7 Flirting Tips to Make Him Notice You ...

7 Flirting Tips to Make Him Notice You ...
By Aprille • May 16, 2011

There is often a fine line between flirting and coming across as annoying, at least that’s been my experience. I’ve seen women practically throw themselves into the lap of a guy they think is extremely good looking. Some guys might be flattered by this type of behavior, but most aren’t looking for a meaningful relationship with women who act in this manner. If you want him to realize you exist and want to get his attention in a respectable fashion, then take a look at the list below. Here are 7 flirting tips to make him notice you.

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7. Be Mindful of Your Appearance

It’s important to not only look nice, but to also carry yourself with pride. You don’t have to be loud and obnoxious to get a guy to notice you. Dress smart and be confident in your actions. Having good posture never hurts either. This also helps you to feel better about yourself too. Most guys notice a nicely dressed female who holds her head up high with confidence.

6. Lavish Him with Compliments

What guy is going to ignore a compliment? People in general enjoy receiving compliments, even a subtle one. I’m sure you’ll stand out in his mind if you start offering a plethora of praise to boost his ego. Try to flatter him with words that are true though, don’t fill him up with false admiration.

5. Smile Whenever He Looks at You

Whenever you catch his eye, don’t forget to smile. The smile will let him know you acknowledge his gaze and welcome it. There’s so much that can be said with a smile and most guys take even the smallest grin as a signal that you are interested.

4. Invite Him to Dance

There’s no rule that says a woman can’t ask a man to dance. I think most guys would be flattered by a woman asking for a dance instead of vice versus. This would be a quick way to get to know the guy you are interested in, at least a little bit.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

3. Lean in Close and Ask Him a Question

You might freak him out if you lean in close and don’t say anything at all. Maybe. If you are worried about this happening then think of a question to ask him before you lean in closer. Try to come up with a legitimate query, so it won’t seem like you are just asking random questions so you can get close to him.

2. Touch His Hand or Arm

If you have a reason to get his attention, try making contact with his arm or hand when you do so. This tactic will cause him to take notice of you more quickly than if you simply speak to him from afar or smile when he looks at you. There’s something about making physical contact that causes a person to become more aware of the person they are connecting with.

1. Make Strong Eye Contact when You Speak with Him

Combining good eye contact with touching and leaning in close will not only make him notice you, but this combo of flirtatious behavior will definitely show him you are interested too. If he doesn’t get the hint from this behavior, then he must be blind!

Maybe you can successfully use some of these 7 flirting tips to make him notice you. What techniques have you used in the past that have gotten a guy’s attention?

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  • Anonymous

    2012-03-05T07:19:08.000Z

    A few months ago I had a short friends with benefits thing with this guy I know, but it ended. I have liked him ever since, but I can't muster up the courage to flirt with him. My step sister is my age as well and she flirts with him in front of me. At times I can tell that he is flirting back. However, many times I have noticed him looking at me during class and he compliments me often. I have a feeling he is flirting because stuff between us never really came to a conclusion. However, I can't muster up the courage to flirt with him. I always end up treating him with a joking indifference, which is like my default. Im worried that if I dont make a move soon that he will move on. Any tips?
  • Anonymous

    2011-08-09T22:38:25.000Z

    UGH. All of this is exactly what I did with this guy last year, and I totally thought I was getting signals back until he started dating one of our friends. I mean, he and I were really close friends, but I was so sure there was a hint of something more. I had the biggest crush on him, too. Oh, well. He's gone now, so I get to focus on other guys and other goals.
  • Ellyn

    2011-09-26T01:30:45.000Z

    I used some of these and I got this guy I like to ask me to homecoming. But it's only as friends because he used to like this girl and he asked her and then he started liking me so he didn't want to look like a player. How can I get him to move past the just friends stage?
  • Stefanie

    2011-07-20T04:19:45.000Z

    I think these tips could be very useful. But, I'm . . hard of hearing. I mean, I can hear, but when I talk with him and it's noisy, like at lunch, or in school hallways, I can't understand what he's saying, so it's hard for me to have a conversation. I'm only a teenager. So some of these tips might freak him out. Like randomly holding his hand, complimenting him, or even when I ask him to repeat what he says until I understand what he says.
  • katrina

    2012-01-30T21:17:09.000Z

    i like a guy .he has a girlfriend .everytime they break up they get back together the next day .what should i do to get him to ask me out ?he always stares at me .whats going on
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