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I Shop Like A Celebrity — Vintage Clothing Ephiphany

Don’t celebrities who shop in vintage clothing stores make it sound so cool?

I hate it. I am a department store gal.

Why do I sound like such a snob? Aside from the fact that most of these shops are messy and chaotic, the biggest shopping challenge I face is my size. (Plus I do like my Saks)

I’m 5′2″, 100lbs, and I never find anything in my size that doesn’t look as if some designer had been on hallucinogens — or my grandmother’s house dress somehow ended up in the 2 for $ $5.00 bin.

But today is a celebration…I may never shop retail again (as if…) but it’s a start. I am so excited had to share my new treasures with you:

  • 2 Cashmere Moschino sweaters for under $100 — Cashmere and never worn!
  • Adrienne Vitadinni wrap sweater: $29 — In chocolate brown…finally the solution to my ill-advised pinkish-colored jeans.
  • Micheal Stars long sleeve tee $ 9.00 — perfect teal color…and perfect under a blazer.
  • Coach credit leather card holder with front snap — $20!!

Isn’t that fabulous?

But here’s the product I am sooo excited about. I love teeny cosmetic samples…love, love, love them.

If you’ve ever been in a cab, on your way to a meeting, but your hands are lobster-y…a body lotion sample in your purse is your best friend.

I received several mini body lotion packets from Thymes — in the Green Tea formula.

I have got to tell you…the fragrance is dreamy…but the affects of the cream on your skin is amazing…I put a little on my neck and the dryness and little lines became invisible!

I was so transformed today, I’m thinking even my colleagues, Kelly and Karen, at Thrifty Mommy would be proud of my value-minded shopping adventure.

Hey…it’s Friday…a little consumer therapy is in order and your local vintage shop will appreciate your business.

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Honk If You Think Google Is Neat-O — Fortune’s No. 1

Consider these key paragraphs in Fortune Magazine’s infamous — The 100 Best Companies To Work For Issue:

At Google it always comes back to the food. Google runs 11 free gourmet cafeterias at its Mountain View, Calif., headquarters, and offers all its employees free gourmet meals.

In addition to its cafés, Google has snack rooms which contain various cereals, candy, nuts, yogurt, carrots, fresh fruit and other snacks, and dozens of different drinks including soda and make-your-own cappuccino.

Aside from the food, (big woop sauteed Sea Bass) consider some of Google’s now epic perks:

  • Unlimited sick days
  • Five on-sight doctors (free)
  • TGIF Parties
  • Scooters
  • $ 5,000 subsidy to buy a hybrid car
  • Free on site washers and dryers (free detergent)
  • You can bring your dog to work, you can play pool, you can play video games, you can climb a rock wall…oh god I can’t take it!

Would these benefites make you a happy employee…would you ever leave the HQ building…are you now considering working for Google?

Not so fast amigos…there are several unconventional do’s and don’ts during the interview process, such as:

  • Do stress your diverse interests…narrow interests or skills are a turn-off at Google — and bungee jumping is passe.
  • Do have more than a 3.7 gpa…or you’ll have to explain that B you got in geology.
  • Do be prepared to write software code during your interview.
  • Don’t talk about money…you’re not there to supposedly get rich.
  • Don’t talk about the competition…they just don’t care. (would you?)

I realize the world owes a lot to Google…but here are a couple of my own observations about America’s #1 company:

  • Playtime never is never over, no matter how old you get.
  • The world is made up of 2 kinds of people: 28-year-old software-coding maniacs prodigies — and then us.
  • Coders are this century’s advertising executives
  • Advertising execs are geeks. (Hear that Donny Deutsch–Mr. Big Idea?)

But…If there all such geniuses over there…why do they even have woobies offices…

…why don’t they all work from home in their pj’s?? (Or does Google offer free pjs?)

THAT attitude would not have gotten me a job at Google.

That’s their H.R. prowess…employees are actually kidnapped….they never go home…but the stock is through the roof and their all stinking rich.

Some text compiled from Fortune Magazine.

Image: Flickr.com

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Is Cooking The Secret To A Good Marriage?

We’ve been married for more than 20 years — a veritable “long and winding road”, and for some reason lately, I’ve thinking about all of the little things in our relationship that make our little world so special.

When we were newlyweds, I had it in my head that the wife is supposed to know how to cook for her husband…but I didn’t. I didn’t even know how to make coffee — seriously.

I remember the first meal I’d ever made him…again, thinking this is what men wanted, I made pot roast.

To me, pot roast meant that you bought a hunk of meat, put it in a pot of water, let it boil forever and then serve with potatoes and carrots.

