Why doesn't my boyfriend get jealous?

Maybe he just trusts you a lot! Some guys are super confident in the relationship, so jealousy doesn't really hit them.

Is it weird that my partner never shows jealousy?

Not necessarily! Everyone is different. Some people don't express jealousy the same way, or they may just not feel it as intensely.

Could my boyfriend's lack of jealousy mean he doesn't care?

Not at all! He might care deeply, he just doesn't show it through jealousy. Look for other signs of affection or commitment instead.

Should I be worried if my husband never gets jealous?

Not unless there are other red flags. It's possible he is just very secure in your relationship. Communication is key if you have concerns.

What should I do if I want my partner to be more jealous?

Be honest about your feelings! But remember, a healthy relationship isn't about creating jealousy. Focus on building trust and understanding instead.

Why is He Never Jealous?

'Black jealousy' is a term that we've all heard before. But what if it's just a mild case of jealousy?

This column from MsCyphrah Newsvine answers a question about the dilemma of a woman whose boyfriend never seems to get jealous. Even when she spends time with some of her male friends, her boyfriend does not seem to mind, making the girl feel as if he does not really love her.

Here's part of what Ms. Cyprah had to say:

…jealousy is not a positive quality in a relationship. It is a very negative one that lies at the heart of control and signals a lack of respect. He is actually treating you with respect, by appreciating your friends. He knows he loves you and that you love him, and does not feel he has to 'prove' anything, but you would like him to prove it by showing how jealous he is of you.

Ms. Cyprah
Way to go, Ms. Cyprah! I thinks that she hit the nail in the head with this advice. Jealousy is a negative emotion which shows** how insecure a person is about herself**. It's a good thing that the boyfriend of the girl who wrote the letter never gets jealous.

I guess her case is the other spectrum of women who have extremely jealous boyfriends that they do not want them to spend any time at all with other members of the male species.

My own piece of advice for that letter sender is: be thankful that you have such an understanding boyfriend. His lack of jealousy just shows how secure he is of himself and how much he trusts you - knowing that you will not betray him while you're spending time with your other male friends.

Shed that insecurity, girl, it's just a waste of your precious time!

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Thats proves that some men are not worth a reals woman love, but intead a dispensable girl that will play around with them

I think that sometimes women like to use jealousy as a weapon to get attention from their partners...if he doesn't give you the quality time you crave then you think making him jealous will do the trick!!!

So I don't see why u girls are so pissed off at a guy who's just being honest. I don't think he's full of himself he just is well aware of his emotions. As a girl I get the same vibe off of a ftf (friend to * )of mine who claims he wants a relAtionship. Personally just leaving one I feel complete understanding with the feeling of wanting something better or new. I think women want to change the dudes thier with rather then dump them. Men are simple enough ( not intended as an insult) to go looking for something else. Niether approach helps a relationship only compromising will. So the part where I rebut this male persons comment is that he should just tell the girl he's bored by why and whatever occurs afterwrads is at least moving foward. U should respect the person regardless of ur relationship with them and be honest. Quit being a pansy ya silly

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