By Heather LaFeber
Transforming from an ugly duckling in high school to a beautiful swan in #college is not how they make it out to be in fairytales. Granted, the #attention and free drinks were not without their charms at first. In fact, I craved the attention because it was new and exciting to me, completely different from the complete indifference I was treated with in #high school. I could get whatever I wanted now, simply because of this wonderful blessing of attractiveness.
But as I ventured in to the professional world, my beauty became somewhat of a curse. I am an ambitious person with a drive to excel professionally, but I began to notice #people questioning my credibility and professional potential. When I received a promotion at my work, one of my co-workers even said to me, "I'm sure the interview was in a room full of #men, right?" As if a beautiful #woman couldn't possibly be independently intelligent and successful by her own merit.
As I continue to struggle with the stereotype that beautiful women are stupid or flighty or unreliable and unprofessional, I also continue to use my beauty to my advantage. But with the good, comes the bad and it is something I must learn to overcome. I take these stereotypes and use them as my motivation to break the mold and prove to the #world that beautiful women can be smart and successful too.
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