Sizzling, sexy, confident, attractive, oozing with sex appeal -all these are the qualities which make a woman ‘hot’. For some men, being smart may be a contributing factor, but for the most part, it’s the outer appearance that counts. This is because men are visual creatures, and you need to give them that extra incentive to take a second look at you and finally realize what a hot woman you are.
In the tradition of the book “How to be a Super Hot Woman” by Mandy Simons and Emily J. Terry, All Women Stalk has compiled a list of -what else? -exactly how you can be a super-hot woman!
1. Think it, feel it and live by your ‘hotness factor’.
The cliché ‘It all starts from the inside’ applies when it comes to being a super hot woman. What you feel deep within you will reflect on the outside.
For example, if you’ve had a really bad night and you’re feeling grumpy in the morning -you will look a mess for the entire day no matter how expensive your dress is or how thick your makeup is.
Taking on a positive attitude about things, no matter how down a situation may be, will contribute to how you look on the outside.
When it comes to your ‘hotness’ factor, your credo should be think it, feel it and live it!
2. Be independent.
If you’ve ever read one of those historical romantic novels with Fabio on the cover, you should know that hapless females are a thing of the past. The women of today are perfectly capable of standing up on their own, without a man to rescue them like a damsel in distress -although it’s good to want to feel like that sometimes (if there are still knights-in-shining-armors).
If you’re in a relationship, pick up the tab at times; make the first move every once in a while; ask him out on a date that you planned -these little things and gestures when it is the woman who takes charge is a major turn on for most men.
Also, knowing that you’re anti-clingy and independent may just make them want you more.
3. Feel sexy -but only in clothes that you are comfortable wearing.
Being a ‘hot’ dresser does not necessarily mean that you need to show a lot of skin. Not all women are blessed with a model’s or actress’ body, which makes them hesitant to wear skimpy outfits. It’s perfectly fine if you don’t.
You can still wear equally ‘hot’ outfits in the form of ultra-sexy lingerie, which glides luxuriously against your skin. It’s your attitude in carrying the clothes that count.
4. Never think that just because you’re in your 40’s or 50’s -this means that you should give up your being ‘hot’ or your sexuality.
Have you ever seen Dame Judi Dench and Helen Mirren walk the red carpet? These two women are way over their prime but they managed to look even hotter than some of the younger Hollywood celebs.
This is because of the way that they dress, how they carry themselves, their confidence, their strut, their attitude -everything. If you want to stay as hot as these women when you reach a certain age, you should never think that you should hand over your French cut lingerie and trade them with granny, Bridget-Jones’-Diary panties! Be comfortable with your own body and your hotness will spill over.
5. Take up a sport.
We can’t all be super-gorgeous athletes like Ana Kournikova, Danika Patrick or Maria Sharapova but we can at least attempt to take up a sport. Aside from making you feel great about yourself, taking up a sport like swimming, tennis, volleyball or even the simple act of running can add sizzle to your otherwise boring image.
At the end of the day, being a super hot woman does not necessarily mean that you will be following these tips just so that you can catch the eye of the opposite sex.
Belonging to the ‘super hot’ category should still be about you -so that you can feel good about yourself on the inside -by looking gorgeous and scorching hot on the outside!
This book did absolutely nothing for me. Not only does it lack substance (it’s a fragmented list of tips we’ve all heard before, with no overarching narrative whatsoever- hey there are even repeats), there are typographical errors on just about every other page. Furthermore, some of these tips are plagiarized from the website ehow.com (see pages 64-65). Don’t waste your money (over $19 dollars of it) on this thin book, which considers the advice “you must smell like a flower” as a life lesson. I expect you could learn much more from any other book written on the subject, because I assume that most of them actually took more than a day to complete, and also hired an editor over the age of 12.
Also, don’t trust the reviews on amazon, rather, check page two of the discussion board and look for the more critical threads. I myself tried posting a negative review only to have it hidden, and I have seen five reviews under four stars suffer the same fate (some being deleted after a week, some after several months). This is because Amazon allows the publisher the right to remove anything they want from their product pages. So again, I advise you not to waste your money.