This thing came out looking like a giant grey basketball.

Well, this is when I began to know how lovely my husband is. I served him and he proceeded to eat every morsel. I’m sure it was disgusting…but he said it was delicious.

As time went by, I taught myself how to cook.

I learned how to master the art of pizza dough-making, I practiced and practiced how to make fine spaghetti sauce…I think I even once attempted the recipe for New York’s famous Magnolia Bakery cupcake.

Recently, I decided to make a pot of chili…because I’d never done it…doesn’t chili always look so good on the Food Network?

Anyway…it came out extreeeemly hot…so hot that you really couldn’t enjoy it. Well, he said he loved it.

I was ready to toss the whole thing, but he pleaded for me not to…”you can make chili dogs” he sweetly said.

He’s been doing stuff like that for 20 years. And I guess sometimes it’s these little, gestures of admiration and respect that are among the things that have held us together.

p.s. He is in charge of coffee.

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Apple Introduces iPhone

I thought the holidays were over after all of the hoopla around our new Apple iMac — joint Christmas present.

But no.

Today, from the world’s largest Apple-phile I know, I received many, many e-mails about the announcement of Apple’s new and very chic iPhone and soon to follow the long- awaited (in our house) Apple, freakin’ TV.

I’m glad all the technology in our house is coming together.

But, HEY Dearie!! — while the living room walls fall apart around us…when on earth are they going to come out with the iSofa, the iDrapes and the iNewFloor…that I’ve been begging for? .

Images from apple.com

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Contributing To Heart Disease Awareness Is Haute Stuff

If one of your goals in the upcoming year is to give more of your time and, possibly, money to charitable groups — that’s just fabulous.

Here’s a fun and fashionable way to donate to Heart Disease Awareness: SHOP!

There are many fashion companies that support heart disease by offering donations to organizations such as American Heart Association and National Coalition For Women With Heart Disease.

Here are just a few — look at all of the cute things you can get, while showing the kindness in your heart:

Silk Dress from Miostile: 30% of sales benefits American Heart Association.

Suede Pleated Flats from Matt Bernson: 30% of sales benefits National Coalition for Women with Heart Disease.

Pomegranate Bath Salt, from k. hall designs: 50% of sales benefits American Heart Association.

And for up-to-the-minute information on heart health, visit Hsien — at A Hearty Life.

Products and resources collected from Lucky Magazine.

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Should You Decorate Your Home For Your Labrador?

Those of you who have dogs, understand how tedious it can be to keep the house hair-free…and also, whoever invented the Swiffer is a genius. (It’s really just a fancy paper towel, right?)

My life, especially my business, revolves around my preposterous and boundless love for my Chocolate Labrador Retriever, Trotter.

Trotter is a lovely dog, although, perhaps just as nuts as John Grogan’s willful Yellow Lab, Marcy.

But still, life without Trotter, just wouldn’t be chocolate-y enough for me!

However, when it comes to home decorating…I have had to figure out how the color brown or brown-compatible fits into the scheme of EVERY room — from carpets to drapery, to throws, and especially bedding.

Bedding is a special challenge — which thwarts my creativity every time I visit K-mart.

Hey Martha, are you listening? You’ve got to start coming up with some color palettes that are more suited to homes in which dogs feel that the owners’ bed is their bed.

There just aren’t enough shades of chocolate out there to add interest and to allow me to change the sheets as many times as the dust-mite police recommend.

Perhaps next time around, it will have to be a Yellow Lab…I’m thinking the color options are wider…or, I could become a better trainer.

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Cold Remedies And Keira Knightly

I promise I’ll stop whining about how sick I’ve been lately…but I think now I’m becoming a little wacko.

Sometimes, for me, a very bad cold can take on some characteristics of depression…so there’s a few things I try to avoid thinking about when I’m sick as I have been, since New Year’s eve:

  1. I try not to worry about work so much.
  2. I try to shut off my mental DVD that would normally have me revisiting my crazy up-bringing, several awful career faux pas, and well, just my overall incompetence.
  3. I try not to look in the mirror too much because…it’s just, well you know what you look like when you’re sick.

But here’s something I’ve not thought about before…you should not watch beautiful movie stars when you’re in this condition.

I happened to have caught Pride and Predjudice…the remake with Keira Knightly.

This girl is so astonishingly beautiful, it became tedious to watch her. She is luminous, mysterious-looking…she’s just one of those stars that you can’t not look at while she’s in a scene.

Julia Roberts used to be my pick for most beautiful star…but she can sometimes take on that “good light/bad light” thing (Anyone familiar with the Seinfeld show?).

