By Bettina Winder
Have you ever noticed that men seem more attracted to stupid girls? You see them approaching the ditsy women with some oh-so-stupid pick-up line like, “If I told you, you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me”?
The reason these girls get hit on, is not necessarily because they are drop-dead gorgeous. No, it is because they have a distinct deer-in-headlights look in their eyes that tells the men that they are approachable, coach-able, and stupid enough to fall for their lame pick-up lines, go home with them and allow the “man” to do all the talking and make all the rules. You see, these “men” (and I use the term lightly), actually prefer stupid girls over smart girls because they get to hold all of the cards in the relationship and they can get away with a lot more shit, because their stupid girlfriend, wife, whatever, will be none the wiser to his bull-shit.
A smart girl takes work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage to handle. Smart girls are not for whimpering cowards or men who are used to getting things handed to them on a silver platter. But in the end, the smart girls will add more to the relationship and to the intellectual and emotional growth of their partner than any stupid girl ever could. If you want a servant, a lap-dog, a trophy-wife, then by all means, “men”; pick up a stupid girl at a bar near you. If you want a soul-mate, a goddess, a teacher and a partner, then for God’s sake, have the initiative to pick a smart girl!
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sorry to intrude on this blog for “woman” talk. but you gals can use a male opinion as well =P. From my experiences, Smart girls also have their own negatives side, with the tendency to be overzealous at times. the fact is “most” not all guys aren’t looking for anything that’s going to be too much of a challenge. many “smart” woman out there like to have their believe that its their way or the highway; but a relationships all about compromise so best try to balance it out a little. Remember no ones superior, keep an eye on your man but don’t strap up those combat boots. *all for smart woman!*