Married Ladies Blog

Been married for 5 years on my second marriage although been living in sin with him for 2 years prior. He is 5 years younger and I would say that younger men provide more respect although I do, at times, wish I had an equal. He tends to be a bit immature mentally, but maybe I really prefer it to an older man(previous marriage, 4 years older). I'm in my early 40's and haven't had any children because I feel it would cage me. I've been satisfied without children, although I do have a step daughter. Being married a second time means that the third would be alot more easier. jk. I am more mature mentally for my age and have expected too much from this second husband. Letting this expectation go, I find it more peaceful and things come more easily without the stress of expectations.

Met in high school. We were good friends. We dated and lived together for 4 years after graduation. Now, we have been married for 12 years. We have 3 children ages 6,8, and 10. He had gastric bypass surgery and changed into someone different. The last 2 years have been terrible. I found out that he cheated on me with one of his co-workers. We have decided that we still wanted to make our marriage work and we gave counseling a try. It helped me some but he was reluctant to follow through. We are now working through problems on our own. Talking is the key to feeling close to one another and staying connected. It's gonna be a long hard road but we are determined because we feel like we are worth fighting for. We just got unconnected somehow in our busy lives.

Hello: Wow, where do I start ??? I have been married 8.5 years, my first marriage but it's my husband's third. He has a son who will be turning 18 in a few days. I married late in life, I am in my 40's now. My husband is 8 years older than I. My husband does have similiar values but he has a big problem. 99.9% of what comes out of his mouth is not the truth. The only thing I have not caught him lying about is being unfaithful. Heck, he even lied about wanting kids. While engaged, we agreed to have 2 and went on to select names. Well, he ended up changing his mind and I wasn't the type to trick him into having any. There is no trust, that went out the window years ago. I even just recently paid off his credit card debit with money from my savings and he till this day will give his ex-wife money and forget paying me back on the loan. Yes, loan. I have funded this marriage long enough. The recent $ was a loan and I made him sign an agreement. Honetly, I don't know what is wrong with me. Why makes me stay??? Any comments would be appreciated, thanks !!!