By Bettina Winder
Have you ever noticed that men seem more attracted to stupid girls? You see them approaching the ditsy women with some oh-so-stupid pick-up line like, “If I told you, you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me”?
The reason these girls get hit on, is not necessarily because they are drop-dead gorgeous. No, it is because they have a distinct deer-in-headlights look in their eyes that tells the men that they are approachable, coach-able, and stupid enough to fall for their lame pick-up lines, go home with them and allow the “man” to do all the talking and make all the rules. You see, these “men” (and I use the term lightly), actually prefer stupid girls over smart girls because they get to hold all of the cards in the relationship and they can get away with a lot more shit, because their stupid girlfriend, wife, whatever, will be none the wiser to his bull-shit.
A smart girl takes work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage to handle. Smart girls are not for whimpering cowards or men who are used to getting things handed to them on a silver platter. But in the end, the smart girls will add more to the relationship and to the intellectual and emotional growth of their partner than any stupid girl ever could. If you want a servant, a lap-dog, a trophy-wife, then by all means, “men”; pick up a stupid girl at a bar near you. If you want a soul-mate, a goddess, a teacher and a partner, then for God’s sake, have the initiative to pick a smart girl!
sorry to intrude on this blog for “woman” talk. but you gals can use a male opinion as well =P. From my experiences, Smart girls also have their own negatives side, with the tendency to be overzealous at times. the fact is “most” not all guys aren’t looking for anything that’s going to be too much of a challenge. many “smart” woman out there like to have their believe that its their way or the highway; but a relationships all about compromise so best try to balance it out a little. Remember no ones superior, keep an eye on your man but don’t strap up those combat boots. *all for smart woman!*
Coming from someone most would deem smart (researcher with over a 135 IQ), you are correct.
Men are intimidated by smart women because they can never aspire to be us. They want to dominate and destroy us because they are threatened.
Losers - all of them, and not worth the time….
Lynnie:
I have no desire to dominate and destroy you. In fact, I hope to
NEVER meet you. Ego much?
Wow do I feel sorry for you.
I agree on this for the most part. Not all men are this way, but a lot of them. I consider myself to be smart and attractive but I’m not the ditzy bleach blonde most guys prefer. I’ve come to find out that a lot of men are threatened by smart women because they prefer to have all the power and cannot do that with a smart independent woman who knows how to take care of herself. I don’t think most men are looking for a “real partner” but someone who will ahere to their greedy needs.
Yikes! “…work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage… Damn, it’s probably safer to work with the freaking Ebola virus. No, no, no, you have it all wrong. Men like hooking up with what you call stupid women because they are precisely NOT about hard work and requiring courage. It is easy, comfortable and without pressure. The ego-fueled (Lynnie?) superiority junkies are just a complete pain in the butt. No one, male or female, who feels like their ass is so precious that it should take… how does it go… “work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage… to “handle” them, frankly, needs help, possibly in a chemical, psychoactive form. I don’t particularly like stupid women. Stupid is not attractive. But, then, neither is the egomaniacal princess who will only deign to grace you with her company after the appropriate acts of male contrition have been performed. Come on, it’s about mutual respect and understanding. Really, it is just that simple folks. And it works both ways. The pretty boy who is so perfect, bright and desirable that he exacts a ‘price of admission’ is “pretty” to the woman who truly understands the simplicity of the formula only in the sense of being “pretty” annoying.
Let me sum it up for you. Stupid girls are fun and have the ability to shut up, smart girls are not only mostly fat and ugly they also go on sanctimonious tirades every time you’re trying to make a joke. You smart girls are annoying and ugly, stupid females are cute and worthwhile to have around. The denial in this thread is apparent, and the author feels jealous over the fact that she does not get male attention. All I can recommend is learning the ability known as “Shut Up” and fake tits. It might work out.
Wow, Khalil, you sure are one sexist bastard. It takes someone quite close-minded to not only say but believe the bullshit you are pushing there buddy. What kind of simple-minded fool thinks that all smart women are “fat” and “ugly”. No wonder you enjoy women that “have the ability to shut up” because anyone with a brain stem would never let you open your mouth.
Wow, ya know, I never thought eugenics sounded like a good idea. However, Khalil’s lack of intelligence provides some excellent support for the practice.
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i would die for a smart chick not a bossy chick who thinks thats shes smart but some one that would skool me
Maybe these guys are not looking for long term romance. Oh by the way, the girl in the photo……..Hottie!!!!!