12 Ways to Tell if It's True Love ...

Is it true love? Is it going to be forever? So many people out there fall into the trap once or twice of thinking they definitely have true love only to find that tragic ending. We all know that we only have one true love in our life, at least, that is what I believe. How to tell if it’s true love may be a bit frustrating as people fall in and out of love many times. Below, I am going to give you 12 ways to tell if it’s true love.

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Eye Contact

When he or she talks to you, do they look you in the eyes?

Do They Seem to Care about You?

When you talk to them and tell them your problems, do they seem to care? Do they show you that they care? Then it may just be true love.

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The Kiss

It is in the way they kiss you. When someone kisses you, if it’s true love, you can just feel it. How to tell if it’s true love can be found in that kiss!

Are You Always Interested?

If you always enjoy talking and looking at the person, then it may just be true love. If you only find yourself looking at the person’s figure and not enjoying a conversation with them as much, then it may not be a true love romance.

Willing to Wait

Are you willing to wait in order to make a relationship work out?

Friendship

Are you friends? It seems that companionship always last longer than ardor. Do the two of you laugh together? Do you share each other’s family and friends?

Do You Want What’s Best?

When you are with the person, do you want was is best for them? As an example, if they have a job offer in another city, are you willing to turn your life around and move with them? When you love someone, it involves self-sacrifice and compromise.

Disagreements

Do you have disagreements? If you do not have disagreements, then there may be something wrong as everyone disagrees. If you have never had a disagreement, then someone is not being real.

Talking

Do you enjoy talking to the person? If they always seem to have something to say that is interesting to you, then the both of you may be made for each other.

Support

No matter what opinions you have, do you support each other? How to tell if it’s true love – support each other’s needs and wants.

What Would You do

Can you think of anything that you would not do for him or her that you would easily do for someone else? If so, then it probably isn’t true love after all.

My Rule

When it comes to true love, I have one rule that I have always lived by in determining if it is true love and that is the fact that you will just know it. I will admit, I have went out with many guys, but I never felt the same feeling I felt for anyone, until I met my husband.

How to tell if it’s true love - True love is hard to come by for some, but then it’s easy to come by for others. You never know when it is going to hit you. It could be the person living down stairs, the person next door, the person who comes to your job a lot or someone you don’t even know right now. Do you have any experience with true love? Did you have a case where you thought it was true, but it wasn’t? I found my true love 8 years ago and have been married for 6 years, ever since I was 18.

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Xannyyy, I'm so totally with you on the friendship thing. How can you be with someone that you can't be friends with before anything else. Yes, the initial attraction and the hot sex and all that is great but what will last is friendship. Tavia, "strange true love"? I'm curious :D

I feel it all! It's a beautiful feeling of true love though we're so far apart!

I think ive fallen in love ...for the first time in my life i cant get mad at someone and stay mad, he instently knows if he hurt me and he tries to make up for it. We make eye contact when i talk to him or he talks to me and his eyes just light up..i want to understand him and keep the pain from hurting him worst, and i think of my future with him and i want him to live a happy life..when i first kissed him i didnt have those butterflies i had courage to wake up the next morning feeling myself....hell we even have pine cone fights and laugh at eachothers mistakes , do u think its love?

Well ....after reading this I think I'm living a strange true love :)

Well, I met up with an old friend after 12 years and 3 weeks later, i'm moving 200 miles to be with him. We talk for hours and laugh so freely. We have declared our love for each other (after 5 days) and he makes me feel safe, loved and cherished. I thought i'd been in love before but this was an instant, proverbial bolt from the blue. 5 mins into our first date, the emotion was evident and it knocked us for six. All boxes ticked.

Tavia, Explain to us.. :)

Thanks God I had and still have all of these points with my boyfriend :) So our love is cert I believe in Eye contact in a relationship, in beginning and afterwards. It's a specail understending between loved ones. Most of all Friendship. Beginning as friends is what begins a solid relation ship. You'll get to know the person better at first. And during a realtion ship it's one of the nicest things with your man. I my self see my man as a friend brother and boyfriend which makes our relation ship easier and more trustful!

I'm curious about the "strange" part, too, Tavia. :D

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