10 Signs You’re Dating A Loser …
So he’s never late, he makes you cups of tea and he doesn’t mind watching all the soaps… it can be hard to see who you are actually dating during the honeymoon stage, when everything is so perfect. So how can you tell if he is really Mr. Right, or if he’s just a loser? Here are my top ten signs that you are dating a loser…
1. He plays rough…
When he’s calm, he’s dreamy, but when he’s angry… he punches the wall, pulls your hair or breaks your things. He always apologizes… but if he can’t keep his temper in check, get as far away as you can as soon as possible. He’s definitely a loser!
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1. You won’t date a man because he doesn’t make enough money or is unemployed. You would say “unambitious”
2. You have mood swings.
3. You are paranoid.
... See more /> 4. You start a fight and then get mad when he doesn’t apologize
5. You think you can hit a guy but a guy can’t hit you because you’re a girl. Also, you believe in gender equality. Paradox?
6. You think having a period gives you the right to bitch about everything.
7. You try to control him, and separate him from his friends for no other reason than you don’t like them.
8. You lie about stupid things
9. You spend his money on your obligations, then spend yours on new stuff.
10. You are a feminist. That’s right, feminists are losers. No REAL man likes a feminist. Because all you try to do is emasculate men.
2.) Having mood swings is not a sign that someone is a loser. It’s ... See more a sign that he/she is human.
10.) I don’t think feminists try to emasculate men. There are some extremists that give feminism a bad name but don’t judge everyone else based on those people.
Of course everyone has at least one of these points and no, that does not make him a loser. But if a guy were to have more than half of these signs, hmmm, ... See more I’d definitely call him a loser :)
Sorry to hear about your ex. It does sound like he needs a little help. Also, believe it or not, things will get better with time and you will get over your breakup.
Thanks for reading!
Thanks though, it’s a real eye opener.
At least it’s over now and you can move on with your life and on to better, nicer guys!
can u believe dat!!
n now i m into so much pain!! he always breaks my heart
if i go out without asking him he breaks up wid ... See more me n he has all 10 things in him mentioned above!!!!
he doesnt like any1 whom i like!!
we broke up 1ooo times n den again i go back 2 him again coz when he is nice he is d most charming guy ever!!
I m soo broke :(
but not anymore.. i wanna move on!!!
Thank u so much 4 dis article :) <3
Aren’t you sweet. Thanks so much :) Thanks for visiting.
My current boyfriend got 4 of these signs does that make him a loser? we’ve had our many arguments… and “break-ups”. Our main issue is that he wasted alot of ... See more years partying and now he’s 24 without any decent degree or job.. I keep pushing and encouraging him because he knows our relationship depends on that, it’s been a year now and he still haven’t done anything serious !! I’m beginning to suspect he’s a loser!! What would you do ?
P.S. we are in love and I do want this relationship to work out because there are alot of good things as well.
I don’t know if he is a loser or no but I do think it’s important for you to sit him down and tell him that it’s time he gets serious. I know ... See more you’ve spoken to him before but let him know that this time you’re serious. And if he doesn’t get his act together, you may just have to end it. Give him a time frame. Like say a year and don’t nag him a lot in that one year. If he doesn’t change his ways, maybe you should consider ending it.
x-box=x-bf really cracked me up!! you’re right about how we rarely realise what we’re into till we’re out of it! *sigh*
Is it alright to be paranoid if my girlfriend keeps in close contact with her ex’s and doesn’t tell me she went out to see them ... See more until I ask where she has been and why she hasn’t answered any of my calls?
Then I checked her phone to find out she’s been texting them the whole time we have been together she’s been sexting even though she’s said to my face she’s been a faithful girlfriend.
i’m sorry to have to say this, but you gotta drop the ball and RUN! run away! if you’re sure of what you saw on her phone and it couldn’t have been you ... See more misinterpreting a simple message, then I think you should be a little more than paranoid – ending it. Give her a couple of more chances to explain herself.. but if she still doesnt come clean…
*keeping my fingers crossed for you*
p.s. Nowadays ... See more your situation is VERY common. Women just like to think they’re the angels while men are the devils, but THEY make us this way, usually. :)
These are really good points to consider when dating a guy. Especially the first ... See more one. Because you could really get hurt if he gets physical. Then he’s not only a loser. But he’s a loser that could be put in prison!
