8 Tips on Letting Loose and Finding New Love ...

After a period of being single or following a bad relationship break up it can be extremely difficult to find another partner. Here are 8 tips on letting loose and finding new love.

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Laugh and Smile

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Make sure that you laugh and smile a lot throughout the day, whether at work or driving your car or talking to friends. Many experts tend to say that laughing and smiling is good for you and it tends to make you more attractive to potential suitors.

Take up Dancing, Even with Two Left Feet

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In my opinion dancing is one of the best ways to let loose and enjoy yourself, and who knows you may even meet potential partners. It does not matter if you can not dance or have two left feet go out and have fun, you never know you may even find someone who can teach you how to dance.

Try Not to Spend All of Your Time Hunting for a New Love

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Those that spend all of their time looking for a new love often do not find it until they accept that there is more to life. Yes having a partner is an important part of life but you do not want your life to dissolve into theirs, it is best to have separate lives that find a middle point.

Spend Time with Friends and Family

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There are very few things in life that beat spending quality time with close family and friends. In my opinion this is a great way to really let loose, go out with those close to you and bear in mind that any potential partners are attracted to those that love to enjoy themselves.

Do What You Want to do

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At the end of the day only you know what it is that you want from life, you know what makes you happy and what does not therefore you need to do what is best for you. Of course when you find new love you want to please that other person but you should always place yourself as number one.

Famous Quotes

To give oneself earnestly to the duties due to men, and, while respecting spiritual beings, to keep aloof from them, may be called wisdom.

Confucius

Learn How to Move on

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If you have recently come out of a bad relationship you need to learn how to move on, without applying everything that happened in that partnership to future ones. It is important to know that not everyone is the same and not everyone will treat you the exact same.

Take the Good with the Bad

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In my opinion this links very closely with the first tip, you need to realise that the good often comes with the bad. Yes some relationships have more good things and others have more bad, you need to work out what it is that you are able to live with before you find new love. You may even find that your ideas change once you find that special someone.

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Open Your Heart to Love

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This step can be the most difficult; in order to find love you need to open your heart completely to love. By this I mean that you must accept the fact that in order to find love you will probably get hurt along the way or have to work hard at the relationship and so on.

There you have 8 tips on letting loose and finding new love. Try not to spend too much time searching for it, have a good time with friends and family, and if you see someone that you like then approach them.

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Time and again I tell myself that all I have to do is wait. But I'm 19 and some of my friends are starting to wonder what's wrong with me. I'm thinking that maybe I'm weird, ugly or boring. *sigh* Sometimes, I don't even bother to look at the boys.

I am having a four yr relationship with my boyfriend. In the 1st yr he was like my dream boy. He was very unique to me. He did everything that makes me happy. But he is changed now. He don't cares for my hopes, happiness and all. So, i forched him to end our relation. But he never do this. He says, he loves me and will prove it when he'll marry me. But i wonder that if he can't make me happy then how could he loves me...! And even he don't break up with me...just want to know why..??

Great post the biggest key and sometimes the hardest thing to do is moving on and letting go!

Hello, I'm a girl in 8th grade, and I know this is too young to have real relationships, but this is still bugging me. Lots of my friends have boyfriends and they seem really happy. I don't think that any guy could ever like me... And I'm kind of lonely. I read this blog all the time and just imagine what it would be like to have a sweet, innocent relationship. I'd really love that, but it doesn't seem like it's ever going to happen. I've fallen asleep a few nights crying because of this guy who's really different from everyone else in my grade, he's really smart and kind to everyone, and he talks to me, but I just don't think I'd ever have a chance of him liking me. :/ Sorry If I just sound like a whiny teenager, it's probably just a phase and I'll get over being lonely. Any advice is appreciated, thank you.

Thanks for the suggestion...i will ignore him,infact i've started ignoring him. I don't call him. But if i don't receive his call for a long time then he used to call my friend. Because thats my weak point. He knows that after that i would receive his call and we have a fight. Just give me one more suggestion please...that is when he'll call me what should i do?? Should i talk to him in anger or should i be gloomy and just reply in one word..??

Me and this guy had been together for around a month, we were getting on well. but he seemed to be shy and wasn’t affectionate with me. He would also ditch me for his friends a lot, and if he promised to come see me, most of the time he would break his promise. I kept telling him that he was ditching me, and he would notice that i’d be upset about it afterwards. I told him that we needed to do something because I couldn’t keep being in a relationship where we acted more like friends than together and all he could say is that something didn’t feel right between us and said he wanted to go on a break. I don’t know what to do? I still want to be with him, but clearly its over now :’(

he is still in my life. He don't want me to go. I agree we've lost the charm of our relationship. I love him a lot. And i can't think of anyone else. I have a good term with his parents. Hardly three or four days i can ignore him but after that i become soft to him. Its like he has taken me for GRANTED. Give some suggestion,how to make him to love me like he did before..plz...

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