There are so many blogs out there full of “signs she is a cheater and signs he is a cheater.” I figured that we need to have a blog of 8 signs she’s not a cheater. You know, because there are people, like myself, out there that do not cheat. When I type in “signs she’s not a cheater” in Google, do you know what I come up with? Signs she is a cheater. So, let’s make this one special …
Face it, your sex life is good. If it were dull and no exciting or you didn’t have one at all, then I would understand if you thought she was cheating. However, your sex life is just as good as it was yesterday and the day before – no wait, it’s better!
Come on, if she didn’t like you and was cheating, then she would not enjoy slaving over the stove just to see a big smile on your face. She knows the saying that a way to a guys heart is through his food.
If a girl loves being around you, then it is safe to assume that she is not cheating. However, if she gets aggravated at the mere sight of you, then of course, this would not be a great sign.
I write my passwords down in the same folder my husband writes his passwords down. So, if he wanted to access my stuff (and vice versa), he could easily do it. I have nothing to hide and I am not secretive in that manner. If the girl is not secretive and does not hide phone calls from you, then she’s not cheating.
Okay, if the girl spends a lot of time at home, then how could she be cheating? She always seems to answer her phone when you call her. If you had a hard time getting a hold of her, then that would not be a good sign.
If your partner is spending a lot of time at home, it could be a sign that they are not cheating on you. If they are always available when you call, answer their phone, and respond to your text messages, then they are likely not cheating. It is important to note that if they are not spending a lot of time away from home, this does not necessarily mean they are not cheating. If they are still secretive about their whereabouts and activities, then it is important to have a conversation with them about it.
It is also important to pay attention to the way they interact with you when they are home. Do they seem distant and uninterested in spending time with you? Are they avoiding physical contact with you or not initiating conversations? If so, this could be a sign that something is wrong.
If you have a hard time getting a hold of them when they are out, it could be a sign that they are trying to hide something from you. Ask them why they are not responding and if they are not being honest with you, it could be a sign that they are cheating.
Sure, girls can have guy friends, but she isn’t going out with those guy friends at every chance she gets and you are always around when those guys are around. Come to think of it, her guy friends are your guy friends. She does not have a desire to have any other guy friends that you do not know.
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Her work habits remain the same. If she were cheating, then those work habits would start to change and she would be working at different hours. Take note that if she works in a medical field, then her schedule may change out of nowhere.
When you feel that she loves you and you can see that she loves you no just in the words she speaks, but in the action she takes, then she is probably not cheating. Face it, when someone is cheating, it’s hard to feel the love, even if you don’t know they are cheating.
Those are 8 signs she’s not a cheater. If you are being cheated on, then it is not worth sticking around – you deserve someone who will respect you. So, what do you think your girlfriend/wife is doing? Cheater or not?
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