10 Tips on How to Fake an Orgasm ...

10 Tips on How to Fake an Orgasm ...
By Melanie

While I do not believe that you should fake an orgasm as it could lead to misunderstandings with your partner and make him think he is doing it right, when he really isn’t.

But if you really need to fake orgasm - for any reason - because you are running out of time, you have had a long day or you have already had one, you should try the following tips:

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10. Make Sure You Keep Your Eyes Closed

If you do not keep your eyes closed, you are never going to fool your sex partner.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

9. Make an Occasional Gasp

It'll make him feel as if you are getting close to that big moment. A couple of gasps will fool him if you are not a big fan of noises in bed.

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Incorporating a sudden intake of breath can ramp up the authenticity. This little trick tends to convey a feeling of being overwhelmed by pleasure, which can be very convincing. Remember, timing is key here; use it sparingly and at the right moment to capture the essence of a genuine climax. Just be cautious not to overdo it, as going overboard might just tip him off that your theatrics aren't as spontaneous as they seem. Keep it natural and spontaneous to maintain the illusion.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

8. Panting Helps

Change your breathing pattern and start panting slightly. Instead of breathing normally, mix things up a bit by inhaling a couple of times, then exhaling once. You see, when you orgasm, the breathing has a tendency to come and go sporadically.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

7. Grab the Sheets or Pillows

If he is looking at you and sees you reaching for something to hold onto, he will think that you are close to that magical moment.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

6. Master the Moaning

Moan gently and slowly let your moans get louder and louder. You need to make the same noises you do during a real one in order to be convincing. Don’t let him know you even know how to fake orgasm!

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As you become more expressive, remember to synchronize your breathing with your vocalization. Quicken your breath, as if each exhale is pushing out a moan. Feel free to let out soft sighs initially, then transition into deeper groans as if you're on the brink of ecstasy. It's about painting a sonorous picture of pleasure, but make it as natural as possible – avoid overdoing it. To enhance the illusion further, you might even whisper your partner's name or throw in a few pleading gasps. Just stay in tune with your body's rhythm, as if each sound you make is an involuntary response to overwhelming pleasure.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

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5. If Talking...

Start saying something, then let your voice trail off. This will make him think you are caught up in the moment so much that you are not able to think straight.

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As your voice fades, focus on maintaining a convincing facial expression. Allow your eyes to flutter or even close as if the sensation is overwhelming. A well-timed sigh can enhance the effect, suggesting a release of pent-up energy. Remember to keep your performance consistent with your partner's rhythm and intensity—if they slow down, your actions should similarly simmer down. Your body language, combined with the vocal cues, can paint a vivid picture without the need for over-the-top theatrics.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

4. Allow Your Muscles to Spasm

Arch your back, scratch his back and curl your toes. Let him believe that you are losing control of your body.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

3. Grab and Moan

While grabbing him tightly, give a really loud moan.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

2. Let Him Know

Talk to him. Tell him that you are almost there.

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Communicating with your partner is vital, even when putting on a show. Whisper in his ear with breathy enthusiasm. You could suggestively say things like "That feels amazing" or "Keep going, please." It's all about building the illusion of pleasure. Your words can expedite his belief in your enjoyment and bring the act to a timely close. Remember, your voice is a powerful tool—use it to moan, gasp, and let out those convincing little cries of delight that echo authenticity. Just be sure to keep it natural, avoid going over the top, and align your verbal cues with your body language for full effect.

  • Honestly, there's so many reasons! Sometimes it's about boosting a partner’s ego, other times it’s just to get things over with. Everyone has their own motives, and that's perfectly okay.

  • It’s all about the performance, right? Use your body language, facial expressions, and of course, some convincing vocal sounds. Confidence is key, I'd say!

  • Totally depends on the person and the situation. If someone feels comfortable and fulfilled without it, then it might not be necessary. It's all about personal choice, really.

  • It could! Being honest might be a better way to go if it's impacting your satisfaction. Communication with your partner can really do wonders.

  • Definitely! Communicating your needs, trying new things, or focusing on other aspects of intimacy could all be great alternatives. It's all about finding what works for you!

1. At the End...

Smile, give a little giggle and let your body relax. Don’t forget to tell him how good it is! And go take a shower…

I know, why fake an orgasm when you could have a real one? But this is something that many girls need to know.

Sometimes, when a girl is too stressed out, it is merely impossible to fake an orgasm and they do not want to let the guy down.

These are ten tips on how to fake orgasm that will be sure to province that guy that he did a mighty good job at what he likes doing the best. What about you, have you ever had to fake it? Did the guy ever find out?

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Looooool @ Your comment Sheila. Naughty you!! Sweet as ever! :) Well I don't recommend this to any girl! If you want to please a guy by faking an orgasm remember it's not fair to him or even you. If you're faking, he's thinking he's doing great and every time you'll get bored. If you're tired or aren't in the mood just say so. I'm quite truthful in my feelings, even though sometimes if hurts to say no, it better the truth!

This is horrible, I have been with the same guy for almost 2 years and have never had to fake an orgasm, if he's not giving you an orgasm maybe you should find a new partner!! People seem to forget that sex is an important part of any relationship once you've gotten past getting to know someone, it's important and if you're not attracted to him that way then stop stringing him along, I would never stay with a man that doesn't know how to please me!!!

Hi Melanie! Interesting post.....I don't like to fake it, I just said the true always, that I don't have :)

In defense of all quintessential inconsiderate and insensitive bastards/jerks/men/Me, women don't know when men fake it cos women don't ask the Question "did you come?" like men do... we tend to keep these things under cover (no euphemism there)

HAHA hilarious! Sorry Zennmaster but some girls need guidelines on how to do this properly. They could be lifesavers. ;-) And Sheila, you are evil (in a good way, of course.) Haha I'd give you a high five if I could :D

Sun, Thanks for sharing those interesting thoughts… Well for those who fakes orgasm, there should be a post to help them come… Maybe some points where never thought of and it should be great for who's in this problem! Better than faking!

Haha! Been there done that :p You can't really help it though. Some guys just wont give up till they give you an orgasm. I appreciate the effort...really I do but sometimes it's just not going to happen and the only way to get them to stop is to fake it. *evil grin*

@Sheila - The answer is Yes! Was with a woman who Barney Stinson would say had crazy eyes. I was blind and dumb. (Nothing new there considering I am a man and all) @Ann - Completely agree with what you said. Pity how many women fail to realize what you said...

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