There is often a fine line between flirting and coming across as annoying, at least that’s been my experience. I’ve seen women practically throw themselves into the lap of a guy they think is extremely good looking. Some guys might be flattered by this type of behavior, but most aren’t looking for a meaningful relationship with women who act in this manner. If you want him to realize you exist and want to get his attention in a respectable fashion, then take a look at the list below. Here are 7 flirting tips to make him notice you.
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7. Be Mindful of Your Appearance
It’s important to not only look nice, but to also carry yourself with pride. You don’t have to be loud and obnoxious to get a guy to notice you. Dress smart and be confident in your actions. Having good posture never hurts either. This also helps you to feel better about yourself too. Most guys notice a nicely dressed female who holds her head up high with confidence.
6. Lavish Him with Compliments
What guy is going to ignore a compliment? People in general enjoy receiving compliments, even a subtle one. I’m sure you’ll stand out in his mind if you start offering a plethora of praise to boost his ego. Try to flatter him with words that are true though, don’t fill him up with false admiration.
5. Smile Whenever He Looks at You
Whenever you catch his eye, don’t forget to smile. The smile will let him know you acknowledge his gaze and welcome it. There’s so much that can be said with a smile and most guys take even the smallest grin as a signal that you are interested.
4. Invite Him to Dance
There’s no rule that says a woman can’t ask a man to dance. I think most guys would be flattered by a woman asking for a dance instead of vice versus. This would be a quick way to get to know the guy you are interested in, at least a little bit.
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3. Lean in Close and Ask Him a Question
You might freak him out if you lean in close and don’t say anything at all. Maybe. If you are worried about this happening then think of a question to ask him before you lean in closer. Try to come up with a legitimate query, so it won’t seem like you are just asking random questions so you can get close to him.
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2. Touch His Hand or Arm
If you have a reason to get his attention, try making contact with his arm or hand when you do so. This tactic will cause him to take notice of you more quickly than if you simply speak to him from afar or smile when he looks at you. There’s something about making physical contact that causes a person to become more aware of the person they are connecting with.
1. Make Strong Eye Contact when You Speak with Him
Combining good eye contact with touching and leaning in close will not only make him notice you, but this combo of flirtatious behavior will definitely show him you are interested too. If he doesn’t get the hint from this behavior, then he must be blind!
Maybe you can successfully use some of these 7 flirting tips to make him notice you. What techniques have you used in the past that have gotten a guy’s attention?
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Hazel: since you guys mentioned about the woman asking the guy for a dance. so we have our prom coming up next month, will it be weird to ask a guy to prom, kinda like start the convo, oh hey are you going to prom and he might say maybe, or no, coz he dont know who to ask and no one will go with him, could i say something like "oh if youre not going with anyone, im not going with anyone either, we should go together as friends" will that scare him away? a guy friend of mine told me some guys like it when the girls ask the guy? is that okay? or is it a nono?
Molly: I have liked this guy in my grade for 2 years and I still like him. But he doesn't like me and he has told me that but no matter what he does or says wrong I can't be made at him and I can't get over him. Does anyone have advice?please help.
Anonymous: I have been in the friend zone with this guy for a good year and a half, and I like him ALOT. But he introduced me to one of his other friends, sadly his other friend lives a ways away so we would never get to see each other. But I was texting him, and it was going good, flirty, and everything. But out of no where... he stopped replying. So I texted him again because my phone tends to not send messages, and he replied, but only for like 2 messages... then stopped again. I don't know why but he's ignoring me.
Anonymous: UGH. All of this is exactly what I did with this guy last year, and I totally thought I was getting signals back until he started dating one of our friends. I mean, he and I were really close friends, but I was so sure there was a hint of something more. I had the biggest crush on him, too. Oh, well. He's gone now, so I get to focus on other guys and other goals.
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