Why "Men" Prefer Stupid Girls ...

Any woman of at least average looks can go into a bar on any night of the week and find someone to go home with. I've even seen some beastly looking women somehow manage to get picked up. If you're one of the ones who goes out night after night and are still sitting there when the bartender calls for last orders and can't figure out why, then maybe you should look inside yourself for a reason why men don't want to approach you instead of putting the blame on them.

I wonder why you used that picture for this article... as a kinda smart surfergirl I wonder if you just hate not getting attention. Also, are you biased against blondes? That's not smart, it *is* stupid and bigoted.

I don't totally agree with the above comments. Although I understand the left-brain and right brain dichotomy and preference some might have I don't think it is that simple. I also don't believe we can simply play 'stupid' or simulating youth. I tend to be a right brainer when in social environment although I tend to be successful in real life but I don't take myself too seriously in life. When I am socializing men tend to be attracted to me because I am spontaneous, smiley and friendly to people. But when we start having a 'normal' (which I call an approach) conversation where we discuss simple things like work, life, etc I am being told I am a clever women and it feels like they see it as a threat. There is just something off-putting to most men about a women who knows what she wants and is successful at work. Not all men are like this and most of the ones I would have a relationship with value my intelligence and my determination in life. But then again the gender roles change and I become the 'man' in the relationship and the man being the 'woman', i.e. moody, sensitive, reliant, etc (stereotyped women). Although I instinctively like being the woman... That leaves women in my generation with not much option and I'm not sure whether that's just our generation (I'm thirty) and whether the next one will be able to overcome this problem?

Ladies, no matter how smart you are if you make yourself seem unapproachable then you will not be approached. No matter how stupid you are, if you make yourself approachable then you will get attention. A woman rendering herslf approachable and being friendly and outgoing does not neccessarily indicate stupidity. It is highly insulting to me as man to be told that I am shallow if I'm not attracted to the unapproachable introverted ladies that she says I ought to be attracted to or that I use rediculous pick-up lines to attract them, which I don't. The fact is that I am shy and I have difficulty breaking the ice. It's easier for me to approach a girl who is friendlier and more ready to smile and make conversation so naturally I go for them. If she happens to be stupid well, that's just life. And if the woman who wrote this highly judgmental and close minded article thinks that she can tell me what I am to be attracted to, then it can only be fair if I demand the same of her.

American men want stupid women , this is because they are obsessed with power and one upping women and everyone. When you see the carnage American men leave behind in other countries, this tells you the mindset of these men, the conquer and divide mentality. They do not view women as sexual beings , women are either " easy " or " rigid " , one night material or marriage In fact these men are so stupid, they actually view women as exploitable not actually to be able to comprehend women as having any sexuality , women are for their use so they think How do they not know the women may be doing the same to them A woman is either stupid "easy" or rigid " wife I have avoided American men my entire life for this very reason

Let me sum it up for you. Stupid girls are fun and have the ability to shut up, smart girls are not only mostly fat and ugly they also go on sanctimonious tirades every time you're trying to make a joke. You smart girls are annoying and ugly, stupid females are cute and worthwhile to have around. The denial in this thread is apparent, and the author feels jealous over the fact that she does not get male attention. All I can recommend is learning the ability known as "Shut Up" and fake tits. It might work out.