Smalltalk is hard for many simply because they do not know of many topics. Well, right now, you are in luck, because I am going to give you some ideas on smalltalk. Prepare yourself to read 8 best smalltalk topics and if you feel the need to write it down, please do so.
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8. The Setting
When striking up smalltalk, many individuals choose to talk about the setting they are currently in. If it is raining outside, then you can strike up a conversation about the rain and how much you like the rain. Perhaps there is something playing on the radio and you really like the song? You can strike up a conversation on that.
Small talk is just casual chatting. You know, those light conversations we have when we meet someone new or see an acquaintance.
Small talk is like the safe and comfy way to connect with others. It’s also a great way to break the ice and keep conversations flowing.
Oh, absolutely! It starts small, but small talk can definitely open doors to more meaningful conversations.
Happens to the best of us! Just take a breath and maybe talk about something around you or ask about their interests. People love talking about themselves.
Not at all! Having a little mental list of topics can actually save you when your mind goes blank and give you confidence in social situations.
7. How the Day Has Been so Far
This is a great conversation starter. In fact, I believe it is one of the best on the list. It is easy to ask someone how their day has been so far, then as they are explaining their day to you and how it has been, you can easily go from there.
Small talk is just casual chatting. You know, those light conversations we have when we meet someone new or see an acquaintance.
Small talk is like the safe and comfy way to connect with others. It’s also a great way to break the ice and keep conversations flowing.
Oh, absolutely! It starts small, but small talk can definitely open doors to more meaningful conversations.
Happens to the best of us! Just take a breath and maybe talk about something around you or ask about their interests. People love talking about themselves.
Not at all! Having a little mental list of topics can actually save you when your mind goes blank and give you confidence in social situations.
6. A Compliment
Now, mind you, don’t go making it one of those corny compliment and definitely do not turn it into a sexual compliment. You could always give them a good compliment on their smile and take it from there.
Small talk is just casual chatting. You know, those light conversations we have when we meet someone new or see an acquaintance.
Small talk is like the safe and comfy way to connect with others. It’s also a great way to break the ice and keep conversations flowing.
Oh, absolutely! It starts small, but small talk can definitely open doors to more meaningful conversations.
Happens to the best of us! Just take a breath and maybe talk about something around you or ask about their interests. People love talking about themselves.
Not at all! Having a little mental list of topics can actually save you when your mind goes blank and give you confidence in social situations.
5. Upcoming Plans
Another good conversation started would be the upcoming plans. Now, with this one, you have to be careful as to not get too nosy. Asking too many questions in the beginning is never a good idea. With smalltalk, you can’t get too personal, unless they do.
Small talk is just casual chatting. You know, those light conversations we have when we meet someone new or see an acquaintance.
Small talk is like the safe and comfy way to connect with others. It’s also a great way to break the ice and keep conversations flowing.
Oh, absolutely! It starts small, but small talk can definitely open doors to more meaningful conversations.
Happens to the best of us! Just take a breath and maybe talk about something around you or ask about their interests. People love talking about themselves.
Not at all! Having a little mental list of topics can actually save you when your mind goes blank and give you confidence in social situations.
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4. Childhood Dreams
What exactly did you want to do as a child and how has that changed? Did you get to conquer any of those dreams or did they just fade away? In my opinion, I think this is a good smalltalk conversation.
Small talk is just casual chatting. You know, those light conversations we have when we meet someone new or see an acquaintance.
Small talk is like the safe and comfy way to connect with others. It’s also a great way to break the ice and keep conversations flowing.
Oh, absolutely! It starts small, but small talk can definitely open doors to more meaningful conversations.
Happens to the best of us! Just take a breath and maybe talk about something around you or ask about their interests. People love talking about themselves.
Not at all! Having a little mental list of topics can actually save you when your mind goes blank and give you confidence in social situations.
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3. Something Interesting from the News
Is there something that is interesting in the news? Is there something going on in your area? Current events have always been good conversation starters. So, what is going on in the world today that interests you? This will also allow you to see the opinions of the other individual.
Small talk is just casual chatting. You know, those light conversations we have when we meet someone new or see an acquaintance.
Small talk is like the safe and comfy way to connect with others. It’s also a great way to break the ice and keep conversations flowing.
Oh, absolutely! It starts small, but small talk can definitely open doors to more meaningful conversations.
Happens to the best of us! Just take a breath and maybe talk about something around you or ask about their interests. People love talking about themselves.
Not at all! Having a little mental list of topics can actually save you when your mind goes blank and give you confidence in social situations.
2. School/Work
Perhaps, for smalltalk, school or work would be a great topic. Is there something you enjoy right now about school or work? If so, take it from there.
Small talk is just casual chatting. You know, those light conversations we have when we meet someone new or see an acquaintance.
Small talk is like the safe and comfy way to connect with others. It’s also a great way to break the ice and keep conversations flowing.
Oh, absolutely! It starts small, but small talk can definitely open doors to more meaningful conversations.
Happens to the best of us! Just take a breath and maybe talk about something around you or ask about their interests. People love talking about themselves.
Not at all! Having a little mental list of topics can actually save you when your mind goes blank and give you confidence in social situations.
1. Movies You Have Watched
Many individuals can relate to movies, right? Sure, you may not like the same genre, but surely, you have watched movies that the other has watched. You may be lucky and start talking to someone that enjoys the same genre as you. For example, both my husband and I like horror movies. So, what movies have you watched recently? What were your opinions on them?
In my opinion, those are 8 best smalltalk topics that you should add to your list. Of course, there are many other wonderful topics to talk about with someone you barely know. In fact, if you have any topics you would like to see on this list, please post it now.
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Shakti: I never realized it is hard to find topic on smalltalk. That is why I am a chatterbox.
Becca: Great suggestions! It seems so easy but it is even easier to completely blank out on conversations. It's always nice to have reminders :)
kk: Im terible at talking, im soo shy! I dont even have the curage to say hi to a guy. Theres this one guy i really like, so wen he asked if i liked him, i said maybe, then he said maybe so i asked him out! Of course it was stupid, but it was the first time i really had a conversation with a guy, he said no because he bairly knows me, so ive been trying to grt to know him ndstuff but i have. No idea wlat to talk sbout, anf im to scared to talk to him in pulic, i need help!!!
Jessie: I’m always struggling when it comes to small talk, thanks for the great ideas! I’m defiantly going to try them.
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