites me out, the same guy from work is there. It is us three again. This time I drank a lot more as did he, but at no point ws anyone falling over drunk. All of us went back to my place (closest to bar mutual friend had to drive, I wasnt going to let him do that) we all have one more drink, just sitting talking. Mutual friend passes out around 1am.Me and this guy have a pretty good conversation about music, common interest, work, his family, politics, books... Fast-forward, me and guy start making out, this time it goes A LOT further, and had I not stopped it, we would have had sex. He goes from begging for it to telling me that I'm a c*ckblocker. I laugh b/c I think its stupid, if I dont want to have sex that is my decision, call me what you want. It is about 4 am. He puts on all his clothes (mutual friend is still sleep) and leaves. I know all he wanted was sex. No doubt. But get this, the next day he does the same thing all over again; he drank sooo much that he doesnt remember what happened at all and that he was afraid he said something to offend me. I would love to get anyone's perspective on this situation. If it is just sex, then say so, we are both adults. He knows I am not the type to spread my business around the office so I would no problem w/not talking to him at work but he is actually telling me and our mutual friend that he honest God doesnt remember anything. This is the second time. I hate to make this a factor but I'm black and he is white. I am well iked at work, professionally and socially. It is known that other (white and black) men at work have asked me out and some guys flirt with me. I wonder if he is ashamed of me, I pray it is not due to my race, but I really have no other explanation for any of this. I have also heard that a lot of women like this guy, he has a big ego, and he prides himself on being able to easily pick up women. Lastly, we had a social charity gathering for our job. I went, our mutual friend went, he was supposed to attend, the ticket cost 200 each. We all previously bought tickets. The event was the very next weekend after the last "forgetful" night. He did not show. Mutual friend called him, he said he was not coming. I overheard mutual friend telling him that we needed to talk. I didnt ask him to say that nor did I really want him too. The guy at work has been avoiding me, if he knows I am going to be a place he will not come, he still says he cannot remember anything and has gone as far to say he has a drinking problem. (BS ... dont believe that) He ignores me and will not say hello.

I really don't know what to call this weather is love or he just want sex. I have been talking to a guy for 7 months now and he has a crazy ex that he's trying to get rid of but at the sometime he doesn't want to he live in a different state then I am we're 4 hours apart. I have told him to leave me alone from cussing him out to changing my number and he still calls me and tells me that he loves me and wants to be with me yet still in a relationship with his ex or what ever they claim to be. when I went to visit him we didn't have sex and I'm still a virgin. He tells me he doesn't love that other girl he just calls her to have sex with her and she believe he love her. Does he love me or is he trying to make me to have sex with him and its done I'm confused?

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