Hi, I am 20 and I played a game called RuneScape and I met this guy who is one year younger then me and I have known him since I was 13 or 14. We dated and I got to meet him in feb then he came over here in April. We live a few hours apart and we stopped dating because I assumed he was cheating on me instead of asking him. I have had nothing but heartbreak from the guys I have dated I have real bad trust issues..and him and I started talking again a few months ago. I fell in love with this guy and he's always on my mind. I am seeing him again in a few days...he wants me to lose my virginity and I told him I want to wait until next fall I don't feel like i'm ready to do it yet and he kept telling me I need facts not just a reason so we are not talking until I have a good excuse to say no. Every time I talked about an excuse to not do it he gives me all the truths on how we have known each other for 5 years and so on. I am in complete shock right now because this is the guy I see myself spending the rest of my life with..but he is pressuring me into losing it with. I won't be on birth control until next fall and I will also be out of college then. I can't get him out of my life I tried that before it didn't work. I was waiting until marriage but for him I am waiting until next fall. He just don't want to wait that long. Can anyone help me please, what should I do? I'm not on birth control and he told me his condoms he have are the expensive kind "$30" and they are completely 100% safe if that is what i'm worried about.

Hiya guys.. I am really stuck in between two lads at the moment and was wondering could anyone help me.. One of them is my ex and lately he treats me like shite and only texts me when he's around and wants to meet up.. Even though i think i am still in love with him cause when we were going out he was so kind to me and wanted to meet up all the time. He did everything he could do for me. He bought me a heap a stuff for nothing. Like he was my first at everything (But not sex i am still a virgin)! Anything i wanted he got for me. I still do really like him but just am so confused about what to do. The other fella is really nice to me and treats me like i am the only i am the girl for him but we havnt met up in awhile cause my brother found out about us and they are good mates, but we are still texting and he always goes on about how he wants something serious to come out of this and of course i'd love something to happen between us but the thing is my family see i am 16 and i'm the youngest and this fella is 19 and used to be good friends with my brother they were like inseparable. Will someone please help me really don't know what i'm going to do.. Thanks..

I wanted to be with this one guy for awhile. The problem is that he's my ex. We broke up because we were both going through a lot. I just miss him. He and I had sex but I'm not ashamed of it. I had sex with one guy before him but he treated me very badly. He was using me and then flirted with my best friend the same night it happened. My ex on the other hand was not a jerk to me. He waited until I was ready. He and I waited for 6 months. I still like him very much but he and I haven't talked much. What should I do?

I have a problem. I have know this guy for four or five months and we are totaly into eachother. He told me he liked me a couple weeks ago. I have liked him sence i met him which is the same with him. I tried asking him out but he dont answer he just tells me "i'll tell you tomarrow. Plus he always wants to "sext" me and asks if i would do other things with him and i dont know if im ready? So could someone help me with both my problem. I would be so greatly appreciated, thank you

I am 16 and I have been in a relationship for over a YEAR one whole year and I like the boy for a good year and a half before that too, and I always wanted to lose my virginity to him but recently I've been starting to go a bit lukewarm on the whole relationship, I feel like it might be coming to and end and I don't know whether I should have sex with him or not, I don't want to regret not doing it cause I don't know when the chance will come again.. But I am worried about it hurting, and some of my friends say they bled on their first time which I do not want to happen either :(

My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile. We're 4 years apart but we don't care. Lately we've wanted to go farther but I'm a little nervous. We love each other but we are both under 18. Should we wait?

Lylas right, whorish as this sounds my first time was in the back of a car but I loved every second of it! almost every time I had sex there wasn't a fancy dinner and an elegant movie involved, there was just lust hehe. as long as u enjoy what ur doing the setting doesn't matter too much =] my ex and I did it in his bedroom like rabbits because his room is messy but comfy =] and cuddling afterwords makes it more fun!