Top 5 Signs That It's Time to Call It Quits

I've always wondered why some of us find it utterly difficult to leave a**B-A-D relationship**. Is it a case of you wanting to be miserable with him, than be miserable without him?

FYI, I borrowed this line from Meredith's line to Derek in that Grey's Anatomy season finale. Something like her wanting then to be extraordinary together than ordinary apart.

Anyways, my point is that you should know WHEN **to call it **quits. Here are the top 5 signs:

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You Feel That Your conversations are Stilted – They're More of a Necessity than a Matter of You Wanting to Talk about Anything under the Sun with Your Man

You See Your girlfriend's Boyfriend and Think "Why Isn't My Bf More like Him?"

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You Don't Mind if He Doesn't call for Days on End

It's Always You who Gives – or gets

You No Longer feel Good about Yourself

If all of these signs are present, it's high time to reconsider if the one who you're with is really the one who you want to be with.

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Dude, I think this article can be applied to both men and women. However, you are absolutely right in saying there's all this advice for women and not men. I don't think it's fair and I think something should be done about it. I'm sure there are lots of men such as yourself looking for relationship help.

Hmm, if you love someone, all those reasons probably do not apply... There are some people, like my Mom who are these hard butt perfectionists and she'll always be questioning why my Dad and I are not more like..... . Although, she loves us both very much...

But then again it's easier said than done........especially when you believe you love someone!!!

The song I'd rather be alone than be unhappy comes to mind when I read this. Guess cos it's true!!!

Ugh - so true Khanyo! Your brain knows exactly what to do - but your heart holds you back every time. I think there is usually a "last straw" moment - a breaking point, and when it happens you tell yourself - ok i am NOT putting up with this anymore, i deserve better. The hardest part is when no one does anything that's necessarily wrong and so both parties feel guilty for ending it ... hmmm sounds like I can relate huh? lol

What about us men? When shal we leave, and why? Nothing on the net, just all sorts of help for women, kinda lopsided...

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Top 5 Signs That It's Time to Call It Quits

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You Feel That Your conversations are Stilted – They're More of a Necessity than a Matter of You Wanting to Talk about Anything under the Sun with Your Man

You See Your girlfriend's Boyfriend and Think "Why Isn't My Bf More like Him?"

Frequently asked questions

You Don't Mind if He Doesn't call for Days on End

It's Always You who Gives – or gets

You No Longer feel Good about Yourself

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Top 5 Signs That It's Time to Call It Quits

Snapshot Survey

You Feel That Your **conversations **are Stilted – They're More of a Necessity than a Matter of You Wanting to Talk about Anything under the Sun with Your Man

You See Your girlfriend's Boyfriend and Think "Why Isn't My Bf More like Him?"

Frequently asked questions

You Don't Mind if He Doesn't **call **for Days on End

It's Always You who Gives **– or **gets

You No Longer feel Good about Yourself

Feedback Junction

You Feel That Your conversations are Stilted – They're More of a Necessity than a Matter of You Wanting to Talk about Anything under the Sun with Your Man

You Don't Mind if He Doesn't call for Days on End

It's Always You who Gives – or gets