11 Self-Destructive Behaviors ...

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We all deal with life in our own ways. It’s not always easy but we make do with our individual capabilities and limitations. While some people go through life with savvy and finesse, some of us take the negative route and harm ourselves in the process. We fall into lies and desperation, unhealthy or dysfunctional patterns, and we slowly dig our own graves. This is self-destructive behavior and many are formed by an individual’s deliberate choice, an acquired or developed habit, or even impulses that can’t be controlled. Here are some common self-destructive behaviors women, and even men, engage in.

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Eating Disorders

Men and women fall prey to this self-destruction as they become more exposed to media’s lies about beauty. They try to fit into the ideal beauty at the cost of their health and even their lives. These men and women diet and exercise excessively and this habit eventually turns into eating disorders. They develop a fatal addiction to control, to calorie restriction, purging, and over-exercise.

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Self-Injury or Self-Harm

The truth of the matter is, physical pain is concrete and thus more manageable than emotional pain. This is why a lot of people choose to injure themselves to cope with the overwhelming pain inside. Cutting, burning, skin picking, breaking bones, choking, hair pulling, and stabbing are just some examples of how people injure their physical bodies.

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Alcohol Abuse

Many people drink copious amounts of alcohol because it numbs the pain, brings down their inhibitions, and makes them forget about their problems in life. And although alcohol seems like an innocent substance because it is legal, it can cause serious physical, mental, and emotional damage to the drinker. The lives of the people around them are also affected.

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Drug Abuse

Prescription or illegal drugs, it really doesn’t matter. Drug abuse is drug abuse no matter what is used. Much like alcohol, drugs help people cope with the reality of their lives. And again, abusers don’t only destroy their lives, but also the lives of the people who care about them.

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Failure to Acknowledge Feelings

Feelings are neither good nor bad. They are there and it is best to acknowledge them in the best way we can. Denying or suppressing one’s feelings to the point where you feel stifled is not good for your emotional, mental, and even physical health.

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Overspending

Money is an important asset in this modern world. Overspending may not seem like an obvious example for self-destructive behavior, but it is one. What is it about spending yourself to bankruptcy that doesn't scream self-destruction to you? Shopping may be rewarding and pleasurable, but if you continue to overspend, you can ruin your life in the end.

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Lack of Self-Respect

When everything you have is taken away, you would still want to have your self-respect and dignity intact. That is why I believe that if you do things that indicate a lack of self-respect, you are slowly destroying yourself.

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Body Neglect

There are many ways people abuse and neglect their physical bodies. They get inadequate sleep, eat unhealthy food, refuse to exercise, and indulge their vices. Abusing the only body you have will be your downfall. The long term effects may take a while to manifest but they will surely show up.

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Harsh Self-Criticism

It is true that we are our own worst critics. However, it is a different matter altogether if all you ever see is the negative in yourself. You don’t have confidence in yourself. You believe that you will never be good enough. Anything you do is mediocre and doesn’t deserve recognition. Daily blows to the ego are never a good thing.

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Self-Loathing

Isn't it sad how there are people who can never seem to love themselves? They believe that they are the worst person on earth. They constantly feel guilt, hate, and anger towards themselves, their actions, and their choices. Remember that if you cannot like yourself, many people will not enjoy your company either.

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Sabotaging Relationships

The positive relationships we form with other people help make life a beautiful and bearable experience. However, there are some people who destroy their relationships because they feel unworthy of love and acceptance. Purposely destroying relationships can bring you nothing but sadness and even loneliness.

While it is easy to identify the presence of self-destructive behavior, it is hard to find a solution. This is because the reasons and motivations for self-destructive behavior vary from person to person. However, no matter how hard controlling these actions can be, we should still try to help. Because even if these actions seem helpful in coping with life and personal problems, they really bring more harm than good. Try to see if you or someone you know exhibits any of these self-destructive behaviors. It may be time for a healthy change.

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I enjoyed reading this article, but it also made me realize how many self destructive behaviors I have. I am aware of these behaviors, but they are controlling and ruining my life, to the point i am about to lose my husband, the love of my life, and almost lost my job. Im at a loss of how to deal with these issues, and not lose everything Ive worked so hard to get. Help me!!!

Hi, a woman I lived with (flatmate) has exhibited at least 8 of these self destructive behaviors in the end I couldn't handle it any more, I care about her and want her to talk to someone (she's a councillor!?) but we aren't talking, help:(

How is a lack of self-respect, self-loathing, or harsh self-criticism, destructive "behavior"? This article makes it sound like its as easy as simply correcting yourself. Seems like those three things would be more suitable in a list of potential causes instead of behaviors...

Negative attitude is the main reason. BTW..I liked the top photo.

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