Men love women who are active. If you pick up sport like tennis, golf, or running… Like Nike (Just do it!) and the men will come. Be active and be up and positive and you have alot a men after you. What ever sport you play have a positive attitude and be positive about it! (You can really suck at it!) And you love life will hot!
I completely agree with Anne’s comment. I bought this book and found it to be full of tips about cleanliness and manners, not to mention repeated tips and typos. When I first began reading this book, there were so many errors, I wondered if I was getting “punk’d” and had bought a book that was just a joke. As it turns out, the publishing company is a self-publishing website, which explains the typos and bad writing.
I posted my review on Amazon.com giving it 2 stars (the second star was just in case there were girls out there that needed that common sense advice), and it took me 3 different tries before my review was accepted, to finally find it deleted.
Apparently, based on the photos taken, you have to be ungodly thin to be hot, have long hair, and dress like a hooker. I agree that it is in the attitude and the way you conduct yourself, however, you dont need to be emaciated to be hot. Look at Marilyn Monroe, Mae West, or Queen Latifah. These women proved that you can be sexy and hot and still enjoy pizza. If I was a man and took a woman out to dinner and all she ate was a salad with a squeeze of lemon, I’d think twice before taking her out again.
Oh Gawd… these tips were gay… any woman that believes them needs a reality check… I mean give me a break… ok thanks… bye
You definitely need to feel great to look great. If you feel crappy, you look it too! Changing your attitude and outlook is the most important thing by far. Just feel that you are sexy and believe it…it works!
Jealous of
Ashley: has perfect hair, eyes, and body figure, smile. Personality. She is genuine nice. I feel that she is a goddess. She is a big threat to me. If I see any female that has 1 thing that I don’t have I believe she is better then me. If a woman has a better figure and has a better face than me I feel like shit. I know I am pretty. But to me being pretty isn’t enough. I feel the need to be as pretty or prettier then any women. I feel that there is to much competition out there DON’T WANT TO HAVE COMPETITION WITH ANYBODY. No matter where I go there’s always a girl that I would loose in the competition. I know there will always be better looking women out there and that’s what scares me. I’m so insecure, I believe other women with their good looks and great personalities would be a better match for any guy then me. What I don’t like about myself is my thin hair. Another thing I really hate about my body my skin disorder. I have birth marks all over my body and it cause bumps, I don’t mind the birthmarks at all but the older I get the more bumps I will have on my body. As I look at my dad and his sisters and brothers they have so many of them all over which scares me. I feel like its going to make me look even uglier then I feel I look now. I feel that I won’t be as attractive as I do now to my fiancé. I feel that all these other women will have one more thing better then me. I like the color of my natural hair color. I like to dye my hair and I like the colors that I can do to my hair. I feel sexier and prettier, but It’s a expensive thing to keep up on looks and beauty. I get my hair coloring done 1 a year. After each time I color it the hair dye fades. And that’s when I start to hate my hair. I never seem to get my natural hair color back because the time it grows out the other half is faded. if I were to cut the faded hair off then my hair would be to short. I am happy with my long hair. I just wish it was shiny all the time and I wish I could have hair that would never fade and would always look hot. I wear glasses. And because of wearing glasses I have these dark circles under my eyes. It makes me look tired and ugly. I like my eyes but id rather have sexy eyes. I love the color green or blue for eyes. I have a size b cup and they are saggy. I wish they were perkier and more full. My teeth are kind of yellow and that’s my own fault for not brushing them. Even if I started to brushing everyday and took care of them better they never will be the way I would like them. I want them to look nice and white. Completely white. I want them perfect and I don’t want them to look like fake white. If I had white teeth id feel better about smiling. My lips are so small and thin and they are not full lips. I think people with full, even lips are hot and delirious for kissing. I don’t feel like I’m a good kisser. I love being kissed and I love kissing and making out even not during sex. But I don’t feel that I am a good kisser. I believe that I have an attractive body figure. The only things I hate about my figure is my breast, tummy, and ass. My breast are saggy and not full. My tummy isn’t flat like as if you were to suck in as if of your baby fat. I love the size of my ass but I hate how long it is and I wish it was just tighter/lifted. Now my legs are just fine but I wish my thighs were tighter. I have a couple of places on my body that just needs to be tighter. Even