Of course, after the movie, I ended up staring at myself in the mirror…wishing I lived in Jane Austin’s England.

I told you, I’ve become totally bonkers with this cold.

Tonight I think maybe I’ll just read. I’m thinking something Sex and the City-ish.

p.s. Whatshername, Apple’s mother, in Emma can have a similar effect on me.

Image: Universal Studios

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Eating Well In The New Year.

If I were a smart blogger, I would have created a survey which would help determine the eating habits of small home business owners.

However, it would probably depress me…because, I think most of us in this category don’t eat as well as we should.

I know I don’t — which is weird because I’m kind of a self-proclaimed foodie.

I’m hoping in the year ahead, I change several of my bad habits — in the mean time, I thought I would give you a glimpse of how this small business owner gets, deals with meals during the working week:

  • Breakfast: Tea
  • Morning snack: Handful of Juju Bees (the thinking woman’s candy).
  • Mid-morning snack: Handful of Wheat Thins
  • Lunch: Several pieces of cheddar cheese.
  • Afternoon snack: Couple of olives.
  • Pre-dinner snack: Stand at counter, scarf down left-over take out food.
  • Dinner: Tomato salad, beer?
  • Post dinner snack: Doritos
  • Post, post dinner snack, while preparing the morning’s plans: Twizzler’s.

I don’t know how many calories that is, but I know it’s not enough…and I’m sure JuJu Bees are not a food group.

Like many challenges that face the small business owner, taking good care of themselves is high on the list.

So in 2007, I’m going to at least try to schedule health-oriented mealtimes…at the table!

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Is Fear Hiding Your Successful Self?

While wandering around the great ocean of blogs known as My Blog Log, I stumbled upon a small business site on which resided an article by the Gallup Management Jornal.

Here is the headline text that so harshly welcomed me to 2007:

Yikes!
Here is a portion of the excerpt that had me examining my strengths and weaknesses for days: (Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton)

  • You may be reluctant to investigate your strengths quite simply because you don’t believe that your true self is much to write home about. Whatever the label — a feeling of inadequacy or “imposter syndrome” or plain old insecurity — the symptoms are familiar. Despite your achievements, you wonder whether you are as talented as everyone thinks you are. You suspect that luck and circumstance, not your strengths, might explain much of your success. The anxious little voice in your ear whispers, “When will you be found out?” and, against your better judgment, you listen.
  • In part this explains why, when asked to describe their strengths, people rarely refer to their natural talents. Instead, they talk about external things that they have gathered during their life, such as certificates and diplomas, experiences and awards. Here is the “proof” that they have improved themselves, that they have acquired something valuable to offer.

I am so guilty of this self-sabotaging behavior (to borrow a worn out phrase)…when asked what my strengths are, I just sit there and stare into space.

On the other hand, I know I must have strengths, otherwise, how could The Pet Set have been conceived and executed?

For some reason, at least for me, I am quite nimble at rattling off my weaknesses…otherwise I’d have been on the Oprah show by now and the Pet Set would have been selected as one of her favorites!

I’ve read many self-help/coaching books throughout my adult life…I think this book may actually help guide me toward identifying and leveraging my strengths.

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Go Ahead, Take Another Day Off.

The U.S. financial markets and all federal businesses were closed today, as a national day of respect and mourning for the late President Ford.

That means is if you are a financial trader, a postal worker, an FBI agent, a cook in the White House or any other GOVERNMENT employee, you legitimately got the day off.

My husband works at a gigantic financial services company, here in NYC. His department manages very sophisticated and complex investment instruments.

Some of the people in his group are traders…but many are not.

So when a a young — non-trading — woman, who incidentally, had JUST returned from her two-week Hawaiian honeymoon, asked hubby “…what are we going to do about Tuesday, are we off?”

He nearly lost his stale bagel and schmear…but politely said, “we have work to do.” She did not take it gracefully.

What bothered me about the story was that this person was merely looking to take advantage of what appeared to her a freebie vacation day

The fact that the day had some national meaning escaped her.

But that isn’t even the point…if your boss tells you that you have to come in to work…just do it.

My hubby is such a polite and compassionate boss.  Me. not so much…if this person had whined like that to me, I would have sternly said…”uh…a reminder, you’re not a trader and we’re working on Tuesday”.

What this person displayed was disrespect to her boss, and a very simplistic and juvenile approach to her position and responsibilities. (This behavior is part of an ongoing work-ethic pattern.)

Also, I know that everyone is in there own little orb…but honestly…some of us could stand to pay a little more attention to what’s going on in the world.

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