Why Men Prefer Stupid Girls ...

Why Men Prefer Stupid Girls ...
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**By Bettina Winder **

Have you ever noticed that men seem more attracted to stupid girls? You see them approaching the ditsy women with some oh-so-stupid pick-up line like, "If I told you, you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me"?

The reason these girls get hit on, is not necessarily because they are drop-dead gorgeous. No, it is because they have a distinct deer-in-headlights look in their eyes that tells the men that they are approachable, coach-able, and stupid enough to fall for their lame pick-up lines, go home with them and allow the “man” to do all the talking and make all the rules. You see, these "men" (and I use the term lightly), actually prefer stupid girls over smart girls because they get to hold all of the cards in the relationship and they can get away with a lot more shit, because their stupid girlfriend, wife, whatever, will be none the wiser to his bull-shit.

A smart girl takes work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage to handle. Smart girls are not for whimpering cowards or men who are used to getting things handed to them on a silver platter. But in the end, the smart girls will add more to the relationship and to the intellectual and emotional growth of their partner than any stupid girl ever could. If you want a servant, a lap-dog, a trophy-wife, then by all means, "men"; pick up a stupid girl at a bar near you. If you want a soul-mate, a goddess, a teacher and a partner, then for God’s sake, have the initiative to pick a smart girl!

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I don't think all men like unintelligent girls. I am very smart and I like very smart women. The last person I was attracted to had an IQ of about 160 and had a masters degree in mathematics and a degree in music. In some ways she was smarter than me, and in some ways not. As far as I was concerned she was a perfect match with the intelligence level I prefer in a partner. Unfortunately for me, she moved 2000 miles away for a new job only a few weeks after I met her.

I don't totally agree with the above comments. Although I understand the left-brain and right brain dichotomy and preference some might have I don't think it is that simple. I also don't believe we can simply play 'stupid' or simulating youth. I tend to be a right brainer when in social environment although I tend to be successful in real life but I don't take myself too seriously in life. When I am socializing men tend to be attracted to me because I am spontaneous, smiley and friendly to people. But when we start having a 'normal' (which I call an approach) conversation where we discuss simple things like work, life, etc I am being told I am a clever women and it feels like they see it as a threat. There is just something off-putting to most men about a women who knows what she wants and is successful at work. Not all men are like this and most of the ones I would have a relationship with value my intelligence and my determination in life. But then again the gender roles change and I become the 'man' in the relationship and the man being the 'woman', i.e. moody, sensitive, reliant, etc (stereotyped women). Although I instinctively like being the woman... That leaves women in my generation with not much option and I'm not sure whether that's just our generation (I'm thirty) and whether the next one will be able to overcome this problem?

I think the smarter a woman is the more unhappy they are overall. I've several brilliant yet toxicly single women friends. They're all guilty of self sabotage. It's likely true for brilliant men as well. I wouldn't know as I'm a bit daft myself.

Wow, ya know, I never thought eugenics sounded like a good idea. However, Khalil's lack of intelligence provides some excellent support for the practice.

You've obviously more problems than being annoyed by men liking stupid women. To even publish this demonstrates you have a deep problem.

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