10 Ways to Ask a Guy out ...

Are you having one of those dances where the girls ask the guy out? Or do you just know a really great guy that you would like to go out with and are tired of waiting around for him to ask you out? Well, I have came up with 10 ways to ask a guy out. I am going to list some of the not so unique ideas, but I also want to get into unique ways to ask a guy out…

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Scavenger Hunt

I have always liked the idea of a scavenger hunt. With this technique, you would leave the last clue in a note saying “I want you to go out with me” then tell him in the note where to find you. When he comes, hide behind something, then jump out behind him, cover his eyes and say “do you?”

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This playful method adds a dash of mystery and fun to the mundane. Imagine the excitement as he pieces together each clue, building anticipation with every step. It's not just about asking him out; it's about creating a memorable experience that starts off with a thrill. After all, who doesn't love a bit of adventure? Just be sure to gauge his interest in games and riddles beforehand to ensure he enjoys the chase as much as the reveal. And when you finally ask, "do you?", his smile will say it all.

Kidnap His Jacket

This one is very cute. Kidnap his jacket and leave a note in it’s place. Make the note something like this “If you ever want to see your jacket again and me, then meet me at this restaurant if you want to go on “a date with me.”

Business Card

On the business card, put “Will you go out with me? If interested, please contact me.” Include your e-mail address and phone number on it.

Which Color?

Send a big envelope filled with balloons. One red, one yellow, one green, one orange, one purple, one white and one black. Add a note saying “Will you go out with me? Send the blue balloon if the answer is no and send the red balloon if the answer is yes.” Yes, I know, there is no blue balloon.

Magazine Style

Find the guys favorite magazine or book that he is reading and put a piece of paper the size of the magazine or book. The paper in there should be slightly sprayed with perfume, then write a biography about you. On the bottom, in darker letters put: “I wonder if (insert his name) wants to go out with me.

Famous Quotes

Meaning is not what you start with but what you end up with.

Peter Elbow

Date by an Appointment

This one is great if the guy you like works and schedules people for appointments. Call and make an appointment under another name. Then, show up at his office with some take out. This would be great if you knew what his favorite restaurant was. Ask a guy out this way and you definitely have a date!

And the Winner is

Write a letter to the guy that goes something like this “You won! You are the most eligible bachelor in town, would you be interested in going out with me?” Make sure to enclose your phone number. This is a great and unique way to ask a guy out!

Do You Floss?

Find a dental floss cartridge that is empty. Type or write a letter in thin lines, roll the letter on the spool so that only the beginning will be hanging out.

Send an E-mail

You could always do it the old fashioned (or is that new fashioned?) way and send an e-mail confessing your crush to him and asking him out.

Ask Him if He Has a Girlfriend

When/if he says “no,” then ask him if he wants a girlfriend. If he says sure, ask him if he has anyone in mind. It should end with you asking him out.

You see girls, you should ask a guy out in a way that will stick out in his mind. Gone are the days when we sat around waiting for them to ask us out. In this day and age, we are allowed to ask guys out without getting stared at. Do you like the unique ways to ask a guy out or do you want to stick with the traditional way?

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Hey, I really like this guy, Taylor, but I am SUPER shy! You don't even know the half of it! He also lives in the next town, so I don't see him all too often. I know that if I really do want to ask him out, I'll just wing it or something, but how do I get over my stupid shyness??? Melie

Okay I asked out this guy like 3 times but I didn't like him and I rrwasn't the one asking him out my friends were but now I like him and want to ask him out......should I

Well i like this guy and i asked him out he said he'll think about after getting annoyed and some hair pulling happened he ended up saying no and made a excuse that he had a girlfriend how do i tell him sorry can you think about it again????

Hi :) I'm thirteen years old, going on fourteen and the boy that I like is fourteen, and in the year above me at school. He's in my registration group so I only see him for about twenty minutes each day, but I usually spend most of that time talking to him and his friend. He's super easy to talk to; we have loads in common, but I just don't know how I could ask him out. He's pretty shy, but over time I've got to know him really well, and he knows me too. We always have a really good laugh together, he'll even share embarrassing stories about his family and stuff with me. I usually sit in a row with at least one or two other girls but he seems to pay the most attention to me :3 a couple of my friends once told him I liked him as a joke (they didn't actually know it was true) and he apparently said that that was cool, and carried on as usual. So, I'm pretty sure he knows he likes me. The other day I was telling him about a show I was in where I played a dirty old lady xD he joked, "oh, so youre not a dirty old lady normally then?" and we laughed, but his friend started teasing him, and said, "you do realise that that's his idea of a pick-up line?" the boy I like stopped talking to me and started doing some sort of work, and his friend asked me if I would go out with his mate if he ever asked me. I said maybe - I didn't exactly want to say yes and make him feel uncomfortable, but I didn't want to say no and give him the wrong idea. His friend asked him the same question and he said maybe too. Throughout the rest of the lesson, his friend was saying the same sort of stuff to us, but we just laughed it off. Then my (girl) friend told him to just ask me. He went a bit red, looked at me and didn't really reply. Do you think I should tell him I like him? I don't know whether he likes someone else. It's possible his friend said that stuff that lesson because the boy I like likes me back, but I don't know if he was just teasing him because they know I like him? Do you think the fact that he hasn't asked me out is that he's shy or he just doesn't like me back? I know he hasn't had many (if any) girlfriends and, I quote, "the only time he ever got a valentine he was pretty happy, but it turned out to be a hoax by one of his male friends. Help please :S

I am thinking about asking to borrow his jacket tomorrow cause I 'forgot mine' and write a note in it and give it to him Tuesday. The note might say: 'Will you go out with me?'

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