Why "Men" Prefer Stupid Girls ...

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Why "Men" Prefer Stupid Girls ...
Why "Men" Prefer Stupid Girls ...

**By Bettina Winder **

Have you ever noticed that men seem more attracted to stupid girls? You see them approaching the ditsy women with some oh-so-stupid pick-up line like, "If I told you, you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me"?

The reason these girls get hit on, is not necessarily because they are drop-dead gorgeous. No, it is because they have a distinct deer-in-headlights look in their eyes that tells the men that they are approachable, coach-able, and stupid enough to fall for their lame pick-up lines, go home with them and allow the “man” to do all the talking and make all the rules. You see, these "men" (and I use the term lightly), actually prefer stupid girls over smart girls because they get to hold all of the cards in the relationship and they can get away with a lot more shit, because their stupid girlfriend, wife, whatever, will be none the wiser to his bull-shit.

A smart girl takes work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage to handle. Smart girls are not for whimpering cowards or men who are used to getting things handed to them on a silver platter. But in the end, the smart girls will add more to the relationship and to the intellectual and emotional growth of their partner than any stupid girl ever could. If you want a servant, a lap-dog, a trophy-wife, then by all means, "men"; pick up a stupid girl at a bar near you. If you want a soul-mate, a goddess, a teacher and a partner, then for God’s sake, have the initiative to pick a smart girl!

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Yikes! "...work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage... Damn, it's probably safer to work with the freaking Ebola virus. No, no, no, you have it all wrong. Men like hooking up with what you call stupid women because they are precisely NOT about hard work and requiring courage. It is easy, comfortable and without pressure. The ego-fueled (Lynnie?) superiority junkies are just a complete pain in the butt. No one, male or female, who feels like their ass is so precious that it should take... how does it go... "work, initiative, cooperation, teamwork, and above all, takes courage... to "handle" them, frankly, needs help, possibly in a chemical, psychoactive form. I don't particularly like stupid women. Stupid is not attractive. But, then, neither is the egomaniacal princess who will only deign to grace you with her company after the appropriate acts of male contrition have been performed. Come on, it's about mutual respect and understanding. Really, it is just that simple folks. And it works both ways. The pretty boy who is so perfect, bright and desirable that he exacts a 'price of admission' is "pretty" to the woman who truly understands the simplicity of the formula only in the sense of being "pretty" annoying.

I see this still rages on after many months. Honestly I forgot all about it but was notified of new activity. Let me clear some things up. Men are not intimidated by smart women. Personally I love it when a woman can talk deeply with me about geek topics I enjoy. There's something sexy about the witty nerd female who can hold a coherent conversation without bringing up the mall, money, or expensive jewelery. Men ARE put off by overly opinionated, snooty, and materialistic females. I'm sorry but that is how this blog/article comes off and it is all based on snap assumptions. You assume pretty females cannot be smart. You assume men like dumb women. You assume a woman who pursues sex is easy thus she is shallow. What about intelligent women who are open about their sexuality? What about beautiful women who are also bright? Those variations exist in our world. Methinks it is time you broadened your horizons and freed your mind. The only one oppressing you is YOU.

Coming from someone most would deem smart (researcher with over a 135 IQ), you are correct. Men are intimidated by smart women because they can never aspire to be us. They want to dominate and destroy us because they are threatened. Losers - all of them, and not worth the time....

Any woman of at least average looks can go into a bar on any night of the week and find someone to go home with. I've even seen some beastly looking women somehow manage to get picked up. If you're one of the ones who goes out night after night and are still sitting there when the bartender calls for last orders and can't figure out why, then maybe you should look inside yourself for a reason why men don't want to approach you instead of putting the blame on them.

I think the smarter a woman is the more unhappy they are overall. I've several brilliant yet toxicly single women friends. They're all guilty of self sabotage. It's likely true for brilliant men as well. I wouldn't know as I'm a bit daft myself.

I wonder why you used that picture for this article... as a kinda smart surfergirl I wonder if you just hate not getting attention. Also, are you biased against blondes? That's not smart, it *is* stupid and bigoted.

Girl you are so right. Just the other day, I had this guy come up to me (using a lame pick-up line) and I was totally offended. Lol, and good use of the "men" term.

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