8 Reasons Why You're Still Single ...

Are you single? You long for that special person in your life, yet he or she has not come? Below, I am going to give you 8 reasons why you’re possibly still single. All of these may or may not be your reasons, but surely, you can find at least one reason on here why you are single.

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You’re Picky

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You really cannot be picky. This is not the way to go. There is going to be something you do not like about your date and that is a fact, but you can’t be too picky about it. So what if you hate the how many times he blinks his eyes in one minute, so what if he washes his hands a lot? Don’t be picky.

You’re Sloppy

Come on, it’s hard to get a date when you’re sloppy and dresses like you’re in a gym outfit you have had for 10 or more years. Clean up and then someone might be interested in you.

You Don’t Laugh

You Don’t Laugh Photo Credit: Beatriz AG

Do you know what I like in the opposite sex? I like their smile. I like to see them laughing. I think this is attractive. So, try to laugh a bit; be happy.

You’re Rude

Come on, admit it, you might have a bad attitude. People try to steer clear of those guys and girls who are rude and are mean. So, soften up a bit will ya!

You Don’t Go out Much

You Don’t Go out Much Photo Credit: Beatriz AG

You don’t go out much. This can be a big reason why you are possibly still single. You may work too much and not have time to go out. Find some time. Start going out a little bit. You could meet someone in the grocery aisle one day, but I think a café would be the best place.

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Silence at the proper season is wisdom, and better than any speech.

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You're Nervous when Talking to the opposite Sex

When you are talking to the opposite sex, you are nervous. You can’t seem to do it. You get butterflies and you stutter. Try to work on that part.

You’re Still in the Closet

You’re Still in the Closet Photo Credit: Christine Lebrasseur

You could still be in the closet. If you’re gay, then come out of the closet. I know, this one is a bit strange, but that could be a reason why you are still single.

You Have High Standards

Come on, most of the guys or girls you meet are not going to get full five stars. You should not set your standards too high. No one is perfect, just remember that.

Those are 8 reasons why you’re possibly still single. So many people are picky and set their standards too high. Lower them a bit, stop being picky. Picky people are usually single. So, why do you think you’re single? What are you going to do to change it?

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@ Miss V - I don't like the "in the closet" thing either, but that's the way some people are. Melanie

This sounds like what a snobby mother says about her single middle-aged daughter. The one about being in the closet was just too much.

I really can't tolerate the other person's ( the partner's) habits, you know, they minding over silly stuffs, questions like "why did you do this-and-that?" And do all guys just say stupid stuff when they are angry?!!! Looks Like I gotta be really patient...lol Anyways nice article! Thumbs Up!

I both agree and disagree with this post. I am unashamedly picky when it comes to guys, and I'm glad for it. It'll help weed out some of the worthless guys. I recently turned down a guy for a date because I just wasn't interested, and rather turned off. I was being picky, but only because I knew in the end I would never want to date someone like him. The same goes for the last one, there's nothing wrong with having high standards as long as they're not ridiculous or completely unattainable.

i think "picky" is good in moderation. guys get scared when they notice i apreciate more my brains than my beauty. only the ones worth it try to conquer me trough my brains not flattering my face all the time. i don't agree with dating ANYONE who asks and being worried of how many guys have asked you out the past month. that's needy. i prefer fewer boyfriends, but catches, that tons of non-sense dating.

I don't like this article. I am single but I do like someone and my friend (who is really close to the guy) told me he confessed he likes me and I don't mind if he does or doesn't really like me because I am a strong young woman and I can get along just fine without a man. This article was slightly offensive because I have none of those problems, and maybe Melanie you just need to find a man for yourself and get a life.

Um i'm not slopy. Go outside like evreyday. I'm not rude. I'm not really nervous when talkin to guys. And I like laugh more than a normal person should haha. And I don't really think I have high standerds so what should I do!!!!! Aahhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! Haha not that there's anythin rong with being single I just want a guy in my life to you know have around. Go places with abd stuff

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