There is often a fine line between flirting and coming across as annoying, at least that’s been my experience. I’ve seen women practically throw themselves into the lap of a guy they think is extremely good looking. Some guys might be flattered by this type of behavior, but most aren’t looking for a meaningful relationship with women who act in this manner. If you want him to realize you exist and want to get his attention in a respectable fashion, then take a look at the list below. Here are 7 flirting tips to make him notice you.

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7. Be Mindful of Your Appearance

It’s important to not only look nice, but to also carry yourself with pride. You don’t have to be loud and obnoxious to get a guy to notice you. Dress smart and be confident in your actions. Having good posture never hurts either. This also helps you to feel better about yourself too. Most guys notice a nicely dressed female who holds her head up high with confidence.

6. Lavish Him with Compliments

What guy is going to ignore a compliment? People in general enjoy receiving compliments, even a subtle one. I’m sure you’ll stand out in his mind if you start offering a plethora of praise to boost his ego. Try to flatter him with words that are true though, don’t fill him up with false admiration.

5. Smile Whenever He Looks at You

Whenever you catch his eye, don’t forget to smile. The smile will let him know you acknowledge his gaze and welcome it. There’s so much that can be said with a smile and most guys take even the smallest grin as a signal that you are interested.

4. Invite Him to Dance

There’s no rule that says a woman can’t ask a man to dance. I think most guys would be flattered by a woman asking for a dance instead of vice versus. This would be a quick way to get to know the guy you are interested in, at least a little bit.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

3. Lean in Close and Ask Him a Question

You might freak him out if you lean in close and don’t say anything at all. Maybe. If you are worried about this happening then think of a question to ask him before you lean in closer. Try to come up with a legitimate query, so it won’t seem like you are just asking random questions so you can get close to him.

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2. Touch His Hand or Arm

If you have a reason to get his attention, try making contact with his arm or hand when you do so. This tactic will cause him to take notice of you more quickly than if you simply speak to him from afar or smile when he looks at you. There’s something about making physical contact that causes a person to become more aware of the person they are connecting with.

1. Make Strong Eye Contact when You Speak with Him

Combining good eye contact with touching and leaning in close will not only make him notice you, but this combo of flirtatious behavior will definitely show him you are interested too. If he doesn’t get the hint from this behavior, then he must be blind!

Maybe you can successfully use some of these 7 flirting tips to make him notice you. What techniques have you used in the past that have gotten a guy’s attention?

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I like this guy and he's perfect for me. But he said he likes my friend better. She doesn't even care though. Sometimes he'll flirt with me and i guess i get the wrong signal because he says im hot but he'd date her over me. How can i get him to like me? He's so nice and i reaaalllyy like him!

I'm in 8th grade and there's this guy that I've been friends with for like two years and I have a big crush on him I use some of the tips, we do the same sport, we were partners in history once I touched his shoulder when I was talking to him and touched his hand, we laugh together and stuff, but idk if he likes me back. We have this green project and I want to invite him over to plant a tree with me or something but I don't want to freak him out.

I really like this one guy, and my friend told me that his ex- gf told her while they were still dating that he liked me. Right now he is single but idk if i should make the first move. sometimes i look at him and he looks at me back, but i dont know what to do. MY friends tell me that he is a player but he is really nice to me and super funny. I hope he actually does like me and makes the first move cuz im tired of dreaming!!!!

there is this guy that i saw today and hes like in 10th 11th or 12th grade and he is soo cutee . nd im in 8th but i really like him and i see him everyday . how do i get him to notice me cause whenever i looked at him he just looked at me for half a second and then looked away :( he doesnt notice me but i reallywant him to. what do i do. ?

I have been in the friend zone with this guy for a good year and a half, and I like him ALOT. But he introduced me to one of his other friends, sadly his other friend lives a ways away so we would never get to see each other. But I was texting him, and it was going good, flirty, and everything. But out of no where... he stopped replying. So I texted him again because my phone tends to not send messages, and he replied, but only for like 2 messages... then stopped again. I don't know why but he's ignoring me.

This guy I have liked for AGES tweeted me and asked for my number because he "lost it". He NEVER gets on twitter, so I feel like he got on just for me and thats a good sign right? We texted for a while(like a day lol) and it went really well I thought. But then he stopped :( I even asked him to hangout with me and all my friends at an ice skating rink and he said he might go but then never replied or went! Then tonight at my church youth group he was SUPER flirty and nice! WHAT THE HECK is happening? Any ideas?