The song I'd rather be alone than be unhappy comes to mind when I read this. Guess cos it's true!!!

Ugh - so true Khanyo! Your brain knows exactly what to do - but your heart holds you back every time. I think there is usually a "last straw" moment - a breaking point, and when it happens you tell yourself - ok i am NOT putting up with this anymore, i deserve better. The hardest part is when no one does anything that's necessarily wrong and so both parties feel guilty for ending it ... hmmm sounds like I can relate huh? lol

What about us men? When shal we leave, and why? Nothing on the net, just all sorts of help for women, kinda lopsided...

Dude, I think this article can be applied to both men and women. However, you are absolutely right in saying there's all this advice for women and not men. I don't think it's fair and I think something should be done about it. I'm sure there are lots of men such as yourself looking for relationship help.

Hmm, if you love someone, all those reasons probably do not apply... There are some people, like my Mom who are these hard butt perfectionists and she'll always be questioning why my Dad and I are not more like..... . Although, she loves us both very much...

But then again it's easier said than done........especially when you believe you love someone!!!