Lol I read the first part of your sentence and was already thinking of advice to give you and ask you to leave him but thank God! I guess such posts make you ... See more grateful for what you have :)
He is a loser. For sure. Get out now!
And you know the worst part? I keep breaking up and going back to him over and over…
Yes I gotta get outta this relationship, and most importantly I gotta convince myself it’s not worth the depression I got into…
You girls out there make sure you do the same!
Ouch! He definitely sounds like a moron. I know it’s hard to break up hun but you deserve better! Sooooo much better. Good luck breaking up for good. Keep us posted on how it goes :)
Point noted! We will definitely do something about that. Thanks a ton for the suggestion sweetie :)
Thank you for suggestion!
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My ex really disliked my friends and my hobbies.
I was thinking of my past relationship too! Too much nostalgia involved while reading this. I think I could pretty much check all 10 off the list. Thank God that’s over! :p
I’m sorry that your husband fits the bill from this list! Thanks for commenting and I do hope to see you around more honey.
1 quick to move in and move out
2 asks you to marry him after just to days he met you
3 he shares his bed with his female dog ... See more in your absence and when you are around the dog is tensed
4 he stinks
5 he has a mental disorder but refuses to be placed in a mental home messing other people’s lives and toiling with their emotions
6 he convinces your landlord to put his name on your lease agreement to cover the portion of the rent after 15 days of dating then he disappears
7his mom asks you to buy groceries when you go over to visit
8 he might be an adult around you but when he sees his mom he acts like a 10yr old
9 mom always protecting and being a hero for him to bail him out of his bad acts
10 never responsible for his actions, always blaming others for his mistakes especially his ex’s
11 he creates a fight between you, his ex, or his mom RUN!
12 quick to applogize after he does something on purpose to break you expcting forgiveness
13 he tells everyone what he does in bed with you behind your back to his friends
14 likes to go on vaction to his mothers wihthout you
15 always on the loose when its time to tackle responsibilities he runs
16 he likes to play guessing games with you and toils with your emotions and phsycology with lies, lies, lies, lies and promises he never keeps
17 he wants a family wiht you when you barely know him, pressuring you to lay off your birth control pills to have a child wiht you
18 asking your child/children to accept him as a daddy when your kids barely know him
19 he gossips and lies about you when you refuse to give him second chances to mess wiht you again
20 he like to eat, eat, and eat, and never full, and has no interest in proper self care or hygeine
21 he claims to be the victim while he is the victimizer to his ex landlords, girlfriends etc.
22 he likes to play the pitty me sad me poor me role, mean while he is the one victimizing every person he encounters with by breaking their hurts and giving them a bad reputation
23 he likes to spend money and waste it and barely save any so he can depend on others who are genourous and giving at heart to use them and hurt them
24 he communicates with spirits and foretells the future before they happen
25 he is a pretender and a wolf in a sheeps clothing
26 he says he is a chrisitan but loves to lie
27 he has a mulitiple personality and you can’t tell the difference weather he is reall or not.
Thanks for taking time to write this comprehensive list!
In fact, I’m trying to deal with the aftermath of this abuse by turning it into a positive. I am an artist and make cards that say the things we WISH we could say to jerks like this! My blog link is below.
You were dead-on with this list! :) Thank you!
Best,
Christina
Christina Boykin’s last blog post: HARD CARDS: We Say What You Can’t
Now I just have to ... See more work on my self confidence, because it affected me so much. I had the bad luck to fall in love with THIS LOSER! but everyday I´m doing much better…
That’s life sweetie. You love, you learn, you move on :)
And don’t worry about your self confidence sweetie, time takes care of everything!