11 Things to Never Tell Your Man ...

By Kati

11 Things to Never Tell Your Man ...

When you’re in that initial honeymoon stage, it can be easy to think you should tell him everything in preparation for your perfect life together. But here are 11 things you should definitely keep to yourself!

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1

That You Dislike His Mother ...

Even if he is currently angry at his Mom, it’s never a good idea to get involved, as they will definitely make up. Comfort him, and listen to him, but keep your opinions to yourself. His Mom is important to him, so knowing you don’t like her could undermine your whole relationship.

2

Never Tell Him His Friends Made a Pass at You ...

He’ll have to confront them, or things will be awkward, and if the friend swears he didn’t it could cause even more problems. Politely decline and keep quiet, unless he becomes a repeat offender.

3

Been Unfaithful in the past?

Keep it to yourself, or you’ll worry him. If he believes you’ve done it before, male friends and nights out will be even more risky, and he’ll automatically trust you less. Learn your lesson, and keep quiet.

4

Don't Tell Him That Your Best Friend is Cheating ...

He’ll start to presume that you discuss tactics, or that you’re cheating too. Act like infidelity is equal with murder, and you’ll cause a lot less suspicion.

5

Don’t Criticise His Body ...

He might not look as young as he used too, but neither do you, and if he is still making an effort then you’re doing well.

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6

Believe in Him ...

When everyone else is doubting him, you have to be the one person who actually believes that he will achieve his dreams, and outperform everybody else..

7

And if You Don’t, Pretend You do ...

This will at least give him the confidence and drive to work harder, so that he doesn’t let you down.

UPD:

Continuing with the guise of certainty can have surprising effects. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy—belief inspires action. By projecting a sense of belief, even when you’re filled with doubts, you light a spark of ambition and purpose in him. It's about providing a cushion of positivity that can buffer against the hard knocks of reality. So, the next time he's unsure, your feigned confidence could be the nudge he needs to overcome his hesitations and stride forward towards achieving his goals. Remember, a little white lie in support of his potential isn't deception; it's encouragement in disguise.

8

Don’t Threaten to Leave ...

He’ll start to feel that you are just waiting for an excuse, so keep this for times that you really are thinking of leaving, or it’ll stop having any effect.

9

Don’t Let That Earning More than Him Bother You ...

Or it’ll bother him ten times more. He will already be struggling to handle this, so knowing that you think it makes him less of a man too will push him over the edge. Keep any bitchy comments in your head, and if you have to talk about it, confide in a trusted friend.

10

Don’t Confess to Crushes ...

You’d be upset if he constantly pointed out other people he’d love to get into bed, so don’t do it to him. That way he won’t get jealous, and you’ll be free to enjoy your crush without feeling guilty or upsetting him.

11

Never Tell Your Man How Many People You’ve Slept with ...

Keep the number small, but make sure you remember it. Sleep with too many and you’ll no doubt go down in his opinion, too little and he’ll know you're lying. Pick a small number and flatter his ego.

So edit the truth a little, and keep him, and your relationship happy.

Have you ever told a boyfriend something you shouldn’t, or do you have any advice for others who have? Share it with me!

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If you're with a guy that can't respect you and see past these things I suggest you find a new guy. How could you keep any of these things from a person who is basically you? My boyfriend is the closest person I have ever been to. I hope you're all able to fund peace. God have mercy on you liars

i constantly being my ex (father of my son) and i feel like it bothers him but he does the too? Is it a way of getting back At me. Well his ex wife, so this was very useful.

I told my bf how many people I slept with and from then on we had broken up and he didn't trust me anymore

I once got drunk n said I hated his mother. oops!! had a loooooong "no conversation" week after that.

WoW...Females are so deceptive... why not just try telling the truth and see where it gets you. Acting like this post says is like getting a Huge Gift in a box, just to open it, and have a smaller box.and again and again.. Get iT.?.... Being truthful from the beginning might have dire results for some, but the majority of the time the respect we gain for you can out whey the negative .making the relationship 1000 times better.. Why would you want to start in a hole? ur trying to climb out, then we find out, and u slip right back down the ladder(most likely deeper). think 1st..

I cannot agree with sxc here bcuz me & my man said to each other "I love you" right in the beginning of the relationship and it's been two years now and we're still strong and I'm still hard to get in some ways hehe :)

I told my boyfriend the worst one, how many people slept with! It totally ruined my relationship! - no more trust in me - low opinion of me - & when getting in arguments, bring it up & uses it against me!! And treats me really bad & disrespects me! NEVER TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND ANYTHING PERSONAL, HE WILL USE IT AGAINST YOU!

I'm with Meream here, not that I have told these things to my boyfriend but it depends a lot on the type of relationship you have. Hey- I've seen it all! I keep seeing people around me talk stuff to their partners that I would certainly not do but it works with them... I think however that you should never tell him that you have a crush on someone else- I see it as kinda humilliating cause you're telling him he's not the only one in your mind...

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