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7 Tips on How to Handle a Moody Person ...

By Melanie

It can be really difficult when you come into contact with someone that constantly experiences mood swings. Here are 7 tips on how to handle a moody person.

7 Show the Moody Person What It is like to Be on the Receiving End

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This is not to be done in a malicious way but sometimes showing the person exactly what it is like to be surrounded by a moody person all the time can help the situation. When that person sees what it is like they are able to see from your point of view.

6 Take Time to Relax

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If you are constantly surrounded by a moody person, whether it is a family member or work colleague, it is important to take some time away from them. In my opinion, it is important that you make sure you relax and unwind away from them. This will help make sure that you look after yourself first.

5 Continue as You Normally Would

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Tip two mentions that you keep yourself happy and this tip adds on to this. You should try to act exactly how you normally would and do not pay their moodiness any attention. In my opinion in some cases people have a reason behind their behaviour but in others they behave in a way to get the most attention.

4 Politely Let Them Know

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Be polite when doing this, tell the person that is constantly having mood swings how they are behaving. You may find that the person is completely unaware of how they are acting and once you have told them they will look into changing their behaviour. They may even open up to you and let you know what it is that is causing them to act that way.

3 Consider Why They May Be Moody

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When confronted by a moody person the majority of us like to blame it on the person by saying things like they are miserable. We often do not even consider that the person may be going through a tough time; they could be experiencing relationship problems, bereavement or something else just as stressful.

2 Keep Yourself Happy

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It can be really difficult when a person around you is moody but it is important to try to keep yourself happy. Often people find that if they maintain their happiness it will bring the other person out of their mood, so no matter what try to remain positive and upbeat.

1 It is Not Your Fault

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Some people feel the need to blame themselves when another person is constantly moody around them but you should not do this. It is not your fault that this person does have mood swings and in my opinion this is the most important thing to bear in mind.

There you have 7 tips on how to handle a moody person. Sometimes it can be very difficult to deal with a moody person but hopefully these will help and are to be used as starting points.

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