You look over at your partner and say “I love you” and they just stare at you like you just told them that the world is about to end. The stutter amongst what they are trying to tell you while your face is turning red. You start to feel the embarrassment come over you, your tongue gets twisted and your chest tightens as you are fighting the tears. Saying “I love you” to the love of your life when the time is not right can ruin everything that was in store for you. The right time to say I love you is…
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12. When He/She Understands
No matter what, does your partner always try to see your side of things? When he/she sees you upset and crying about something, do they try to understand and calm you down to make you feel better. This is a sign that they love you.
11. They Show You
Some people, especially men have trouble expressing their feelings with words. So, sometimes, you just have to watch the way they act around you. Understanding you and taking you to dinner because you have had a long day is a sure sign.
10. They Listen
When you talk, do they listen to you? Do they always look interested in what you have to say? Or do they have the television going while you are trying to listen? If they listen to what you have to say and always look interested in you, then it may be good timing.
9. They’re Always Happy around You
Do they smile? Laugh? Do they get excited when you are around and would rather spend time with you over their friends? Then this is a good sign that they love you too.
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8. Compliments
Whenever you change something about your appearance, do they notice and compliment you? Do they tell you how good you look, even when they catch you at 4am after waking up?
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7. Baby You when You’re Sick
Do they care that you are ill and goes out of their way to baby you? If the answer is yes, then we’re pretty sure you have something good going for you.
6. The Family and Friends like You
If the circle of friends like you, then this is a good sign. You can usually tell how a person feels from the way the circle of friends and family treat you.
5. They Appreciate You
If they tell you how proud they are of the achievements you have made and brags about you to the friends and family, then this is a lovely signal. It is a sign of deep appreciation of you.
4. Your Opinion Counts
Asking your opinion and advice is wonderful news. This means he or she cares about what you think and obviously plans on having you around for awhile.
3. They Are Interested in What You Want Too
You both are sitting down watching television and you would like to watch House while he wants to Watch the gaming channel. If they let you watch your show without grudging over it, then it is because they want you to be happy. If they sit through that show with you, then they deserve to have some extra points!
2. They Make You Feel Special
Do they bring you flowers and show that they really care about you? If so, then this one sounds like a keeper.
1. When He/She Says I Love You
The right time to say I love you is definitely when they speak those three words before you!
Finding the right time to say I love you can be tough, but sometimes, you can’t fight back your feelings and it just pops out of your mouth. If this happens, then it is your heart telling you that it is time to say it and you should listen to that heart. Have you ever been let down after you spoke those three words?
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karthuk: I know this girl for over three months. We ve been speakin to eachother almost every day since then trying to understand . I am so sure that i am in love with this girl. We understand eachother and believe to be and act mature and sensible too. We ve both been victims of breakups on a previous relationship . So we both are also equally afraid to get into one soon after it.But still I recently let her know that i love her for which she responded saying that she feels it may just be some sort of attraction or fondness i have got towards her. And also stated that she may not be in a position to focus on any serious relationship right now and asked me not to expect the same from her. I am uncertain about this whole situation please advise .. I need your help for some clarity over this matter !
Danielle: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months now. Strong friendship before hand and everything and my absolutely in love with him. He hints at saying the L word but i dont know if its really the right time to fully come out and say it. What do i do?
emma: I want to say I love you to my boyfriend because it's the first time I've felt so..... in love but I'm scared to say it in case he doesn't love me back
mary: Hi I've been dating a guy for 3months now I did told him that I love him and he said that to but my problem is he's still dating someone.
Djeef: I've been seeing this wonderful girl for 3 months now going to 4 and honestly am in love with her I mean really in love I can't go on a day withought thinking about her I do all the stuff you've put up and I think she knows that I love her and she's waiting for me to say it I can see it in her eyes, am so confused should I just tell her?
Alena: Hi...Austin....i wish you best of luck...n dn't waste ur time.., go n tell her...
Myra: All actions speak the words, "I love you and your family" However, I am scared shitless to say anything. I have been happier and more carefree in the last 6 months than I have been in years. I don't know how to express that without knowing what the response is going to be! I am consused and lost. I want to tell him how I feel right away, but I am afraid I might lose him over that......But this man is wondrful and I couldn't ask for a better one!!!!!!
Amy: I find usually the men say say I love you first. It's weird, but in my experience, they beat me to the line first! rotfl
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