Do you feel like you’ve been single forever? Do you feel like you scroll through social media and find yourself sad and envious of those in relationships, engaged, getting married, etc. and you feel stagnate in life? If you ever sit and think I want a boyfriend, you've come to the right place. Here are my top ten tips on how to get a boyfriend...
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1. Remember That Being Single is Okay
If you are frantically waiting for that special someone, you might be coming across as desperate and that is instantly off-putting to guys. Take some time to enjoy yourself, and remember why you are so amazing. If you love yourself you make it much easier for others to love you too.
2. Think about Who You Want
Now you know who you are, think about what you want. Write down what is really important out of a mate and what can be negotiated. This will stop you settling for anything, and ensure that you look for people who you could actually have a future with!
3. Spread Your Wings!
Join a club that you love, get involved in a sport, learn a new skill. Don’t join just because you expect to meet people, join to enjoy yourself, boost your confidence, and act as a distraction while you are waiting for Mr. Right!
4. Be Confident
Been checking out that guy for a while? Go and introduce yourself. No other way to stop saying I want a boyfriend than just go out and get one. It might be scary, but you’ll demonstrate confidence and self reliance which are both very attractive qualities!
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5. Get to Know Them
Before you fall in love with every guy you meet, talk to them and see if they match your list. Look for similarities and differences and see how you get on together. Just because he matches your list verbatim doesn't mean the chemistry is there. It’s important that you know the man himself so you know whether or not you need to readjust your list.
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6. Make Friends
The best relationships stem from friendships, so take your time and get to know him as a friend. You can't sit around saying I want a boyfriend but not give yourself any opportunities to meet a boyfriend-even as a friend first. As well as being the perfect base, it also means you’ll be pre-warned about any bad habits, and you’re likely to know about his past relationships.
7. Make Him Feel Comfortable
It can be a nerve racking job asking a girl out, so make him feel comfortable around you. Maybe he's afraid of rejection; if you make him comfortable he'll be able to make a move. Even if nothing happens, you’ll have an amazing guy friend out of it and guy friends are the best!
8. Read the Signs
Think about whether he likes you too. Does he compliment you a lot, spend lots of time with you, flirt occasionally? Or is he really treating you like a best friend? Reading the signs can save you the heartache of un-returned love. Don't make up signs just because you want a boyfriend, make sure the signs are actually there.
9. Be an Amazing Girl!
By being his friend, you risk letting him see your bad points. Counter this by showing him how pretty, bubbly, intelligent and happy you are. Show him who you really are. These positives will surely outweigh the negatives. Double bonus if you can hang out with his guy friends too and they think you're cool.
10. Ask Him out!
If he’s showing all the signs, and you’re feeling it too, then ask him out! Don’t leave it up to him, be a modern girl and take it in your own hands. At least that way you know where you stand and you don't have to spend your time pining over him if he's not interested.
Have you got tips to save yourself from the I want a boyfriend thoughts? Please share with me!
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Madison: ok so theres this guy and iv tryed bein my self and iv tryed being playfull and he nows i like him and i have tryed to do every thing there is to do iv defntly waghted, for 3 mounths, and every time i just try to move on cuse i know he dosnt like me he says that he was ganna ask me out but i moved on so just foget it so then i go back to him and after that all happend 2 times i tryed not to move on and iv done relly good so far and all his friends say that hes ganna ask me out the next day and the next day comes and nothing and now i relly think i want to move on but im skared hes ganna ask me out or say he was going to and then ill just go right back to the beggening i just dont know wat to do ... HELP PLZ
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Beth: I have a guy friend. He and I got in an awkward situation and now we both know we like each other. We text each other and have long conversations and flirt. THe second we see each other in person, I get nervous, he'll be quiet, and we can't talk to each other. Any advice?
nina: so ive liked this guy for a while now and were really good friends and he talks to me alot and if im trying to fix my hair in a window or something then he’ll come over and mess it all up and stuff and ive toled him i like him but he dident really say anything to it and i want to ask him out but i have a really strong feeling hes gonna say no! and it will be my first time and i dont have the self confidence to handle that sort of stuff! :/ and im really worried cus his bestfriend likes me but i dont want to hurt his feelings or anything. and when my friends have tried to ask him out for me he will always say i dont know but i dont want to hurt her feelings! os please help me with what i need to do!???
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Koga: Hey there, I just sorta got a crush on a kid that rides my bus. He talks to me, leans in when we talk, and i catch him looking at me when I'm turned around. On the other hand, i really liked the other guy who was funny but had a bit too big ego. I think my new crush is a lot nicer. Should I forget about the other and see what happens with the new crush? It would really be nice if you replied because they're is a dance coming up! Thanks
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