You look over at your partner and say “I love you” and they just stare at you like you just told them that the world is about to end. The stutter amongst what they are trying to tell you while your face is turning red. You start to feel the embarrassment come over you, your tongue gets twisted and your chest tightens as you are fighting the tears. Saying “I love you” to the love of your life when the time is not right can ruin everything that was in store for you. The right time to say I love you is…
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12. When He/She Understands
No matter what, does your partner always try to see your side of things? When he/she sees you upset and crying about something, do they try to understand and calm you down to make you feel better. This is a sign that they love you.
11. They Show You
Some people, especially men have trouble expressing their feelings with words. So, sometimes, you just have to watch the way they act around you. Understanding you and taking you to dinner because you have had a long day is a sure sign.
10. They Listen
When you talk, do they listen to you? Do they always look interested in what you have to say? Or do they have the television going while you are trying to listen? If they listen to what you have to say and always look interested in you, then it may be good timing.
9. They’re Always Happy around You
Do they smile? Laugh? Do they get excited when you are around and would rather spend time with you over their friends? Then this is a good sign that they love you too.
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8. Compliments
Whenever you change something about your appearance, do they notice and compliment you? Do they tell you how good you look, even when they catch you at 4am after waking up?
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7. Baby You when You’re Sick
Do they care that you are ill and goes out of their way to baby you? If the answer is yes, then we’re pretty sure you have something good going for you.
6. The Family and Friends like You
If the circle of friends like you, then this is a good sign. You can usually tell how a person feels from the way the circle of friends and family treat you.
5. They Appreciate You
If they tell you how proud they are of the achievements you have made and brags about you to the friends and family, then this is a lovely signal. It is a sign of deep appreciation of you.
4. Your Opinion Counts
Asking your opinion and advice is wonderful news. This means he or she cares about what you think and obviously plans on having you around for awhile.
3. They Are Interested in What You Want Too
You both are sitting down watching television and you would like to watch House while he wants to Watch the gaming channel. If they let you watch your show without grudging over it, then it is because they want you to be happy. If they sit through that show with you, then they deserve to have some extra points!
2. They Make You Feel Special
Do they bring you flowers and show that they really care about you? If so, then this one sounds like a keeper.
1. When He/She Says I Love You
The right time to say I love you is definitely when they speak those three words before you!
Finding the right time to say I love you can be tough, but sometimes, you can’t fight back your feelings and it just pops out of your mouth. If this happens, then it is your heart telling you that it is time to say it and you should listen to that heart. Have you ever been let down after you spoke those three words?
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Austin: I been dating this girl for 1 month and 6 days and i love everything about her just everything. and i really do love her but me and her are taking things slow when is a good time to tell her that i love her and talk to her about that?
mary: Hi I've been dating a guy for 3months now I did told him that I love him and he said that to but my problem is he's still dating someone.
Tyler: I'm a 19 year old guy here with a girlfriend in a pretty complex situation, she has five kids(7,9,10,11,13), and is married (they have been separated for about 2 1/2 years, her and the kids live together, the husband actually has a separate girlfriend, and apartment) The only reason they're not divorced is because of financial reasons... I've been dating her for about 4 months, and I love her and her children, but I'm so afraid that she will reject me that whenever I get a chance to say these words for the first time, I just can't do it, I've read your article 3 times so far, and I've gotta say you're pretty thorough. I've been cheated on by almost all of my previous girlfriends, and my whole family hates me... If I mess this up, I have nothing left, and I really don't think I'd be able to handle that rejection, especially with the recent history I've had. You got anything for me?
Cassandra: hi everyone, I feel like this is the first time that I am really coming out with my feelings about my boyfriend so bear with me. ive been in relationships in the past but the only one ive ever fallen for was my first boyfriend and I thought maybe that was just because he was my first boyfriend... until now. now I am dating this guy for 4 1/2 months and I told him during an argument that this is all stressful because I am falling for him or maybe already fell for him, im not sure, and he admitted that I liked him more than he liked me. that was about a month and a half ago, but within the past week and a half he has been telling me that he likes me more than I like him. does this mean he loves me? im so confused... I thought girls were supposed to be the confusing ones.
Anonymous: i really want to hear him say he loves me we have been dating for almost 5 months i had a problem that i need to go to the hospital and called him i ended up being ok but he was really worried i could tell he cares but its been hard because i have been hurt a lot of times and i found a good guy i don't want to loose him if i said it but he said it in a way and i pretended that i didn't hear it and then 2 hours later i asked him did he say he loved me he said yes and then said not like that but my feelings are strong and growing i don't know what to do
Amy: I find usually the men say say I love you first. It's weird, but in my experience, they beat me to the line first! rotfl
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