Hi guys my relationship is somewhat different to what is been said here. My ex and myself broke up nearly 3 months ago we love each other but he is grieving the loss of his mother and had just become so distant and broke up with me. we have seen each other a few times since and he just cries and says he can't see it working. Anyone been through something like this

Hello! I have no idea what to do. Me and my ex boyfriend have been together for 10 months and its been nothing but love, a little fighting here or there but that's about it. In the 9th month of our relationship, he wasn't able to see me for a bit because of school troubles. We currently go to different schools so we sometimes have gone weeks at a time without seeing each other, and it makes us both angry and we fight, but then the next time we see each other, everything resets and it's just like when we first met. Last time I saw him in person was back in January around the 25th and it went well, we even cuddled in the car. After that it was normal. Now, he has anger issues too so he's been getting more and more prone to anger after us not being able to see each other for more than 2 weeks (the most we've ever been separated) and he's been acting very bipolar. One night we fought and he told me to "F*** Off" and he called me a B****. I told him goodnight and at midnight he called me apologizing and he pretty much went back to calling me baby and stuff like that. Me and him always fell asleep over a Skype call together so he said that something was missing so he called. A couple days later, I called him and he seemed irritated so I asked him what was wrong and he just said that he wasn't in a good mood and stuff like that. That morning, we fought again and he dumped me. That night we talked about the breakup and he seemed pretty mad. We have have friends so I sent them screenshots of what he told me and that of course made him really mad and he said I ruined my chances of getting him back so I asked to call him for a bit. He gave me 5 minutes to say whatever I had to say, then he said "I truly loved you." And hung up. Now before that, we talked about our future and getting married and stuff and he told me we could be together forever. He told me he left me because a relationship was too much in his life and he didn't want to date. I of course cried and begged fot him to give me another chance the next couple days and sent long paragraphs telling him I was sorry and all that then the night before last one of his friends told me he liked another girl so I freaked out and texted my ex and stuff. Then last night he said he didn't want to be friends and he sent me a picture of him and the girl sitting next to each other and smiling. I responded by sending pictures of me and him together and he told me to not talk to him again. I told him that it wouldn't work out with her because she's christian and vegan, and he hates Christians and vegans. He told me "It may not work but at least it happened" then I called him immature then he stopped replying and I calmed down a little bit then genuinely thanked him for making me feel good about myself. The friend that told me about the girl said that he asked if they were together and my ex said "Yes and no." He blocked me on Instagram and went private but not Skype so I could text him if I wished. Today I told myself I wouldn't text him until the end of this week and I accidentally texted him today then apologized saying I meant to send it to someone else. At this point, I really want him back because I know we can wait until we go to the same school. However, I don't know how to get him back. I know he loves me, and I love him too. Please help.

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My bf and I started talking again awhile ago, it was mostly friendly for awhile but now I relize how much I want him back. He started complimenting me again and said he found some pictures from the beach and told me how great I looked in a bikini.......one problem......he has a girlfriend. He knows how much i hate her. I keep on flirting, but waiting is killing me! what should I do?!

First of all as probably I am too boring, nerd, geek, not easy to handle I had no exs. I only have a 9 years long courtship and a married life of 11 months and still going with the same person. But I had several break ups with him and that never lasted more than three weeks. We once had fight over Brazil and Argentina soccer teams leading to break up which lasted for 22 days and that was maximum silence between us. Sometimes we broke up to spice up the relation! Today we laugh at those moments but we really treasure them. I don't know why I have writing this but my heart wanted to share this. Thanks for the post.

Hey sheila I had a question about the three weeks without talking to him..well I really like this guy and I'm concerned about what I should say when cday comes because the last time we talked we had a really bad argumentand he basically said he'd talk to me again when he isn't mag at me anymore. what should I say on cday??

Thanks for posting this. I would like to be honest that my love story turns to be pathetic. Since I broke up and till now, I still love him the way that I first committed with him. I must say that probably I could practise this tips and getting my ex back for the long run. I wish I could have an happy ending then. Hopefully. Thanks so much sheila.