Are You the Perfect Girlfriend Material?

In the movie "What Women Want", Mel Gibson's character got to have more than his fill of what women really want. If the situation was reversed, do you know what will be revealed if we ask about what men really want?

Aside from C or D-cups, receiving oral sex and being allowed to watch games in peace - here's a glimpse into the traits that men want their 'perfect' girlfriends to have- as compiled by LadyThrills.com:

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Feminine, but Not Weak

Feminine, but Not Weak For me, this is already a given. Men are such visual creatures (don't we all know it?) - so you need to act and l**ook feminine**. But there's a thin line between enjoying a man holding open the door for you and throwing a hissy fit at him if you break a nail or something!

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Secure/confident

Secure/confident I'm sure that this refers to the cold treatment or the hysterical blunder that some men have to bear when dining out in public you accuse him of flirting with a blonde bimbo (lol). It's natural for men to look - but open flirting is a no-no!

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Looks High-maintenance, but Actually Requires Little Effort

Looks High-maintenance, but Actually Requires Little Effort In short, they want us to look great and not spend two hours preparing for a date - sigh.

Cooks

Cooks Is this a case of the way to a man's heart is through his stomach?

Financially Independent

Financially Independent I think that it's only fair for men to expect us to fend for ourselves **financially **- although he should not be a spendthrift, either!

Good in Bed

Good in Bed Check! Next…. =)

Happy

Happy Really, why would any man want to be with somebody who's in a dour mood 24/7? If you're not a natural bubble of happiness - at least make the effort to look happy while he's around.

Smart and Witty

Smart and Witty The great sex apparently wears off - so save those witty comebacks for later.

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Beautiful and Fit

You wouldn't want to marry a guy with a beer belly, right? Just as we expect the men that we date to at least make an effort to look good - they naturally want us to look beautiful and fit and perfect.

Loyal

Loyal Take his side when you or he is in a standoff in public - and **never cheat! **

There you have it, the top 10 traits **that men expect their **'perfect' girlfriends to have. Whatever your score is, just remember that if you're not already hitched, there's someone out there who's willing to overlook any flaws that you may have and embrace you for exactly who you are.

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Yeah...this is a bit superficial... and entirely too strict to the point of it being semi-ridiculous. Although I agree with some of it, for example being financially able to take care of yourself, and looking like you at least care what you look like, the other stuff can be learned along the way I feel....Chances are whoever you're interested in isn't perfect enough to strictly demand all these things from you...

i agree with all 10 tips.they really do describe the perfect girlfriend =] and this is coming from a female. as for number two, everyone is beautiful in their own way (if they have a beautiful personality) and everyones version of "fit" is different. so commenting on #2 negatively is pointless considering the fact that it doesn't say "must have large plastic chest tiny waist round plastic bottom and the rib cage must show" fit simply means, you take care of your body and you dont look as though you have "let yourself go"

What a bunch of bullshit! :) The real question here should be: what do PEOPLE want? Every one strives for an ideal, but are they themselves equally worthy of such? This is all superficial bullshit. What every decent person wants is to be valued, appreciated, accepted, admired, and respected. In the end, fuck the boobs, and the 6 pack, is she/he a great human being? What makes you a good girlfriend or boyfriend is what sort of human being you are. Everything else is vanity. And thank God, there are people out there, guys and girls, who actually love you with all your flaws.

wow - these are really cool tips! lmao to that crack about men wanting their perfect gf's to have big racks, be good at (& wanting to!) give oral sex - & letting them watch their precious games in peace. amen to that -it's really true! although there are some mature men who are willing to accept their gf's for who they really are - but they're either gay, gone or already hitched! what's a single gal like me to do? :)

Oops sorry there's no such thing as the "perfect" girlfriend. *my opinion* Pandora has a very good point, that i agree with. everyone has flaws, the true matter is how would you deal with those flaws. compromise or prioritize

Hi Daphne, you are right, most great men are already hitched :) But I am pretty sure there is your very own Mr. Perfect somewhere out there, and all you need is believe in it and your fairy tale will come true!

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