Want to spice up your sex life, but haven't got the time? With working, seeing family and meeting friends, it can be a nightmare keeping your partner happy too...here's my top ten tips on how to have a mind blowing quickie, and keep everyone happy!
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Use Lube!
Saving time means skipping some of the foreplay, so make sure you've got some non oil-based lube nearby to keep things pain free!
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Do Some Planning
While you might feel spontaneous is better, a little planning can go a long way. Make sure you are wearing a skirt, and if your feeling risky, how about adding crotchless panties? They are sure to drive him wild and save time!
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Kiss!
While you might be in a hurry, there is no need to cut out all the romance. A long, passionate kiss is perfect for making sure everyone is in the right mood.
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Feed His Ego...
Tell him you've been looking forward to seeing him, or exactly what you'd like to do to him...whatever you have to say, boosting his ego will make him eager to impress!
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Forget Candles...
Part of the passion is the unplanned, unromantic environment, so forget candles and soft music, and think ad breaks and while the tea cooks instead!
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Meaning is not what you start with but what you end up with.
Make Noise...
Show you are appreciating the effort by making some noise!
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Think Positions...
Some people enjoy doggie, some love girl on top. Think about which way you, and him, get the most pleasure. Remember you are aiming for speed!
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Balance!
While you don't need to cuddle for hours, don't start ignoring him either. If you are both rushing out, make sure you share a kiss on the way out the door. If you're watching TV, put your arm around him.
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Don't Make It a Habit...
While quickies are healthy, they shouldn't be your whole sex life. Take some time for slow, romantic sessions too or you might start feeling neglected.
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Have Fun!
The quickie will be a success if it works for you, so do what feels good and go with the flow. It'll be worth it!!
So next time you've got five minutes to spare, you know exactly what to do, wherever you are! Just remember to have fun, and to practise safe sex. Babies really get in the way of a good sex life! Have you got a tip for an amazing quickie? Please share it with me!
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