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8 Tips on Letting Loose and Finding New Love ...

By Melanie

After a period of being single or following a bad relationship break up it can be extremely difficult to find another partner. Here are 8 tips on letting loose and finding new love.

8 Laugh and Smile

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Make sure that you laugh and smile a lot throughout the day, whether at work or driving your car or talking to friends. Many experts tend to say that laughing and smiling is good for you and it tends to make you more attractive to potential suitors.

7 Take up Dancing, Even with Two Left Feet

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In my opinion dancing is one of the best ways to let loose and enjoy yourself, and who knows you may even meet potential partners. It does not matter if you can not dance or have two left feet go out and have fun, you never know you may even find someone who can teach you how to dance.

6 Try Not to Spend All of Your Time Hunting for a New Love

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Those that spend all of their time looking for a new love often do not find it until they accept that there is more to life. Yes having a partner is an important part of life but you do not want your life to dissolve into theirs, it is best to have separate lives that find a middle point.

5 Spend Time with Friends and Family

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There are very few things in life that beat spending quality time with close family and friends. In my opinion this is a great way to really let loose, go out with those close to you and bear in mind that any potential partners are attracted to those that love to enjoy themselves.

4 Do What You Want to do

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At the end of the day only you know what it is that you want from life, you know what makes you happy and what does not therefore you need to do what is best for you. Of course when you find new love you want to please that other person but you should always place yourself as number one.

3 Learn How to Move on

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If you have recently come out of a bad relationship you need to learn how to move on, without applying everything that happened in that partnership to future ones. It is important to know that not everyone is the same and not everyone will treat you the exact same.

2 Take the Good with the Bad

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In my opinion this links very closely with the first tip, you need to realise that the good often comes with the bad. Yes some relationships have more good things and others have more bad, you need to work out what it is that you are able to live with before you find new love. You may even find that your ideas change once you find that special someone.

1 Open Your Heart to Love

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This step can be the most difficult; in order to find love you need to open your heart completely to love. By this I mean that you must accept the fact that in order to find love you will probably get hurt along the way or have to work hard at the relationship and so on.

There you have 8 tips on letting loose and finding new love. Try not to spend too much time searching for it, have a good time with friends and family, and if you see someone that you like then approach them.

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