if I could have the perfect body that I dream of I probably still try to find something I don’t like about my body. The main thing id like to change is my face and my personality. I just feel that every woman is better looking then me. I feel that any women that looks hotter or prettier then me could steal my guy, just because I am not pretty like them and most women seem like they can get along and have better conversations with people. I feel that these other women have better appearances and have better conversation then I do. I feel that every guy and including my fiancé is or could be more interested in other women because I don’t feel like my fiancé is ever interested in anything I say or want to do. There are times I think something is important to tell him or talk to him about that he thinks is pointless to talk about or is not interested in. I feel like I am boring. When he takes out his phone or plays other games when around me I feel bad because I feel that im not that interesting and all im doing is just boring him. When I am out with him around his friends I don’t se him playing something or doing something else. He seems to be interested in what they are doing and never seems to be board. I like his friends. His one friend I consider one of his best friends that is a girl is really nice. She has a guy in her life too. Her name is Beth. She is really nice. I am glad that he can have good friends. I am jealous of all his friends’ weather if they are pretty or not. Because it just seems to me that they have better more interesting lives and stuff to talk about. So im always thinking other women are better then me do to the fact that I feel that they are either prettier then me or are more interesting ten me. At many times I feel like I cant just be myself because I feel that my real self is just an embarrassment to people and disrespectful. For instance when I am having a great time I usually will show it by being loud and wild. When we go bowling when I am doing really good. Getting strikes and spare. I like to put my hands in the air. Do a silly dance and shout things like oh yeah I get a strike. I really don’t know what I say but I just get exited and I end up saying it loud where other people can here me. When my fiancé kind of gets annoyed by it and tells me to quiet down it just frustrates me and kind of ruins the fun for me. I guess we just have different ways of having fun. I just think I am an embarrassment and I feel like im not fun to be around. I don’t feel like I am funny but don’t think other people think I am funny. I want people to think I am funny and fun to be around. I want people not to be board around me. I want to have great interesting conversations with people mostly I want to have all of this with my fiancé.
Sarah…
dont go for any quick fix books. I can tell you go otu there be more independant. It seems your fiaNCE IS attracted to you because he wouldnt be your fiance otherwise. I think youve got insecure … i was insecure with my boyfriend abotu a year ago. I still am about physical appearance i always wonder who he finds hotter. But you know guys have feeligns too they dotn just look for hottness. YYou obviously have soemthign that keeps him captivated you just need to know what that it. About makign him more interested, be distant, more reserved but not drastically. as you say you know your pretty and you have the same issue as i had, i am pretty and i have a good figure im very lucky but i see other girls and guys looking and get jealous and sad because guys look. But its eye candy that theyre lookign at, you need mroe confidence in yourself , You are obviously a woman of substance not a painting to glance at if you understand me. I’d rather be someones loved and adored fiance than a page 3 model thats “hot” anyday. About makign youself more confident, really do take up a sport of somekind with people you feel comfortable around, a few guys maybe. I htink you need somehtign to make you more outgoing maybe, aerobics is social and fun and tones up those areas you said your disapointed with. Go out without your fiance, let him know your an independant woman, i think hes so used to you and you being there that he feels he doesnt need to make an effort, He is in his comfort zone, adoring the fact that you adore him and im thinking you might be a little clingy. Independance going out on your own with other women maybe a few guys and doing some very active social sport will give him a nudge to make more effort. As you said about glasses, you can get contacts though theyre quite expensive. Glasses shouldnt give you dark circles, you might need more sleep and water. try switching coffee for a more rehydrating drinka nd get out to the outdoors istead of indoors on the computer that should help. good luck and remember every woman is beautiful sexy and most of all hot. You just need to unlock her and not let the general wear and tear of the day grind you down. ^^
It’s easy to have a good attitude when you look like THESE women….
i think you know that the average woman looks, well.. average.
It sounds really superficial when you say it’s mostly the outer appearance that counts. Don’t you have tips for women who don’t look like perfect 10’s?