Are Women Supposed to Be Thin or Curvy?

Are Women Supposed to Be Thin or Curvy?
By Guest • Sep 17, 2008

**By Christie Harris **

Are women supposed to be thin or curvy? This is a good question to ponder. As the years and decades pass, we have seen different shapes and trends for the female body in the celebrity world come and go. We have seen curvy shapes as in Marilyn Monroe. We have seen super thin shapes as in Twiggy Lawson, the famous English supermodel. Oh how everyone tried to have the Twiggy build during that era. In more recent times, we have seen body shapes of Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen, Paris Hilton, Nicole Riche, Ally McBeal, Halle Berry, Beyonce Knowles, Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Hudson, Eva Longoria Parker, and Gabrielle Union. This list of celebrities shows that there are many different body shapes in today's era. It is now known that more and more celebrities are straying away from the concept that super thin is the only shape that is beautiful. Women of today seem to be sending the message that whatever shape you are comfortable with as long as you are healthy is okay. Are women supposed to be thin or curvy?

The answer lies within you. Are you comfortable with who you are the way you are? Are you healthy and fit? Do you look healthy or do you look frail, pale, and malnourished? Do you have a healthy BMI? Do you feel at your best at your current weight (energized, do not tire easily)? Yes, the answer lies within each individual woman. Your body's build needs to be the build that is naturally you. I know many naturally thin women and they look beautiful and healthy. However, I also know a few women who are not naturally thin (the thinness is forced) and they do not look healthy. Therefore, be happy with who you are and learn to love your body**** no matter the shape, no matter the popular trend as long as you are healthy. I guarantee if you are healthy, look healthy, then you are beautiful inside and out. What do you think? Do you agree or disagree with my point of view? Please visit en.wikipedia.org if you would like to read about the celebrities mentioned.

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  • natalie

    2011-03-30T23:18:58.000Z

    I really do think there are very many different kinds of pretty, but the annoying thing is that the clothing lines don't agree. I have a larger chest and hips and upper thighs, but i'm slender everywhere else. I likie my shape but have not been able to find a single store where i can shop! Jeans never fit right and neither do tailored tops or dresses, They're always tight at the hips and loose on the legs or tight in the chest and baggy in the middle, and the drapy style just makes me look like i have no waist. These clothes look adorable on slim figures, but shouldn't there be styles for all?
  • Adrienne

    2008-09-18T12:41:43.000Z

    This post is right on the mark. As soon as women feel they are "supposed" to be anything they fall into a trap of not being, or at least trying to discover, who they really are.
  • Mary

    2022-02-09T19:47:08.826Z

    It's pretty sad that women are convinced that being curvy is unattractive. A woman's body is supposed to have curves. When you go through puberty you develop breasts, hips, and and more fat on your butt. That's normal. It says something about our society that women are saying that in order to be attractive they have to starve themselves until they look like emaciated children or teenage boys because being curvy means you're "fat".
  • Kate

    2009-07-30T23:18:25.000Z

    I'm sorry but I must be honest that curvy is not pretty and if you maintain a huge excercise schedual everyday and eat ONLY healthy in small quantities then you can be thin and pretty:)
  • stacia

    2013-03-31T01:22:36.000Z

    im skinny but a bit curvy, im 14, 154 cm and 52 kl and all my freidns say im slim and good weight whilst i still think im too curvy coz ive got big hips and abit of the hourglass figure is that hot or not coz i dont know
  • Emily

    2012-12-11T07:47:43.000Z

    People engage in this debate as though it is a question of personal choice in regards to looks. If you are overweight or underweight for YOUR body, then you will be doing it harm. I don't think a lot of girls realise this. Osteopenia/osteoporosis is being diagnosed in TEENAGE girls because they are following stupid faddish diets to keep up with the media. Likewise, statistics in Australia show that 1/4 people over 25 have pre-diabetes due to unhealthy lifestyle. Just be YOU, and be as healthy as you can.
  • Jessica

    2010-04-15T20:48:40.000Z

    i think its totally unfair to say all skiny chicks are ugly, Im skinny as hell and I remember overeating to make myself fatter and tying a belt tight around my waist to MAKE curves, we are all different shapes and sizes and all beautiful PS my boyfriend loves my flat boobs,if he can love them then Im pretty sure the right guy will accept your flaws
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